What is your game centered on?

SnooHesitations4922 · 2024-10-17T18:02:00+00:00

All I know is that the less I like a girl the more she likes me.

It makes no sense to desire a relationship with someone that likes you more for liking them less, so my game is centered around detachment... basically not caring enough to use "game" at all because i have actual higher priorities than trying to win women over, which is exactly what they want to see.

Electronic_d0cter · 2024-10-17T17:27:28+00:00

Self amusement, good intentions

WhatsTheAnswerDude · 2024-10-17T20:00:44+00:00

Being genuine, direct, funny, present yourself well, very touchy feely/heart on my sleeve (with NO fucks to give), emotionally aware and just make things fun.

Being ballsy and having humor/a good vibe and dressing well usually puts you way ahead of many.

KoleSekor · 2024-10-17T20:15:57+00:00

A genuine sense of self-love and self-respect for myself that gives me an underlying energy which women can feel.

A low, smooth voice, slow subtle movements, being good at dancing, and immensely comfortable in my own skin.

A confidence that is not aggressive or abrasive, but still very clearly there.

Having an attitude of: “I don’t ask for what I want, I take it”

Pretty much, it’s subtly communicating big dick energy (even though it's actually average)

Lord_Asmodeus93 · 2024-10-17T17:35:52+00:00

Self-amusement, Cockiness, and overall being Authentic.

HomelessMilkman · 2024-10-17T21:56:48+00:00

Not being afraid to 'stand out' and make an impression.

Guys are always holding themselves back and when they aren't, they're taking one step forward and trying to quickly 'retract it'. Play to win, not to 'not lose'.

used_npkin · 2024-10-17T22:53:55+00:00

Not giving a shit.

_aoiv_ · 2024-10-17T17:40:39+00:00

Ive been told by many i look like trouble, which makes sense due to my previous lifestyle. So i ran with the badboy game and body game. Im in great shape, top that with looking dangerous its pretty easy for me to get One Night Stands regularly

Dwerg1 · 2024-10-17T18:31:21+00:00

Inner unwavering peace, focused attention and being attuned to my own emotions.

Arquitech · 2024-10-17T20:53:22+00:00

Right now, I'm feeling a bit low in my professional life. I'm slightly overweight, but I’m still somewhat muscular. Feedback from friends and personal observations have led me to a few conclusions:

I dress very well and have a good sense of style, which allows me to express myself through my appearance. I also love using perfumes, which helps leave a strong impression.
Active listening is something I prioritize, especially once a conversation gets going.
Women have often told me that I’m funny and intelligent. In fact, I've heard multiple times that I "look intelligent," even though I don’t always see it that way.
Interestingly, I've noticed that many women are attracted to more bulky, chubby men, so despite not being in perfect gym shape, a surprising number of women like the way I look.
Observing my most successful friends, I’ve come to realize that charisma is key. I can be very charismatic at times. And taking care of women—being protective and making them feel safe. Lastly High energy. So i can say i learned this from friends.

So i guess looks, charisma, good at conversations would define my game.

SithLordJediMaster · 2024-10-18T00:04:22+00:00

Dragonball Sparking ZERO and GTA V

baby-einstein · 2024-10-18T05:34:28+00:00

It's centered around being the shy guy who occasionally does/says something unexpected yet funny and then goes back into his shell like nothing happened. This works well with girls I see occasionally, like at work or church.

Squali_squal · 2024-10-18T03:32:27+00:00

I feel like people have different strengths so it can sometimes be unhelpful to listen to absolute advice like "THIS IS THE ONLY WAY!"

My game heavily relies on witty banter and emotional connection, because that's my personality. All this push-pull high value this, disqualifer that, is unnatural for me and barely gets used. But teasing humor, witty banter, unpredictability, and vulnerability have been what got me numbers and relationships. I try to make the girl have a good time, like a stand out memorable time, then I like to bring her down with deep emotional connection.

