Been divorced for two years. So my ex calls me today to see if I can watch the dog while she goes to Palm Springs and plays tennis for 3 days. I agreed I would watch the dog. Both our kids are in college now. I pay her $5k a month in alimony. I asked her when she plans to get a job instead of playing tennis all the time. She becomes unhinged. Says she's going to look for a job but if I come after her to try and reduce alimony that is the lowest thing I can do. She said based on people she's talked to she could have gotten twice as much which is not true. I in turn told her she's the most entitled person I have ever met expecting other people to pay for her life while she does nothing to get a job. So she asked again if I was going to try to reduce alimony if she gets a job. I said not right away but eventually yes. She become unhinged and told me that would make me a complete asshole. She said she should try to come after me for more money. Can she do this if the divorce was final over two years ago? I already gave her the equity in the home and half my retirement. Anyone have their ex come after them for more money after divorce was final? Why does this make me feel like shit? I'm so angry right now I just want to call her back and ask why she thinks I should have to give her more money than I've already given her. Her parents are rich and she gets money from them as well. They bought her a $1.6 million home, and she will inherit a lot of money. It's taking everything in me to not call her back to lay in to her. She makes me so angry.