Idk, I’m a decently attractive guy, but I just can’t seem to get laid as of late if my life depended on it.

I understand how attraction works, I understand also what doesn’t work. I understand this is a numbers game. I also understand that usually it comes good & plenty when you’re not really trying.

Maybe I’m trying too hard? (Doesn’t seem/feel like it). Maybe I’m subconsciously creating expectations where there should be none?

I have a pretty high rate of initial attraction from women, verified by body language, eye contact, communication, etc. But getting beyond surface level stuff has been challenging. On top of that, everyone wants to text, and that is a weak area for me because my personality/communication style doesn’t translate well over text with new people.

This is all becoming mentally & emotionally taxing, I almost feel like giving up entirely. Just go monk mode, focus on my career path & that sort of thing, and just be okay with being alone indefinitely. Anyone else feel this way? Any suggestions on what I can change? I go out most weekends, usually to a bar or club, which isn’t my favorite scene, but it’s easy.