Are older women easier than young ones?

thatkidnamedrocky · 2025-09-07T01:44:52+00:00

Less bullshit, better communication, more confidence

BeltWonderful4023 · 2025-09-07T00:55:36+00:00

When I go out with older women it feels easier to just go with the flow. The conversations are effortless, it’s more fun and there’s no pressure. I roll with it and I never regret it.

Grouchy-Alps844 · 2025-09-07T01:48:37+00:00

I'm 22 and ages are really no different than personalities. I've been with a few older women as old as 46 and as long are they aren't too cynical, they're much more fun than younger women because they know how to ask for what they want and also don't always expect you to lead

FixAccomplished9993 · 2025-09-07T10:36:35+00:00

Really depends. I used to only be able to date college baddies. It was nice since I'd meet some hot girl on campus, vibe for a bit and we'd end up in my car, their dorm or do it in a tent. That was all I did in school so it was very easy to just meet a bunch of hot girls on campus and go from one date to another.

Older ATTRACTIVE women are rare IRL but they are easier to meet in dating apps since you can just entertain the matches that are attractive.

They are just better lays too and I love visiting their houses. It's awesome.

Younger women seem great but they are freaking clueless lolol. The hotter the girl the more ridiculously bad they are lmao.

The best lays if they are younger are the sluttier ones. The girl good types are just too stiff.

I feel like the best ones are somewhere in the 25 to 35 range.

Babru-bahan-292 · 2025-09-07T00:53:13+00:00

Good question buddy!

Advanced_Hedgehog427 · 2025-09-07T02:10:15+00:00

They're easier to approach, they'll make easier for you to say something to them or will be more agresive with eye contact and such.

iFuerza · 2025-09-07T01:15:51+00:00

Go check out the ask woman over 40 sub Reddit. Just go look… then make your own judgement.

Life-Income2986 · 2025-09-07T00:56:01+00:00

Depends on you. If full of bullshit and bravado, older women will laugh at you though you may fool the drunkest / stupidest younger women. If genuine and appealing in at least one way they appreciate, older women will respond better to you on average than younger women in my opinion.

Neither will be interested unless there's something there to like.

cjunc2013 · 2025-09-07T15:24:42+00:00

Easier… for a one nighter probably. To date nah. Boss babes are impossible to keep satisfied.

Lisa_Kunz_Life · 2025-09-07T08:32:59+00:00

is not "easier", is "I know what I want and I take it when I want it. I don't when I don't want it". Time rulez😁

Captain_w00t · 2025-09-07T13:01:41+00:00

Age gap works for both genders, and it usually means that at least the older side wants easy fun.

My actual youngest FWB is 30+ years younger than me, we both want a good friendship with benefits, every other idea for a relationship is unthinkable. So, that’s it.

CrvCrx27 · 2025-09-07T01:40:50+00:00

There is less bullshit. They’ve been playing the game longer so they know the “rules” and the “plays”

Certain_Process_7657 · 2025-09-07T04:35:29+00:00

Short answer is yes. Women in the 32-38 bracket are substantially easier than those in the mid to late twenties. In that range, they're in the peak "Chad chasing" years and/or too career/school focused.

And women under 25 you pretty much have to meet them as college sweethearts and/or be at that same stage of life as them. A 22 yr old is highly unlikely to be interested in a 28 yr old. They only date within 2-3 years of themselves.

StopElectingWealthy · 2025-09-07T05:03:58+00:00

Ima say yes

ResentCourtship2099 · 2025-09-07T18:01:04+00:00

That's often debated and argued to be true because they don't get as much attention as they used to

ThreeArmedYeti · 2025-09-07T19:04:44+00:00

If you are emotionally intelligent, yes. Women 35+ are drawn to that and naturally good personal connection. I noticed how women are drawn to men who have something unique. Girls in their early 20's? It's rare for them to see financially stable guys in their age range but what about someone emotionally intelligent? They meet tons of guys who are but can't offer anything special besides that. Women over 30 are the exact opposite: they get hit on by
-managers and guys in high position who can't hold an exciting and good conversation.
-young dudes who can't find success in their own age group so they think hitting on cougars will work.
-Failures in life who want a mommy who will carry them.

It doesn't matter if you are just starting your life working as a burger flipper and driving your mom's passed down Chevrolet Spark, if you can hold a good convo and make it a bit exciting they won't care because you have the quality others hitting on them don't have.

However if you are emotionally not so intelligent and drawn to older women your best chance is partying. Where I live there are clubs older women love to visit. It's not officially advertised for them but they tend to like some specific clubs. The party aura will fade your weaknesses.

Enough-One5366 · 2025-09-07T22:03:55+00:00

I hear you man and honestly you’re not alone in noticing that shift younger people today are often more into digital vibes and quick interactions while older women tend to be more grounded and open to real conversation it’s not necessarily about being easier it’s just that they might appreciate maturity and confidence more because they’ve lived through enough to know what they want If your personality and way of speaking naturally click with them then that’s a strength not a compromise and adapting doesn’t mean settling it means learning what works and building your confidence along the way Keep growing keep connecting and don’t box yourself in based on age attraction is way deeper than that and the right energy always finds its matc

Ok_Organization5596 · 2025-09-07T09:28:49+00:00

Why dont you just try to hook up and see? You said you’d noticed interest.

