Over my years at different workplaces I've had to hold my tounge about my opinions and limit my jokes and humor because every word I say will be dissected and used against me at some point. I'm not an attractive man and that alone has caused some women to begin to find any excuse to nitpick.
I recently took a job at a book publisher dominated by females. They say the most graphic, sexist, racist and offensive things and we all know it's a joke but there is no way I could ever do the same without getting fired.
This was the case in the jobs I've had for at least 20 years. It makes it so I have to shut down my personality and it makes it harder to connect with people.
[–]Contranovae 152 points153 points154 points (5 children) | Copy Link
[–]Vanriel 45 points46 points47 points (4 children) | Copy Link
[–]thatusenameistaken 34 points35 points36 points (3 children) | Copy Link
[–]BalloonPilotDude 12 points13 points14 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]Angryasfk 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]thatusenameistaken 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Jaded_Permit_7209 146 points147 points148 points (11 children) | Copy Link
[–]Vegetable_Ad1732 41 points42 points43 points (7 children) | Copy Link
[–]Jaded_Permit_7209 74 points75 points76 points (6 children) | Copy Link
[–]Vegetable_Ad1732 22 points23 points24 points (5 children) | Copy Link
[–]Jaded_Permit_7209 64 points65 points66 points (4 children) | Copy Link
[–]TP_Crisis_2020 28 points29 points30 points (3 children) | Copy Link
[–]Jaded_Permit_7209 43 points44 points45 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]SpicyTigerPrawn 26 points27 points28 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]CIearMind 2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]SarahC 4 points5 points6 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]AngryTails 8 points9 points10 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]SarahC 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]ConsiderationSea1347 202 points203 points204 points (25 children) | Copy Link
[–]Tallguystrongman 56 points57 points58 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Rock_Granite 9 points10 points11 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]throwawayoldaolcd 72 points73 points74 points (16 children) | Copy Link
[–]ConsiderationSea1347 29 points30 points31 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]throwawayoldaolcd 3 points4 points5 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]foxsheepgato 4 points5 points6 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[+]GoodeBoi -9 points-8 points-7 points (12 children) | Copy Link
[–]throwawayoldaolcd 42 points43 points44 points (8 children) | Copy Link
[–]StillPurePowerV 18 points19 points20 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[+]GoodeBoi -15 points-14 points-13 points (3 children) | Copy Link
[–]NohoTwoPointOh 32 points33 points34 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]TheVideoKid112 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]NohoTwoPointOh 5 points6 points7 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[+]amboyscout -23 points-22 points-21 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]throwawayoldaolcd 16 points17 points18 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]Glork11 11 points12 points13 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]GoodeBoi -1 points0 points1 point (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]Glork11 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]WanabeInflatable 9 points10 points11 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]SarahC 3 points4 points5 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]espherem 4 points5 points6 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Rad_Knight 5 points6 points7 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Extension-Humor4281 1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]MozartFan5 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]mrkpxx 46 points47 points48 points (3 children) | Copy Link
[–]Flimsy-Rip-5903 35 points36 points37 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Isair81 5 points6 points7 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]CIearMind 4 points5 points6 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]RevelationSr 40 points41 points42 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]throwawayoldaolcd 32 points33 points34 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]Acousmetre78[S] 36 points37 points38 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]throwawayoldaolcd 16 points17 points18 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Vegetable_Ad1732 15 points16 points17 points (3 children) | Copy Link
[–]Isair81 16 points17 points18 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Eastwood96 35 points36 points37 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]CIearMind 1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Citoahc 12 points13 points14 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]Acousmetre78[S] 3 points4 points5 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]femmeboyrules 24 points25 points26 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]Gazmeister_Wongatron 16 points17 points18 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]UNR2 17 points18 points19 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]MozartFan5 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Electricpicanin 7 points8 points9 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Billmacia 11 points12 points13 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]ElonMastX 11 points12 points13 points (3 children) | Copy Link
[–]Gathorall 8 points9 points10 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Acousmetre78[S] 4 points5 points6 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Jack_Blaze321 1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]SoulRebel99 3 points4 points5 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]kellykebab 6 points7 points8 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Sea_Treat7982 2 points3 points4 points (3 children) | Copy Link
[–]MozartFan5 0 points1 point2 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]Sea_Treat7982 0 points1 point2 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]MozartFan5 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]MozartFan5 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]titanicboi1 -1 points0 points1 point (0 children) | Copy Link
[+]Training_Pause_9256 -18 points-17 points-16 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]Angryasfk 3 points4 points5 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[+]Doktor_Vem -11 points-10 points-9 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]Acousmetre78[S] 7 points8 points9 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]grhhull 2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[+]Proof_Option1386 -49 points-48 points-47 points (7 children) | Copy Link
[–]Ok-Visit6553 22 points23 points24 points (6 children) | Copy Link
[+]Proof_Option1386 -28 points-27 points-26 points (5 children) | Copy Link
[–]SpicyTigerPrawn 29 points30 points31 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]everybodyluvzwaymond 11 points12 points13 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Angryasfk 2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Gathorall 11 points12 points13 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]throwawayaccount8189 10 points11 points12 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[+]SomeWomanInCanada -17 points-16 points-15 points (3 children) | Copy Link
[–]Angryasfk 4 points5 points6 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Acousmetre78[S] 6 points7 points8 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]TheNumberOneBelland 2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link