Three weeks of seduction. Girls are way more direct than i am apparently.

kutgiraf · 2022-03-05T12:08:00+00:00

Well did u pound or what

kaidezen · 2022-03-05T12:35:56+00:00

Haha, I think this is very normal. Like you said, you only started 3 weeks ago!

Those are amazing results BTW. So, with time you'll just get used to figuring out how forward each girl wants you to be. But usually (especially if you live in the city), girls prefer guys who are forward and bold.

But bro, if they're making moves on you like that I don't think you need many tips haha. Just keep the hustle going

nikitodoggy · 2022-03-05T13:49:38+00:00

With due respect, you sure are very attractive to get those results. I don’t think this is valid for most of men

ExtremeNihilism · 2022-03-05T14:35:14+00:00

Dude, they are all over the place and expect you to read their minds. It's crazy. I've had similar experiences before.

beerbelly006 · 2022-03-05T13:21:35+00:00

What the fuck did you do please help us losers out here

Yanksfan28gg · 2022-03-05T15:22:19+00:00

So u just started trying with girls three weeks ago and you’ve been on 4 dates and already fucked? Fml man…

YouGotTangoed · 2022-03-05T15:27:49+00:00

Congrats bro, after working on yourself for 10 years girls should be super attracted to you. Now you need to train your seduction skills to not just be a boring attractive dude, and get even hotter girls

BangaiiWatchman · 2022-03-05T13:43:33+00:00

How’d you turn things around so fast?

krispykreme01 · 2022-03-05T16:56:42+00:00

In the west women are becoming my more masculine while men are becoming more feminine. Because of social media and women sexual liberation, all that sort of stuff lol.

cormacru999 · 2022-03-06T02:00:02+00:00

Its important to remember that there is never going to be a set way to flirt, date or have sex. Everyone is different, so even if a method works with one woman, it won't necessarily work with another. But again, I say this all the time, many of you young men research & speak to other men, as opposed to women, & you're always caught off guard about what women say, do, want, etc. If you spent more time following women who post about these things reading the articles, blogs & essays they write, women these days are constantly sharing their experiences & point of view & if, as a man, you are more aware of those things, you'll be 10 steps ahead of most men. You seem to be reading some data & then trying to implement that data, then you're surprised it didn't work, then had to adjust your behavior. Stop trying to game it out. Wait to see what they want & you can always just ask women what they are looking for, you don't need to be a detective. Open communication is fine.

HeavenPiercingMan · 2022-03-05T13:55:17+00:00

Well done you're doing the two rules very well

HeavenPiercingMan · 2022-03-05T16:39:32+00:00

In before the blackpiller comments saying "u must be rich or tall"

ChewyButterMilk · 2022-03-05T16:19:03+00:00

Which James marshal video did you watch? I’ve seen some of them but I don’t remember him talking about approach anxiety

Archyblackcat · 2022-03-05T16:22:31+00:00

You read “models” ?? Is there a free pdf version of the book somewhere ?

Donald-Trompf · 2022-03-05T17:08:44+00:00

A real mf outta here, u doing great

loofyd · 2022-03-05T17:48:25+00:00

I watched one course of someone named james marshall

can you tell me which course did you watch ? a Youtube link would be splendid !

And your reputation matters. Big time

can you elaborate ?

You should be talking about nothing, like Seinfeld:))

a bit more detail would be greatly appreciated !

Last question - were all these girls Cold Approaches ? or how did you meet them ?

2022-03-06T05:05:11+00:00

Yessir. Happens more as you get older and women get approached less (the women your age). Remember, girls are only human. They get just as horny as we do. Probably moreso.

anamertis · 2022-03-05T13:42:21+00:00

Where the hell do u meet so many women

2022-03-05T13:53:31+00:00

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Intelligent-Dingo-64 · 2022-03-05T15:36:45+00:00

i am afraid of approaching girls again after i got rejected two times , i was ultra nice guy in technical words a "loser" :)

Ahmed104 · 2022-03-05T16:46:20+00:00

what u mean by read models ?

Ianscorp · 2022-03-06T07:18:51+00:00

Bro, that's wonderful. I am facing block to generate attraction in conversation after saying hi. Can we have a quick call and if you can guide how to make her take moves in couple of minutes in conversation. Email me on [email protected]. or reach me at telegram.

mandalastar888 · 2022-03-05T18:51:37+00:00

Correction women not girls. Girls are under 18

AuremYT · 2022-03-05T14:05:11+00:00

Idk what the context of this is. Stated what for example?

2022-03-05T14:39:52+00:00

what do you look like? genuinely curious

2022-03-05T14:41:57+00:00

How man how !!!

8myself · 2022-03-05T14:42:56+00:00

this seems like rule 1 and rule 2 to me.

