Men don't care about women with high body count if they are attractive

itsmemaggi · 2024-01-03T19:21:25+00:00

They don't care about them in what context? To sleep with, I guess they'll still be desirable. But to marry and start a family with?

TheParadoxOfChoice_ · 2024-01-03T20:29:05+00:00

As someone who knows a few OnlyFans women, trust me when I say they are NOT flooding in with men wanting to marry them. Yes maybe court, but there's a difference between a man wanting you for the short term for sexual or lustful pleasures and a man genuinely wanting to date and build a life with you.

Not all attention is always good attention.

ArkNemesis00 · 2024-01-03T20:40:58+00:00

What would you say if I reversed your theory and said that women don't care about a man being faithful so long as the man has money?

Men have multiple qualities they look for in a partner. Beauty tends to be towards the top of the list. Some will compromise for it, others might be willing to give up beauty for other things on the list. The ideal will always be to get as many of the qualities as possible.

Independent-Hall4929 · 2024-01-03T19:54:36+00:00

Sorry but men that court only fans women/sex workers do it because they are emotionally unavailable. Those women put money above all else, and the men use their finances to get their attention. They are not men with strong family values. Character of a man is important.

KOTS44 · 2024-01-03T19:20:56+00:00

Those men arn't high value. If you conform to red pill as a women, you do not want these men. These men are simps and will be desperate for anything. High value men, (the men you really want) will care about body count. You being attractive doesn't matter, beautiful women are in abundance and these guys will have the options to choose from. Promiscuous women will not be one of those options.

Yourwifesboyfriendd · 2024-01-03T19:08:53+00:00

You’re talking about simps

blushingoleander · 2024-01-03T19:45:38+00:00

Let's presume that you are correct.

Ok. So men will marry beautiful women. However, not all women are beautiful so what else do men seek?

Some seek a more chaste woman, some want a homemaker, some want a partner in crime, etc etc etc. And of course you will be better off if you have multiple attractive qualities.

There are a limited number of 9s & 10s and not every man can have the most beautiful women in the world, even if they ignore all other qualities and just seek out beauty. So when those women are all paired up, there are still good men to go around. You just have to offer something in order to get them.

Or maybe this is just a pity party rant you are throwing yourself here.

OddRim · 2024-01-03T20:02:20+00:00

Wanting to f-ck a p-rnstar or a harl-t is very different than wanting to marry a nice girl with 0 bodycount.

maybegone18 · 2024-01-03T20:37:56+00:00

The same men shaming the OF girls are not the same men who simp for them and pay for their content. I can assure you that both types of men do not like each other.

Leonhart93 · 2024-01-03T21:04:36+00:00

I will give you the reality for what it is: when a guy knows from the start that he won't take a certain woman seriously, meaning he just wants her for sex, then he doesn't care about details like body count. Because there are no headaches, problems, paternity frauds or baggage that he needs to deal with, maybe other than STDs.

I don't even do things like this and I still know instinctively that I wouldn't care about it in that specific case.

Cosima_Fan_Tutte · 2024-01-03T22:08:09+00:00

I would agree with the subject line if it said: "Western, secular, post-sexual revolution men don't like high n counts in women but ultimately don't care that much as long as the woman in question satisfies a man sexually and emotionally and her count isn't above his personal 'woah, too slutty!' threshold."

Also, middle class party girls and sorority floozies are not in the same category as actual prostitutes and strippers.

Atrass · 2024-01-03T19:11:03+00:00

No

Simps want to marry pornstars and prostitudes and OnlyHoes because they have no better options and they kinda feel close to these women. Not realising that their relationship is purely transactional in the 1st place.

+ madonna whore complex look it up.

Ok_Mathematician863 · 2024-01-03T19:31:54+00:00

I would really disagree that men are lining up to marry porn stars (yes, only fans girls are porn stars).

It’s more of a total package deal when men see beautiful women - they are willing to compromise based on MANY qualities, it’s not that they’ll completely disregard number of partners or lifestyle choices simply because a girl is beautiful.

We are talking about HVM here, not just any guy. As you’re probably right, ANY random guy will likely overlook this to be with a pretty girl.

When it comes to HVM, it’s weighing # of partners or lifestyle choices against many qualities: beauty, education or well rounded-ness (this doesn’t mean university), health, homemaker skills, the company she keeps and friends, morals, religious beliefs or values, the list goes on.

