Happily single women, what would tempt you to reconsider and partner with a man?

Is it a matter of the men you know not satisfying the terms? What would constitute a man that would be worth marrying or partnering with? And since a RP tenet is that women will be more likely to marry a shitty man because he provides, without revealing your income, do you have means for self sufficiency and does this affect your position and has that position changed as you have been able to care for yourself?