Is 24 too late to change?

IhateBarsAndClubs · 2024-02-11T01:59:44+00:00

Bro I’m 30 and don’t feel it’s too late

King_of_the_Fall_XO · 2024-02-10T22:54:40+00:00

I got out of a long relationship at 24. 0 experience dating anyone else. I’m 26 now and I have a Body count of 19 with a 7 month relationship mixed in. Just go out there and meet women and go on dates. It all comes with experience. You’ll fail a lot early on… shit I still fail all the time. don’t take it harshly and learn from every single experience you have.

The successes are so fucking worth the failures I will attest to that

Edit: the body count is 20 now ;P

vegancrossfiter · 2024-02-10T23:04:52+00:00

Bro its literally perfect age to start going for it

krallify · 2024-02-10T23:31:35+00:00

No. Most men wake up around 25. We are not like girls. They are smarter. I woke up at 25, my friends also, even new people I met and talked about that said that they found a purpose after 25. So, congratulations on waking up and realising you are a man now. Life's starts now.

Minute_Abroad_8105 · 2024-02-10T23:02:47+00:00

No, hell no you can always change

redspikedog · 2024-02-11T02:11:23+00:00

BRO. BROOOOOO.

YOU ARE CONFUSED. 24??? ARE YOU KIDDING ME? THIS IS THE BEGINNING. THIS IS WHERE PEOPLE START TO BLOOM!!!!!

Mitixz · 2024-02-11T09:05:45+00:00

Nerds who didn't get laid in high school or college have a huge advantage over naturals - they have something to prove and a void to fill

jayfoxpox · 2024-02-11T02:09:36+00:00

Absolutely, might as well become a monk at this point

The-zorro · 2024-02-11T01:26:02+00:00

No bro your best years are ahead! Just use a condom every time

RubTimely9814 · 2024-02-11T04:22:59+00:00

Like the other comments say, you wake up at 25. Source: im 25 and woke up 💀

dudelylarma · 2024-02-11T06:42:47+00:00

It's not too late, you gotta fake it until you make it, went through a phase in my life during my uni days where I started being more social, going out and getting laid, it's very exhausting if you're naturally an introvert, but I enjoyed it, it would be best you find a secretly freaky girl and spend some of your nights drinking and banging instead of trying to be out there if it's not really your thing

morphinetango · 2024-02-11T06:47:33+00:00

Nope. 37 and I keep getting better at it. 9 years of relationships, body count over 60. Once you stop judging yourself by your age, you're free to be young forever.

LMR_Sahara · 2024-02-11T04:17:40+00:00

I didn’t start going on dates much til I was 24

mister_k1 · 2024-02-11T05:23:31+00:00

if only i could be 24 again...

TRTGymBro · 2024-02-10T22:59:39+00:00

It's never too late. You just need to do some digging around and understand what is stopping you. I'm usually a big proponent of cognitive behavioral therapy for changing beliefs and irrational thoughts, but I just discovered it's predecessor Rational Emotive Therapy, which is more my jam. To check out some of the books by Albert Ellis and watch Albert Ellis Gloria video online.

kev1nshmev1n · 2024-02-11T03:57:19+00:00

I gave up on dating when I was 20, after a couple of relationships didn’t work out. Thought I wasn’t capable of being in a relationship. Was depressed, tried being a player but ended up not having the heart for it. 24 was when I put conscious effort into trying to turn things around, ended up being one of the best periods of my life. Started pursuing the woman that I’m with now. The changes that I made in the way I think and feel, while pursuing her, were so profound, she ended up being one of 7 women I was seeing at the time. It’s never too late. How you feel affects how you behave and how other people feel when they are around you.

Prestigious_Water336 · 2024-02-11T02:14:57+00:00

It's never too late to change. You're not even fully developed yet. Your brain and personality aren't done developing until 25.

SteveJabbaUK · 2024-02-11T08:02:18+00:00

I didn't start cold approaching until I was 35. It's never too late.

nordik1 · 2024-02-11T08:55:28+00:00

Dude at 24 you’re not even in your prime yet lol. Still 10+ years away

it’s WAY more than enough time

kiaeej · 2024-02-11T04:36:35+00:00

never too late.

SnooHesitations4922 · 2024-02-11T01:48:28+00:00

I didn't figure it out until mid 30s that there actually isn't a lot to figure out.

All you need to do is be polarizing.

Do not treat the girl the way you want to be treated, treat her how she wants to be treated.

They will never say they want to be treated in the opposing ways that please you.