Every woman is different, regardless of age.

Plastic-Okra441 · 2025-09-07T10:55:20+00:00

If take a pick of who gave me more attention and less bs at my age of 31 I take women late 30s made it easier and told me straight up what they want. I had more opportunities with woman mid 30 to early 40s idk why

YetzirahToAhssiah · 2025-09-07T21:53:47+00:00

Key-Watercress2283 · 2025-09-08T04:41:48+00:00

I generally get more positive attention from girls younger than me, while girls older than me seem more disinterested. But, it could just be the places I frequent.

crashoverall · 2025-09-08T13:32:00+00:00

Not really. Not in every sense. Not on every case. Probably about the same.

nordik1 · 2025-09-08T14:45:05+00:00

Hotter older women are harder because of how much experience they have. If they get a player vibe from you it’ll take some work

TheSigilite74 · 2025-09-08T15:50:41+00:00

De gustibus non est disputandum

However, yeah, younger women are more attractive, thus more valued at the "dating/sex market" by men in general. So they are "harder to get" in principle.
Even from an elocutionary standpoint, they are more fertile, thus more valuable etc.

Mouse_God · 2025-09-10T21:04:13+00:00

They are more grateful.

egeust · 2025-09-07T01:25:50+00:00

Definitely not

ChicoBrillo · 2025-09-07T19:42:41+00:00

I'm 34 and I wouldn't go too much younger than 29. Sure i find younger people physically attractive, but they're so awkward and unconfident in themselves (i was too when I was younger). I think older women are super hot but they usually aren't interested in me.

WhatsTheAnswerDude · 2025-09-07T01:34:42+00:00

Way too dependent on the women and your vibe and there's.

NonethelessWay too dependent on the women and your vibe and there's.

Nonetheless, the obvious is that older women obviously get less attention so that can play in your favor. Nonetheless just cause the flirt with you is vastly different than being intimate with them or consistently so for a bit of time.

Nonetheless Ivr absolutely seen older women be WAY more insecure than younger ones or more toxic....so again....it almost varies woman to woman.

I also don't think you're old enough to be on the "Daddy" status for girls in the younger age range. Maybe 30 and after but not late 20s.

Nonetheless, just gotta be real man....the comment on your "sophisticated vocabulary" makes you sound a bit sophmoric and kinda douchey. Youve literally only gotten into this world recently, lose the ego and arrogance a bit dude. Respectfully.

If I were you, personally I'd befriend any of these older women directly and get their feedback or have them ask their single friends whatever questions you'd have or wanna know about older women dating younger men.you don't need to pursue sex with every older woman you talk to and would like get better advice.

Harvesting over going for a proverbial killing stroke at the first move.

That's likely something you'll learn over time. Yes be bold and don't effing blink if you wanna go for a girl when you want to or need to. But sometimes it's also to play things back a bit first and then let things play out and then wait for particular lands to open up or present themselves and make your move.

Nonetheless you better have some depth and be able to hold a solid conversation and be intriguing if going for older women. Theyve already seen the circus and don't have time for bullshit. If you're gonna step to em do so, but you better be grounded as a man and be able to handle your shit and be steady. Kinda why I referenced the sophisticated language comment come off kinda douchey and would make older women cringe like crazy. A guy that has depth but could make her laugh would roast your rear end alive. I'm not saying that to put you down Ior be condescending, I just think it has MUCH less diminishing returns than you realize it would.

More than anything older women want a grounded man that's confident with a great vibe or personality. Really not that difficult. Just they'll run or get turned off immediately the moment you act like a douche or arrogant. They already seen a ton of that "sophistication" and usually it's too much. Depth is different from this though. One of em needs to bost. One of em only reveals the self when the moment calls for it. Being able to pull that card out of yourself and from under your sleeve when she has NO idea you could is WAY more attractive or enticing.

quinnstorms · 2025-09-07T13:01:02+00:00

If we're counting my rejections I'd say about the same. But we're different it may be easier for you.

I also learned that lying about your age helps a lot with any age so practice that and have a good reason like "It's sun damage" or "I have a Babyface"

Objective_Mammoth_40 · 2025-09-07T13:35:20+00:00

The level of creepiness that your question rose to here…it’s a 12 on a scale of 1 to 10 and my warning systems are all going off…you sir, your asking the wrong questions my friend.

Existing-Big-3039 · 2025-09-07T04:45:19+00:00

They are both equally a pain in the ass.

Smitch250 · 2025-09-07T01:01:38+00:00

Uhhhh whut

FakeFanatic · 2025-09-07T09:11:46+00:00

Why not peruse women in your age bracket, little bit creepy that you like em younger

Title	Are older women easier than young ones?
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Date	September 7, 2025 12:39 AM UTC (10 months ago)
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