I'm trying to add more physical touch, man-to-woman vibe, and sexual polarity into the mix to make for more sexual tension in my interactions, but usually that stuff happens once I'm more comfortable which is much later in the interaction, not upfront like alot of advice tells meto do.

So I think playing to your strengths works best.

No-Philosophy5461 · 2024-10-17T23:19:52+00:00

Gentle but assertive, humorous but not a clown, confident but not arrogant or douchey about it. And last but certainly not the least: hygiene and a good cologne/scent (usually it becomes most noticeable when you've broke the touch barrier.)

Affectionate_Arm_245 · 2024-10-17T23:53:28+00:00

I lay in many girls beds but I never do anything

Sonicmantis · 2024-10-17T17:24:32+00:00

I'm off the market now, but i used to meet a lot of girls at my shows (i sing in a band)

Historical_Maize3857 · 2024-10-18T04:51:32+00:00

I’m definitely not a “player” when it comes to talking to woman. But if I feel like we have a thing going on then I love making eye contact and I sound more calm. Now that’s if I’m just looking to get intimate.

But if it’s with somebody I actually want to be with then I’m just super friendly. Because if im in a long term relationship then I want them to be like my best friend, not a sex partner.

Dismal-Revolution941 · 2024-10-18T05:50:40+00:00

I try to find something that's a good conversation starter and then it feels pretty easy after that. I don't believe in pick up lines though because there is no such thing as one magical line that makes women want to go on a date with you.

Eezay · 2024-10-18T09:36:06+00:00

Honestly I just try to have dumb fun. I like to say outrageous and stupid shit while I physically escalate and sub-communicate my desire if I'm interested. That's pretty much my game.

Small_Pool_6604 · 2024-10-18T09:48:43+00:00

I don't know how to put it clearly. Like it seems what works for me is that I deeply admire/adore/care females of all ages from child to elderly and love to have them around me or with me alongside being playful with them in different ways according to the situation the kind of person is in front of me. I am confident, gentle as a guy who knows his shit and has it together. I am not afraid to touch,flirt,tease,banter,admire, even being vulnerable with women ( not being a victim to gain sympathy,attention or being childish ), neither i fear to be assertive and put boundaries with different women. Emotionally grounded and stable as a person. I like to learn so i also have good grasp on different subjects, a curious one. (looking good, well dressed, habing a good routine iss offcourse an add on) .

being cocky has never worked for me i am an average looking guy 5.7' not wealthy but surely competent .

i would say Charm>looks>intelligence & wealth(competency)>cocky will be my order.

Makakka2002 · 2024-10-18T10:06:23+00:00

Getting better in game is my only fuel women are a (pleasent) byproduct

cemj86 · 2024-10-18T16:39:34+00:00

Myself, my standards my plan.

It's never about anyone else.

Overall just truth. Speak my intentions and carry on.

Freevoulous · 2024-10-18T21:06:36+00:00

Cocky Good Guy with some lazy confidence and Daddy Alpha vibes thrown in.

Superb-End6273 · 2024-10-19T05:18:49+00:00

My mouthpiece/wordplay/finesse(whatever you want to call it) combined with a good sense of humor. My game is very situational and adaptive, so usually I'll go off of something she says or something in the moment. Also, it helps to be able to switch between a low, soothing tone of voice & my regular speaking voice.

staier0 · 2024-10-19T07:02:18+00:00

Models by mark manson is my game receipt. I started doing it before reading the book, but it reinforced me. Just being a good man and speak from my heart is what resonates with a healthy woman. Great success

Throwaway728955 · 2024-10-17T18:20:24+00:00

Looks make matches ridiculously easy for me however the conversation part is hard which is why despite several dates I only banged one girl in 4 years.

Title	What is your game centered on?
Author	Greedy_Huckleberry77
Upvotes	26
Comments	52
Date	October 17, 2024 5:04 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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