"Golddiggers" don't exist actually, it's just prostitution.

wtknight · 2025-06-22T17:14:47+00:00

Post removed due to OP being banned for incivility.

Icyfemboy · 2025-06-22T07:20:45+00:00

So when men get exploited they should take responsibility but when women get exploited men should take responsibility? Sounds reasonable.

klaire_bear_ · 2025-06-22T13:29:09+00:00

You give these men far too much credit. They genuinely believe that these women respect and love them because they are so wrapped up in delusion.

RayAP19 · 2025-06-22T14:13:58+00:00

It's insane to me that the consensus here seems to be that men are dumb for thinking these women love them and don't just want their money.

But the inverse, when a woman falls for a man but he just wants sex, she's a victim and it's not her fault.

Business-Stretch2208 · 2025-06-22T07:45:31+00:00

I can't fathom why a man who uses his wealth and status to attract a partner is surprised that his partner is mostly interested in their wealth and status. Men like to attract women with their money until it actually works

traction · 2025-06-22T08:31:23+00:00

You aren't wrong, but some men truly are that delusional when it comes to women.

Same_Comfortable_821 · 2025-06-22T09:26:29+00:00

Nope Gold diggers do exist. I have done it plenty of times behind a catfish profile. Told men I like them and get them to send me loads of money to “help” me lol. Most men think women fall in love with any man they give the time of day to. Thats why when women are in a picture or a video with another man people assume they are having sex.

Now imagine you are the only person a guy talks to daily. He is gonna think you have a connection and be willing to do things people do for people they are connected to. You can watch many scam documentaries that show exactly how these things happen.

Axis_Control · 2025-06-22T08:28:51+00:00

The men are usually stupid and think the women actually love them but they only want their money despite it being essentially prostitution lol.

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k0unitX · 2025-06-22T07:50:54+00:00

Older man seduces younger woman = groomer, taking advantage of her lack of life experience

Younger woman seduces older man = still then man's fault, he should've known better

So OP - in what situation do you feel bad for men? Or is this just a "I hate all men" thing?

Perfect_Sir4820 · 2025-06-22T12:00:27+00:00

You're disingenuously limiting gold digging to age/look/status mismatched couples. There are plenty of regular women married to regular men where the wife is a financially abusive gold digger. Why do you think the "his money is out money and my money is my money" trope comes from? Or the women using dating apps for free meals with no intent on actually dating? Or the sugar babies conning naive men out of $$? Or even the wife who changes her mind on having a career once the baby arrives?

AreOut · 2025-06-22T07:29:48+00:00

their 25 yo trophy wife doesn't want them for their intellect.

attractive 35yos are even worse, here and there you can stumble upon an attractive 25yo that won't use you for money, good luck with 35yos tho, they all "know their price"

Floki-AxeSide · 2025-06-22T08:17:05+00:00

doesn't want them for their intellect.

A lot of females don't date males for their intellect; it's sometimes all about looks. That's not a bad thing because looks are based on health, and one's health is their wealth. I have intellectually emasculated many of their boyfriends as a hobby and as an intellectual pursuit in discussions and debates, while not finding such females particularly attractive due to their history of having multiple different boyfriends.

I have also noticed that their aura takes on the appearance of their boyfriends, strangely enough, albeit in a subtle way and in mannerisms. Others have probably conducted similar research. They take on the spiritual energy of those with whom they mate with.

Emotional contagion
Eneregetic exchange
Soul merging

This may be the reason that throughout history, virginity has been prized and valued more in the female than a male, there is a a wealth of mythological stories and folklore giving credence to the idea.

Outside_Memory5703 · 2025-06-22T08:53:18+00:00

It’s not prostitution, words have meanings

It is transactional, and is a totally valid term to use

Remarkable-Bird-4847 · 2025-06-22T11:52:23+00:00

There are some men who have no idea either because they are naive or the woman is just that good at acting. I do feel bad for them.

But if we are talking about men where it's kinda obvious she is the trophy wife with him for money, rarely has anyone ever said you should feel bad for the man.

Downtown_Cat_1745 · 2025-06-22T14:04:20+00:00

Women should stop being hypergamous but should also choose better

Title	"Golddiggers" don't exist actually, it's just prostitution.
Author	duckingretard
Upvotes	1
Comments	101
Date	June 22, 2025 7:16 AM UTC (1 year ago)
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