Recently I've been seeing a lot of guys give tips and advice to other guys about getting women to chase you and the advice I've seen has not been very good (at best) and actively ruining your chances (at worst). I want y'all to succeed and also I think women are kinda tired and want to be swooned lol. So here's what women ACTUALLY like coming from a woman;

  1. DO NOT mention or imply anything about sex or her "turn ons" at least a week into talking if you're already talking to each other and please do not openly hit on her immediately, I hear it all the time from my friends and me personally, it's icky and we hate it.

  2. Become friendly but not friends, get to know who she actually is but don't make yourself TOO available and ask more questions initially than you answer. Women like mysterious and charismatic men. Feel free to make fun casual jokes but please do not try to be an edgelord, keep race and politics out of it.

  3. Genuinely take care of yourself as a person! Hang out with your friends, go to work, make some time for yourself to go to the gym and maybe read books, play video games, have HOBBIES just do something so that your entire life doesn't revolve around trying to get women.

  4. Focus on improving your looks because YOU feel good, not because other people think you look good. Go to the gym and try to learn to take care of your skin, but don't brag about the gym and make it everything to you.

  5. Follow her lead & don't be desperate! Unless she explicitly says that she wants to have sex or make out or do something like that, don't just randomly ask once she gets in your car, it's quite repulsive. Not only is this a better look for you but also IF she did want to hookup or go further with you, it will create a need in her mind and make her more interested but don't lead her on for too long if she starts making it clear that she wants more.

  6. Practice hygiene and kissing. Make sure you brush your teeth every morning and night (especially at night) and try to include a tongue scraper in your oral hygiene routine. A tongue scraper greatly improves how your breath smells and makes kissing much more pleasant! On that note, DO NOTTT use tongue when you're kissing someone new, please for the love of God keep your tongue in your mouth! You must get to know your companion better and learn what she likes, keep things simple.

  7. If you've gotten to the point of kissing, start touching gently! I personally really like when a guy gently brushes my shoulder with his hands while kissing, also try gently gripping the BACK of her waist or stroke her hair while you're making out.

  8. FOREPLAY!! Once you've gotten past the makeout point and have reached the point of both of you wanting more, don't go all the way yet, instead bring her onto your lap while you're making out and gently grab her hips and move her back and forth against your lap (trust me this makes us go crazy) hand placement and a slow tempo is so so important for setting the mood.

  9. Be touchy but don't make it so that it has to lead somewhere! It can feel like a chore and honestly it's just hotter when a guy touches you gently and INDIRECTLY aka non-sexual parts of the body like arms, hands, outer thighs and gently caressing her face and STOPPING after a few seconds will create desire. Sometimes this should lead further, sometimes it shouldn't.

  10. Finally, Pay attention to her. If you're seeing a woman, listen to what she has to say, hear her talk about what she likes, incorporate that into your relationship, (i.e. if she likes "my little pony" or something, watch it with her) you really don't have to spend money all the time to make a woman happy, simply listen to what she likes!! Women are much easier to please than you think.