People liked my last Field report (https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/ok99o5/nightgame_approaches_eventually_found_the_girl/)
and also had a few Dm's, so posting this one from last night. Been going out every night since last FR. Last night I eventually pulled again
DIRECT OPEN: Open a girl at teh bar seemingly by herself. Tell her ''hi - just saw you a thought you looked hot and thought i'd say hi''. She's looking at me like im speaking a made-up language. I try another statement of empathy and am like ''I know it's a bit weird!, but you caught my eye''. She's still kind of frozen. She says ''oh. Ok'' and kind of looks away and turns her back partially away from me. I neg/tease her a little about being shy. She doesn't react. I think about asking her name and doing some cold reads, but shes made it clear she's not into me from her expression and bodylanguage (I know what it looks like now due to many approaches lol, and it really can't be turned around so I decide to just bail
DIRECT OPEN: I am in a bar that has a dancefloor, and as i'm walking towards it, 2 gorgeous girls are walking towards me. I put my arm out to slow them down and they comply, and then I tell the hot one that I think she's cute and I wanted to talk to her. She just grabs her friend and they both basically run away lol
DIRECT OPEN: I open a girl near the dancefloor who is kinda dancing near me. I'm trying to kind of force an IOI by dancing and gesturing with my hands etc, and after a few seconds she looks at me and we make eye contact. I move in like I just noticed her and I tell her she's cute. She just looks at me with a kinda neutral expression (better than angry I guess!). I make a cold read and she just spins around and dances away lol.
INDIRECT OPEN: I open 2 girls at the bar and rock an old school opinion opener. One of them laughs and the other is just passive. I ask them how they know each other and we do the usual names, ages stuff. I try to cram in a cold read based on her tattoos. I'm not sensing any attraction, and they just seem like social/friendly girls. I chat a little more and throw in a few little dhv stories, but I can sense that i'm not their type. I decide to test the waters and throw a statement of intent, but the interaction kind of instantly stalls there - like she doesn't want to lead me on and she kind of stops talking really. I try to plow a bit more but she ejects with her friends after a while. I think I wasn't her type and so she was happy to banter with me, but didn't want me trying to push it forward with her at all (didn't want anything sexual. No big deal. On to the next)
INDIRECT/DIRECT: It's late and most bars have just closed. I see a hot girl on a bench sitting by herself. I open her and tease her massive handbag or something, and I just sit next to her. I ask how her night was, and then I tell her 'Actually, I just wanted to talk to you because I thought you looked quite nice!''. She laughed and said 'That's cute, but you're not my type. Sorry''. I banter with her a little bit to make sure it's not a test. Make some cold reads and slip in a DHV but after a few mins it's clear that she wasn't playing. I eject
INDIRECT/DIRECT - I spot a cute girl and put myself in her area. She asks me if I have a lighter. I say 'no' and then I ask her how her night is going. She's friendly. I tell her that my friend just ditched me and ask her if I can hang with her until I leave soon. She says 'yes' adn we start to chat. I go to the bar and buy a drink for me, her and her female friend. We all chat. We start to dance. I start to get handsy and we kiss. I pull away and we carry on chatting and dancing. I tried to kiss her again and she said something like 'stop trying to kiss me' lol. I thought i'd blew it here, but soon after we were grinding again. SOme guy she knows came up to me and congratulated me for pulling her lol. (she's hot and i'm not!). Her female friend is dancing with that guy now and we are now chatting again. Just asking her all kinds of questions. Favourite foods and anything that comes to my head. It's getting late and I tell her i'm going soon and she should come. She agrees. We hop in a cab and go back to my place and i manage to close her
edit: My approaches were more direct in this FR than the last one. I tend to open indirect usually but I like to mix it up based on how I feel. IN my experience it really doesn't matter whether you go direct or indirect or a whatever. And I ended up scoring both times anyway. But I like to mix it up from time to time
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