Im40 male and been divorced for little over 2 years, split for over 3ish. Ex wife is 37f. I have Been seeing a new woman for about 2 years. We both have 1 child each. Only in like the last few months have we been getting together with the kids. My child told my ex this and she mentioned meeting this woman. She also brings up the woman’s and her child’s name in random conversations. I didn’t formally get to meet her wife, even though my ex will insist I did. I told her i don’t see why they need to formally meet. That my dating life is none of her business.

If they end up meeting by circumstance, that would be fine with me My thought is my ex just wants to control the situation. Do you think I’m wrong in assuming she’s trying to control the situation?