Commercial_Habit_923 · 2022-03-05T14:50:09+00:00

Did you get these dates from Online dating? Or cold approaches?

throwawaybclmao · 2022-03-05T15:22:28+00:00

Are you direct with your intentions and/or how do you flirt with them to let them know you're interested? Would you start off the conversation being flirtatious or get to know her, get her comfortable first then start flirting?

2022-03-05T15:38:19+00:00

damn congrats man you are smashing it literally how are you meeting these girls just cold approach?

Lazy-Environment7669 · 2022-03-05T15:39:55+00:00

I read models ? What's that ? Can you share some info about it ?

Casanova-Quinn · 2022-03-05T17:16:54+00:00

I always thought there is a slow progress from a date to banging.

I think this is one of bigger epiphanies men have when they start learning seduction. So many men are caught up in the "nice guy" mindset that dating is a long process and that women want to wait weeks/months for sex. That illusion quickly shatters once you start banging women within 3 dates, or just straight off of Tinder lol.

macroxela · 2022-03-05T17:21:08+00:00

Conversation topics depend on where you're from and where you live. In America, you definitely avoid serious topics. In most of Europe, if you don't talk about serious topics you're not getting a second date.

Delevingner12 · 2022-03-05T17:26:18+00:00

What is reading models ?

Organic_Pack1211 · 2022-03-05T17:34:38+00:00

What did you mean by “reputation matters”

JackLee05 · 2022-03-05T18:01:10+00:00

Can we see you XD

Lifedeather · 2022-03-05T18:20:23+00:00

Nah u just got very direct girls lol 😂

Lifedeather · 2022-03-05T18:21:28+00:00

Dang your reputation matters, are you a big shot around town or some kind of hero and no serious talks about work or politics whattt?

MeWuzBornIn1990 · 2022-03-05T18:34:23+00:00

One of the hardest things for me to grasp was that girls just want to have fun. That’s it. They want sex just as much as you do.

BigChestCliff · 2022-03-05T18:49:55+00:00

What's up, man? I hope you're doing well, I'm a newcomer in this field. I have a lot of approach anxiety, and my mind is constantly imagining all kinds of things that could go wrong. Do you have any recommendations?

ratchetclan4 · 2022-03-05T19:11:54+00:00

I asked like 200 out and got 4 dates they were all asian and nothing happened, I’m a white male in the UK, got about 45 numbers and no reply despite having quick convos, long convos, every good approach I thought where they said yeah we will deffo meet or called me brave or confident ended in no reply, kinda killed my drive. Legit feels like I have no sexual appeal to women at all lol.

2022-03-05T19:17:58+00:00

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Successful_Rise_3696 · 2022-03-05T19:37:03+00:00

Yeah it’s pretty sad

Badboybuhari · 2022-03-05T19:58:59+00:00

How old are you?

DeJuanBallard · 2022-03-05T20:22:06+00:00

Yikes bro, this is God in the moment but is a very concerning trend.

triqerinoir · 2022-03-05T20:41:38+00:00

How did you meet the girls? Cold approach or app?

TuckerTheCuckFucker · 2022-03-05T21:45:45+00:00

Link to James Marshall course?

2022-03-05T22:21:16+00:00

Let me guess, youre 6'2

Revolutionary_Wind_8 · 2022-03-06T00:20:41+00:00

OP, sorry if I missed this in the post. Were these online matches?

cronasminate · 2022-03-06T01:46:45+00:00

If you've known them before this, it didn't take 4 weeks. Definitely seems like you are newly single, let people know you are dating, and then your social circle helped you get laid. For however long you've known them that's how long it took you to get laid.

wayoflifeforme · 2022-03-06T02:41:32+00:00

Where did you find girls to talk to?

I am pretty confident at clubs bars etc, but at uni work or normal settings I feel like there’s a social block.

I ask this for education purposes

General-Ad-5681 · 2022-03-06T02:57:39+00:00

Wym by read models

2022-03-06T05:33:34+00:00

A decade of self improvement? I’d be worried if girls WERE NOT interested in you lol

F-ORKI · 2022-03-06T05:38:00+00:00

What is “models” ?

Ianscorp · 2022-03-06T07:20:45+00:00

Bro, that's wonderful. I am facing block to generate attraction in conversation after saying hi. Can we have a quick call and if you can guide how to make her take moves in couple of minutes in conversation. Email me on [email protected]. or reach me at telegram.

2022-03-06T07:58:32+00:00

You’re way overthinking all of this. Some women want to screw, most don’t until they get to know a guy really well. It seems like you’re meeting all sorts of women all over the spectrum. I would enjoy the process and have fun.

FaithInStrangers94 · 2022-03-06T08:30:02+00:00

How the fuck do people talk about nothing for hours on end?

Title	Three weeks of seduction. Girls are way more direct than i am apparently.
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Date	March 5, 2022 12:06 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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