Hi, let me start by saying I'm an average man who has faced the difficulties of dating, knowing how depressing and difficult it can be for most men, to the point where I really affected my psychology very badly. So when I say this I don't say it without understanding that.
Both women and men have cultural and genetic differences, some of them can't be chosen, and in many cases, people from one group would prefer the other not to be in some way. In any case this differences are not individually chosen and are usually generalisations, that not apply to all individuals of the given sex.
For example, high levels of testosterone are linked to being more prone to phisical violence. And hormonal cicles during menstruation are linked to PMS and all the stuff that comes with it.
Women tend to like big guys, and men tend to like not so big women.
There is no sense in complaining about that, because people can't change it.
You can ask for empathy, but you can't ask for being considered sexy. You can ask for empathy but you can't ask for people standing shitty behaviour.
Rights are about what people can choose. You can't blame women for having a lot to choose from or have preferences. And if you focus on that, you are harming men's right movement the same way obese feminists destroy modern feminism by complaining about men usual preferences.
There are LOT of problems in the world with women or men rights, for women specially in some Muslim countries it's awful, but there are still many cultural problems, not equal in all countries, but in some, beating them at home is still legal. For men, well, we have more suicides, more people in jail, most men going to war, etc, and all that stuff that has been said here. And it's not because of not being able to date, it's because of all that typical stuff "men don't cry or share feelings", "men have to be strong", "men have to be leaders or are worthless", "men can't be raped" "men can't be the victim when facing a woman". That is not directly related with dating, that is something people can choose, that are rights that are taken from us.
A right is something that, when not given to you, law should enforce.
Having sex or a partner is not a right. Even when it make anyone feel awful not having one, forcing anyone to have sex or a relationship with you is raping. Even when culturally there is that "men should pay for the date" or things like that. You are free to not date that women. Do you want to date them anyway?
If you consider most women in your place like that, and idiots because of it, then that's bad luck, but it's as rightful as a preference as preferring one with big boobs, or a tall man. Is it sad that people give importance to phisical appearance? Yes, but you can't change it, it doesn't make sense, and nobody should want to be with someone who would rather be with other person but is forced to be with you.
That is going against human rights (not women, you wouldn't like to be forced to be with a person you don't line either).
Men's right movement is important, and it won't be listened if you are basically complaining about not being liked. You can ask for empathy or comprehension, no more to be honest, I would even consider banning posts related with that. Attractive men face sexism too, for example, touching a hot man ass is not seen as half as bad as touching a hot woman ass, and it's sexual harassment in both cases. That's a right.
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