A link to youtube comment that highlights double standard of borderline sexual abuse of a 6 year old boy is met with reddits top comment: Essentially "Yea but he likes it."

CertusAT · 2013-04-03T13:59:47+00:00

Isn't that the same argument rapists use to excuse themselves after "fucking" a woman? Isn't that the same line of reasoning that drives women insane after they experienced an orgasm from there rapists?

No, this is much simpler. Because it's a boy, it's not an issue. Because it's a male everything sexual MUST please him, "he" wants it because all men want to fuck all the time.

That is also why a woman can never rape a man. These people preach against sexism all day every day to a point everyone is fed up with them, but when it comes to a point where they personally are not victimized or to gain an advantage they at best ignore and at worst ridicule and silence the problem.

Super_delicious · 2013-04-03T14:02:57+00:00

Ya because a 6 year old can not only understand what sex is but is mature enough to know what he wants sexually. /s

ChocolateMeoww · 2013-04-03T14:12:23+00:00

Absolutely. I don't see how anyone could see that this is right. Women's rights activists or Men's rights activists. Seriously, it's objectifying women. Now, a bunch of men flopping their dick at a 6 year old girl would obviously be pedophilia, but why isn't this? It's just wrong in general. Everything about it. This kid isn't a player but is just some kid. Seriously, any kid shouldn't be subjected to sexual abuse of this magnitude at such a young age.

wanttoseemycat · 2013-04-03T13:29:29+00:00

The original reddit post for those interested.

fwiw, the commend I highlighted here didn't last long once the original post hit the front page.

aprilryanx · 2013-04-03T16:21:22+00:00

I don't know the details of the abuse, but seriously, this is absolutely DISGUSTING. A six year old child doesn't even understand sex (he may not even know it exists). I know some people may think that 6 year olds thinking about sex is perfectly healthy, though, so I'm not surprised...

I'm concerned about sexualizing children. IMO, this attitude towards young boys is not too different from skimpy clothing and beauty pageants for little girls. I know this post is about double standards about abuse of a male child by a female, but have people lost their minds?

This is child abuse and traumatic for little boys. Someone should read a child psychology book before assuming young boys love being sexually assaulted by adult women.

Ciphermind · 2013-04-03T18:03:57+00:00

While I do agree that this attitude is inappropriate, a youtube video's comment section is utter insanity, regardless of video content. You can't have expected too much.

Darktidemage · 2013-04-03T19:06:11+00:00

Yeah fuck that sexism!! a 6 year old girl could easily be like "awwww yeah" too.

2013-04-03T16:34:36+00:00

Someone's parents failed at parenting. Everyone who was involved with this video probably had parents that failed at parenting.

But, I don't think this is the equivalent of men shaking their dicks at a child (gender irrelevant, because were not sexist here right?). Especially since men have the exact same body part as women in this case - the butt.

I think this is child is being exploited. What I will say next will be extremely unpopular...Children often have sexuality. I think this is where the misconception happens and why people say "Yea but he likes it", and that is a poor reflection on gender because society often allows men to be more sexually open than women. In this case adults are projecting that sexual view down on a boy, it's really tragic all around.

Whether or not kids have sexuality they should not be put in a position where they are sexualized or being sexual with adults or with anyone against their will.

Edit: clarity

7wap · 2013-04-03T17:57:34+00:00

Let's work to redefine "rape culture" to mean this sort of shit. This really is rape culture.

theozoph · 2013-04-03T15:01:26+00:00

Yeah, that goes to /r/MensRants.

Sarstan · 2013-04-03T18:19:02+00:00

I think the position really is divided in gender.
What I mean is men tend to favor the position of supporting sexually abusing boys ("He broke his wrist high fiving his classmates after he fucked his teacher" type things seem to be a male audience that state this).
As far as women, they do the same thing. The term "slut", for instance, is far more often used by men. In fact any sexual or so called slut shaming seems to be done more by women.

2013-04-03T19:15:15+00:00

Some of the comments in this thread are disturbing. Did I accidentally click /r/WTF instead?

mizahnyx · 2013-04-03T18:37:24+00:00

If he isn't really forced to do so, its really so bad? Feminists have the 'Vagina Monologues' scene about a woman recalling how being 'molested' by an older woman was 'good rape' and MRAs have the studies that indicate that not all incest is neccessarily harmful at long term. Maybe we can step over prejudices and instead of that, try to research scientifically, in which instances child exposure to sex is harmful and in which ones is a positive experience? There is even a study that was forbidden to be publicized dealing with this stuff, if I recall correctly...

fr1ction · 2013-04-03T20:56:54+00:00

Top comment has a score of 3 at the time of the photo, which means 2 people minimum agreed with the comment, either literally or humorously. STOP THE PRESSES.

Edit: top comment as of right now:

Sexualizing children of any gender or placing them in adult situations is despicable, harmful and disgusting.

so basically... yeeeeaaaaaaahhhhhhh, I'm going to need you to get off your white horse now, thaaaaaaaanks.

ImBloodyAnnoyed · 2013-04-03T15:06:24+00:00

Youtube? Really? That's where you look for a measured debate?

elmstfreddie · 2013-04-03T16:14:04+00:00

This is NOT SRS, man edition.

It's a lame joke that 3 people found funny on a site of lots. Just because they thought it was funny does not mean they thought it was remotely true.

Get over it and dont post this garbage.

librtee_com · 2013-04-03T15:49:17+00:00

Oh come on. This is as stupid as the feminists, pretending there is no difference between men and women.

Consider this following example:

How do you think the average adult man would feel about having 20 beautiful women waving their tits in his face?

How do you think the average adult women would feel about having 20 handsome dudes waving their dicks in her face?

I think it's safe to say that 90% of men would love the situation while a minority of women would.

I'm not say this video isn't messed up, or that this kid isn't being messed up. But this comment is asinine. There is a difference between men and women, and there is a difference between how a 6 year old boy and a 6 year old girl would be effected by this situation.

Title	A link to youtube comment that highlights double standard of borderline sexual abuse of a 6 year old boy is met with reddits top comment: Essentially "Yea but he likes it."
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Upvotes	533
Comments	57
Date	April 3, 2013 11:32 AM UTC (13 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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