Im fine talking to women in a club or bar if I find something interesting to spark a convo but never approached a girl just because I find her attractive which I’m trying to change.
While eating lunch. See this stunning girl I hadn’t seen around sit in front of me. I do nothing trying to come up with an approach game plan. At one point I knew the more I kept thinking about it, the less likely I’ll pull the trigger. As soon as I got up, I approached her and my game plan ran out the window. Stumbled through introduction, tried to shake her hand while she was eating. After about two minutes of the buffoonery, I said “can I get your number, obviously I think you’re attractive.” She hesitated for a second and said sure.
Don’t believe in the whole waiting to text deal so I texted a few hours after. Still no reply, lowkey hoping she doesn’t because I don’t know how to proceed. My text game is as trash as my in person game. I’m 29 and have been abysmally single.
Edit: taking the W. Checked and realized my message didn’t send cus of trash work phone connection. Resent message and ladies and sirs, she replied.
Edit: text was minimal (from her part, stops responding after 1-2 replies). Decided to just invite for drinks. She said o to drinks but will do dinner cus of work the next day. Said ya, but can’t help feeling like I’m being used for a free meal here.
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