Abandons65 · 2024-01-04T00:38:41+00:00

Yea I’m ngl you could be the most beautiful woman in the world and some men will still be disgusted by a slutty past. One girl I was talking to had such a casual view on sex and her past partners I just got grossed out and stopped talking to her. She was decently attractive too, but I can’t get over that feeling

MoonShimmer1618 · 2024-01-03T20:32:46+00:00

i know i still get the ick if a guy is a manhoe no matter how attractive he is, i don’t see why the reverse wouldn’t be true

Jasperbeardly11 · 2024-01-03T20:26:32+00:00

This is one of the more misinformed posts I've seen on here

dlanderer · 2024-01-03T22:06:24+00:00

What kind of men don’t care about women with a high body count? I’ll give you a hint, these are not high value men. High value men are highly selective. They pick wisely. A man who can only get a woman who has a high body count to submit to him is not high value. If he can get a woman who is up there, who has plenty of options, and is inaccessible, then he’s a high value man. A man’s value is determined by the level of woman the he can get to submit to him. Similarly, a woman with many red flags will only pick a man with low self esteem. She shows men all of her red flags and then picks the man who allows her to get away with the most nonsense. What kind of man do you think she’s picking? If you don’t have many red flags as a woman, and you have really clear boundaries, you attract a similar man because a man with boundaries can only be with a woman without many red flags because they’re a perfect match. She doesn’t do too much, he doesn’t tolerate too much. They work together. If you have a high body count, the man you are with is a simp with low self esteem and low value. Period.

Justwatchinitallgoby · 2024-01-03T22:10:29+00:00

Marry them? Because they tell the girl’s that?

I’d wait for the wedding ceremony before making that claim.

KingOfTheNightfort · 2024-01-03T22:27:21+00:00

I don't care about the looks if a woman has a high body count. Men who care more about looks than high body count are superficial men who are not high value.

aussiedollface2 · 2024-01-04T09:39:55+00:00

I’ve seen some men believe what they want to believe with regards to attractive women. I know a very attractive girl, good family, studying accounting. She had SO MANY serial monogamy situations that her count was really very high. Men interestingly turned a blind eye to this and she married well and now has kids.

MattAndMarg · 2024-01-04T12:12:17+00:00

So, I’m a guy and I’ve been married for 8 years now. My wife and I are living the American dream some would say. In every relationship, both people have different needs. It can be a need for fun, a need for sex a need to be in a peaceful environment and I can go on and on because there are a lot of needs out there. You need to care about your partners needs and he needs to care about yours needs. You have to have good communication. If I had a choice between an ugly woman who cares about me and my needs and a beautiful woman who didn’t care about my needs, I’m going with the ugly one!!!

Unusual-Jellyfish-54 · 2024-01-03T21:57:02+00:00

Disregarding the part about only fans (which I don't think is true that those girls have high value men wanting to marry them) if we talk about normal beautiful girls with a body count on the higher side who don't show signs of being promiscuous in the present, I agree that a HVM won't necessarily care too much. The guys that care too much about that are insecure men who have fear of being cheated on or moralist religious men, which are not the kind of men you would want to marry anyways. Of course I'm not talking about an extremely high body count, or a publicly explicit one, like in the case of an only fans mode or porn star, that would be appalling for most people. But I've heard HVM say that as long as she's beautiful, enjoys sex and is faithful to them, they don't care. They even said that it can be a good thing if it means she's good in bed, and it can be a downside having a very low body count if she's a prude in bed. So imo it's true, body count is not really a thing in the outside world, just looks and attitude. They of course would value a virginal girl but it has to be something that adds on to a whole package, it's not very important on its own. It's only important in the manosphere... And true HVM are not in the manosphere sorry not sorry.

Professional-Run-471 · 2024-01-04T08:53:52+00:00

Men would fuck an attractive whore, but still wouldn't want a relationship with her

A high body count is extremely repulsive and negates any beauty

EditorOk4262 · 2024-01-04T12:24:28+00:00

Not the men that the want, these dudes are usually lames or desperate.

undercovertrad · 2024-01-04T18:54:32+00:00

My husband wouldn’t have married any woman with an N-count dramatically higher than his. Slept with for fun, maybe but still cautiously. But definitely not putting a ring on it and bringing her home to meet the conservative family.

AnonTheGreat01 · 2024-01-04T20:31:26+00:00

1) Low value men don't care at all, yes. But women don't want those losers.

2) High value men don't care if it's casual. Most of them will however absolutely avoid them for LTRs.

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JGJG666 · 2024-04-24T18:24:46+00:00

It’s the complete opposite. A woman who is a 9 or 10 on 1-10 scale of physically attractive is still disqualified for marriage typically if she has a promiscuous past. A woman who is only 6 or even 5 on looks scale can still secure a top tier husband if she has little to no bodycount and is cooperative, agreeable, traditional.

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Title: Men don't care about women with high body count if they are attractive

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Full text: you dont need to be smart to point out that, but if a woman is really beautiful, they won't care about their past since men are visual creatures, it's just a cope that they care about a woman not being promiscuous. That's why onlyfans women if they're beautiful, there are a lot of men courting them, and wanting to marry them..

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Lmao. Cope.

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