If you are calling a woman a pick-me or a man white knight .But you also praise the opposite gender for being a pick-me or white knight. Then you are a hypocrite.

I'm going to use examples of women pick me insults here. Since people universally agree it's bad for men to call other men simps.

It's always so funny. When women call other women pick-me's. But then the same women praise men doing the same pick-me behavior lol. It's no different from a red-piller calling a man a simp or white knight for being a husband that provides. But also praise a woman for being a traditional submissive wife who cooks. Do you see the hypocrisy here?

I have seen Feminists call women pick-me for just talking about men issues or having empathy towards men. But when men do the same thing. They are considered great allies to women or perfect examples of positive masculinity.

Derrick Jaxn was a great example of a man who woman love. Even though he got exposed for cheating. But if Derrick Jaxn was a female catering to a male audience. The same women would be quick to call the female version of Derrick Jaxn a pick-me for the same reasons why they loved or praised the male version of Derrick Jaxn.

Steve Harvey is another good example here. Since he is on record saying "the man is never right in a relationship". And he is mainstream and very popular among women. No red-piller or female pick-me has the same level of popularity as Steve Harvey. That should tell you something here. This shows how pandering is praised when it comes from the “right” gender toward the “right” audience.

Some women love to strawman the definition of white knight. By saying men are just being called white knights for treating women like normal human beings. When in reality men are usually called white knights, when a random man tries to defend to women against "you are beautiful" comments. When the woman never ask for his defense.

This video in the link is a good example here.

https:np//youtu.be/QeEg7A2DMnA?si=RdIBAUxSxG74TiI6

Only difference is men are usually defending random women that aren't even their wives or girlfriends.

So there is a pattern where men are considered moral people or decent human beings for being white knights. This is ironic. Because again women also call other women pick-me's for showing basic empathy to men. But I digress. People usually call male white knights positive masculinity or chilvary.

So women are demonized for being pick-me's. And told they suffer from internalize misogyny or the patarichy. Again it's usually the same women demonizing other women for being pick-me's. While also praising men for being white knights.

If a man gets praised for being empathetic to women…

Then a woman shouldn’t be shamed for being empathetic to men.

And vice versa.

If we’re going to talk about empathy, equality, and “allyship,” then it should be applied evenly, regardless of gender.