Everyone,

I'm looking for perspective on comments my spouse has made in recent months. we're headed for divorce, so it matters very little, but I'm just curious and I see a lot of posts about "emotional affairs". We're also not that young (in our 40's) Often, during arguments (or even not), my wife would say things like: "I can get any man I want, they literally are lining up for me." (it's probably true) or "person x thinks I'm amazing; i'm real and refreshing, and he'll take me any day seeing as you're not interested". She has lot's of older male attention in her circles, and wants not for attractiveness. These are all mostly professionals that she works with; sometimes I hear their conversations and I get that tinge of jealousy - like why she never laughs like that with me, or never has these kind of conversations with me (like not in years and years). What does this shit mean? I know sometimes people say "things" when they are mad. But I've read so many posts recently where papers were filed, and then like 3 weeks later the ex is already shacked up with someone else. She has never cheated (that I know of), and isn't really culturally something that would be accepted. But I'm a loss for what these kind of comments imply about where her head is at. For context, I guess I shouldn't care. But, I'm thinking of my kids, and not having an even more unstable home life for them. Just thought I would throw this out there.