I really like my girl. She's kind, sweet and modest....I am an indifferent aloof ass, the polar opposite. If I was to always be kind sweet and humble in return that would be no fun for her because I'm taking the role she wants to be in and making her feel pressured.

Just adopt a rule of thumb. Whatever traits in a woman you find to be very attractive, she wants the opposite. This is what "charming" a woman actually is. The dance of opposing traits that magnetize.

chestnutriceee · 2024-02-11T11:04:08+00:00

Yeah might as well just give up and be like you are now for the rest of your life

No wtf it doesn't work like that. You WILL change, it will happen without you trying or not trying. The only question is, in what direction, in what way are you going to change? Change is inevitable, you will not stay the same one way or another.

So to answer your question seriously: No.

Independent-Value-72 · 2024-02-11T13:39:24+00:00

A man reaches his peak value after 30. So. No. Lol.

BigDaddyReptar · 2024-02-11T05:08:08+00:00

Brother is not even fully developed yet this is the best time to get anything in your life together

Inner-Educator7975 · 2024-02-11T04:28:22+00:00

Absolutely not tf?! Why would 24 be too late? It's still early in all honesty never mind too late

JackSquirts · 2024-02-11T05:59:59+00:00

Absolutely not. Everyone changes over the course of their lives. Some changes take a long time, others happen very quickly. Most changes turn negative, but with attention, you can turn them positive. Dedicate yourself to improving in the areas you want to improve and you can get better.

Depending on where you start it could be fast, it could take a long time - might be easy, might be incredibly difficult. As long as you can touch base with yourself every so often and say, "I'm way more badass than I was last [week/month/year]" you're good. Note, it's kinda like weighing yourself every day. Check in to often and your perspective is fucked. Give yourself time to develop - it's the rest of your life we're talking about.

MOTAMOUTH · 2024-02-11T06:50:34+00:00

It’s actually when you start. Lol

Realdavidlima · 2024-02-11T07:36:56+00:00

You can’t spell learning & Lessons without a couple of L’s. Start now before it really is too late

Captain_w00t · 2024-02-11T10:17:56+00:00

Age is a number. It’s never to late to learn or do things, except for things that aren’t “physically appropriate” (eg: starting learning parkour or skateboarding in your 50s is very risky, because breaking a bone at that age is way more painful for recovery than when you’re in your 10-20s).

Peelfest2016 · 2024-02-11T14:24:55+00:00

The baby thinks people can’t change…

uuurr20 · 2024-02-11T15:19:31+00:00

All about the mindset.

moonangelmanagement · 2024-02-11T15:24:58+00:00

Dumb question

Aggressive-Error-88 · 2024-02-11T16:24:48+00:00

Never too late also lol that’s no time! You’re still sooooo young. Just don’t do anything reckless that could impact your health unless the risks are worth it to you. .

emeaguiar · 2024-02-11T16:35:23+00:00

Lol no

Dior-432hz · 2024-02-11T17:18:29+00:00

Hell nah! Start pimping playa! Take it easy bro ahah 👊😎

Emotional-Brush5563 · 2024-02-11T17:44:51+00:00

Bro i turned 24 like a month ago and im totally another person

rben2292 · 2024-02-11T21:06:51+00:00

No that’s hella young

Jake0fTrades · 2024-02-12T00:18:01+00:00

Sure hope not, I'm 29. Lol

For real though, I've changed more in the last two years than in the five before it. I got a job in a bar just to get myself outta the house, and it's done so much for my confidence and my social skills.

You got this!

whiskey-palm-trees · 2024-02-12T05:25:23+00:00

No, not at all. Just make sure the clothes are clean.

cofeeman911 · 2024-02-12T12:58:15+00:00

94 is not too late.

Spirited_Cheetah6748 · 2024-02-12T19:11:15+00:00

I see your post history, you mention asking a question whether one should give up, I feel the same lately, I'm 25 and I did a bunch of approaches that didn't go anywhere. I just feel depressed now, what the fuck am I doing, what kind of a broken dysfunctional person am I

morphinetango · 2024-02-11T06:44:56+00:00

Nope. 37 and I keep getting better at it.

Geralt-as99 · 2024-02-11T15:20:28+00:00

Im 24 and That's exactly was i started to pursue at this age and was successful with it until i was hit with terrible health issues 2 months later which was a huge setback .

Title	Is 24 too late to change?
Author	BigVisual5833
Upvotes	76
Comments	85
Date	February 10, 2024 10:44 PM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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