What’s a high body count?

seduction-ModTeam · 2026-03-04T08:44:16+00:00

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Zepp_BR · 2026-03-03T17:56:37+00:00

Brother, don't go down that hole. DO NOT GO DOWN THAT HOLE. It'll only bring you pain and misery.

demo34 · 2026-03-03T18:05:13+00:00

Once you get to three digits it really doesnt matter

InMyOwnCornr · 2026-03-03T18:06:01+00:00

Who are you supposed to having sex with, if not the women you're so badly trying to seduce in this sub? Hmm? You can't simultaneously beg for lobster and shame the lobster when it shows up buttered.

JackSquirts · 2026-03-03T17:57:33+00:00

What's yours?

Warden18 · 2026-03-03T18:06:22+00:00

This is very subjective. If it was my significant other or a potential significant other, I'd think 10 or so was high. That being said, if I cared for them, could see myself with them long term and they don't have any STD's, then I don't particularly care what the number is. Only someone who is insecure puts any actual value in that sort of thing.

Phuffu · 2026-03-03T18:03:04+00:00

Who cares? Free love baby. We should all fuck (safely) to our hearts content.

nezahualcoyotl90 · 2026-03-03T18:08:33+00:00

Respectable? Sybau if you’re not getting laid

Literally_Autistic · 2026-03-03T18:25:08+00:00

Stop right there.

If there one thing the seduction community has got right after decades of peddling hypno bullshit and barefaced manipulation techniques, it’s the understanding that we can’t do what we love (fucking women) if we also judge women for being sexual.

Judge her motivations for sex but don’t judge her for exploring sex.

You might even end up losing a girl because you convey judgment accidentally.

Do not slut shame. We like sluts here.

Br0ther_Blood · 2026-03-03T18:18:23+00:00

Bodycount being high is very subjective to everyone, and depends on your age.

The undeniable rule of thumb is that if your body count is close to your age or above your age, than it's high. It's not perfect, but its the most accepted scale.

MoneyPop8800 · 2026-03-03T18:24:02+00:00

A respectable girl has a body count that is less than 5 (assuming she’s 25 years old). Preferable would be a body count less than 3.

Low body count is wife material. You’re right about girls being ran through nowadays. There are way too many sluts with 10+ bodies by age 25.

dismalprognosis · 2026-03-03T18:24:10+00:00

Logically, it doesn't matter that much as long as I'm not getting an STD. I'd want a girl to have some experience so the sex doesn't suck. I haven't ever asked though

That said, if I found out it was a super high number, I'd probably question how it got to that point

Orange_Codex · 2026-03-03T19:03:37+00:00

For early to mid 20’s what’s a respectable body count for a girl? If you’re considering dating them

Divorce-proof your assets and maintain your own social life and you won't have to care.

IGetBoredSometimes23 · 2026-03-04T07:40:12+00:00

You're on here to learn how to get laid but you're worried that you'll find a woman that loves to fuck?

ETA: Saw your previous posts, so I see more where you're coming from.

You've been around the block for a while and you have some trust issues with women as a result.

The best advice I can give is that dating just sucks when you're in your 20s. It sucks for everyone. Most of y'all, regardless of gender, are in your hoe phase. You're in that weird period in your life when what you actually want in a relationship is at odds with what you've been taught that you want in a relationship. The former is something that you only learn through the hoe phase.

Don't worry about the body count because it's irrelevant. A low body count can work against you, anyway. If you marry a woman that's been with two people, there's a good chance that after a few years of marriage they're going to decide to have a hoe phase because they want to make up for lost time. I've seen it happen. I've also seen folks with high body counts settle down into a monogamous relationship. So body counts don't matter.

The real issue is that you want love and trust is important to you in a relationship. And you want to be monogamous. That's completely understandable and reasonable.

Unfortunately the only way to get that is to just keep dating and fucking until you find someone that you want to keep around and who wants you around for the long term. There's no easy way to get there. It's a lot of work, a lot of dating, and a lot of fucking.

Good luck.

InMyOwnCornr · 2026-03-03T18:09:57+00:00

Side note - stop calling the women you're fucking "girls"

therealslimshady1234 · 2026-03-03T18:32:32+00:00

Anything more than 10 and its a no from me. Thats just entering histrionic personality disorder territory

Aggressive_Rule3977 · 2026-03-03T18:32:17+00:00

Respectfully 3 and it's okay if you are 4th but anything more than 4 or 5 will decrease the chances of having pair bonding for long term relationship.

YinMaestro · 2026-03-03T17:56:47+00:00

Under 10 for me personally. Above 20 is a deal breaker for me usually. I'm around 30ish at 24

Title	What’s a high body count?
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Date	March 3, 2026 5:54 PM UTC (5 months ago)
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