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So I live with girls for a while now and thought I would share some of the observations that I've made that also helped me to beat my approach anxiety.

The only intention of this post is to show guys who put women on pedestal that women are actually insecure and should be treated the normal way, and not like a rare diamond.

So let's do it:

  • they talk about people all the time. It is very rare that I hear them speaking about anything other than other people and even if they do, they'll soon find a way to talk about people again. Basically a never ending gossip. This shows insecurity because they're constantly comparing themselves to others as well as judging them.

  • they spend at least one hour getting ready to go out, usually more. I spend 10-15 minutes. Sometimes they won't go out because they don't have anything right to wear. This, again shows how much they care about appearance and proves that there's a lot of pressure on their looks and therefore, they're constantly questioning their attractiveness.

  • if a man acted the same, he'd be a typical loser, nerdy WoW player. I've seen them countless times watching pointless and stupid TV shows eating crap food and doing nothing. If you think they all have amazing lifestyles you're wrong.

  • not all, but most of them look a lot less stunning without make up. Still cute but less impressive. When you see that girl in a night club and she's your 9 or 10, it's very likely that she's not that intimidating without all the magic on her face.

  • they all crave a cock. Never assume that this girl is special and and innocent and should be treated differently only because of her look. Although sexual preferences differ, they all wanna be pounded.