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Partypuppers · 2020-09-06T21:15:03+00:00

and this is exactly why i don’t feel comfortable wearing leggings to school. cause men sexualize every fucking thing.

Unlikely-Marzipan · 2020-09-07T01:11:30+00:00

There’s studies that show the impact of young women self-objectifying themselves has on their performance in school. The more revealing their clothing, the more self aware they are of their bodies, the more concerned they are with how they appear to men and pre-occupied they are, the worse they perform academically. Kind of shows the political aspect of objectifying women imo.

Deadgirl1888 · 2020-09-06T22:33:42+00:00

too busy studying for an anatomy final to shower for two days or brush my hair random scrote: you would be so pretty if you took care of yourself. Yeah sorry I was too busy getting an A in one of the hardest classes to take in college.

ThatOneCuteNerdyGirl · 2020-09-06T22:43:03+00:00

Pffft I’m sitting on my comfy chair with a wine cooler in my PJ’s for class this semester. Glorious.

Unlikely-Marzipan · 2020-09-07T01:07:59+00:00

Yes Queen! I am just loving this younger gen coming out with this strength. Women have come so far in terms of having more choices, being able to work, not rely on a man, and to vote. But with the cool girls and lib fems those “choices” are being shaped into being a perpetuate sex doll for men. Oh but as long as you get paid $4.50 for s subscription it’s ok right? This is the mindset and movement that worries me for the future of women...

Then a Queen like this comes along and restores my faith again. You can just hear all the little boys tapping away trying to slide into our DMs “bu bu but biology! Cats! Old maid! Cope!” Watching g their brains break is entertaining (and of course I don’t mean the good men. The good men will agree with this meme wholeheartedly). I’m talking about the insecure man-children who thinks a woman’s only value is in how she looks.

MagnfiqueMaleficent · 2020-09-07T05:25:24+00:00

“Guys don’t like it when...” I stopped reading right there.

maybeiam-maybeimnot · 2020-09-06T23:00:51+00:00

I've been wearing sweats and a t-shirt to class since 8th grade because even then I knew: if I'm gonna have to be miserable, at least I can be comfortable. And I will never change that tradition.

sjefsiljuuus · 2020-09-07T09:34:36+00:00

In my opinion, I experienced that when I wore more sweats in class or in general, those were situations I was more confident with myself. When I was a teenager (now 23), I used to always dress myself elegant, classy and pretty because I wanted to impress boys. Now I dress myself pretty, elegant and classy so I can feel good with my self. Confidence is the thing that is really attractive, I dont have to spend thousands of dollars for some dudes that might like to enjoy see me with nice clothes. I only buy myself nice clothes if I want them and if only I feel good in them. If my boyfriend likes them, I only find that as a bonus, but its not something that is a requirement for me to get nice clothes.

And to add, to wear tight jeans all the time and tight tops / sweaters is just painful, sweats are lovely to wear and comfy. I feel the phrase «dress to impress» is most for girls / women that have to dress nice with the intend to impress boys / men. I dont know if you feel the same way, its just something I have thought about and it kinda bothers me.

EDIT (typos and to add): after I got raped, I used sweats to cover my body and to hide it, scared to get sexualized. Then I went to therapy, and got more confident with myself. Now I have sweats that are comfy, but not too big so it covers my body. I now have a lot of clothes to embrace my feminity and to basically show people «I dont need men to sexualize my body to enjoy wearing this, f’off».

favoritesound · 2020-09-07T04:58:03+00:00

And girls don’t like it when men think we give a shit about their entitled opinions on how strangers should dress.

biscuitbutt11 · 2020-09-07T01:18:43+00:00

I’ve had a TEACHER say this to me. Talking about how his college female students weren’t dressing up enough. Edit: We were talking on a dating app.

lost-smile · 2020-09-06T21:17:07+00:00

Oh yeah because everything I do is to make guys like me. /s

Scotsburd · 2020-09-07T06:05:01+00:00

All the while Mike from Physics is sporting 4 day old underwear, death breath and BO that could knock you out from a 50 yard radius.

OrchidLion · 2020-09-07T02:14:51+00:00

Girls dont like it when males say anything other than "Yes Dear". Shut up and obey or fuck off. Stop running your mouth scrote.

bear_sees_the_car · 2020-09-07T06:41:33+00:00

I just accepted the fact that you cannot win with guys and what they cannot stop staring at.

Never cared what they do not like, though. Usually makes me want to rebel and do the exact thing, wgen I hear stuff like that

tossed_salad100 · 2020-09-08T16:05:29+00:00

I went to class dressed to the nines and with a full face on almost every day because that's who I am and what I like. It's a huge stress reliever for me.

I got so much crap for it. "Guys like Natural girls." "Just keep it simple and classic. Guys don't like those patterned leggings."

Fuck. Off.

I met my current boyfriend wearing it ALL. He introduced himself to ME. He is my #1 supporter in all things fashion and makeup. He's bought me wigs.

I can't believe I used to do anything but laugh at those pathetic people who used to try to drag me down to their level.

cinnabun623 · 2020-09-07T01:05:47+00:00

Ladies don’t give a f what Mike has to say, but why would anyone wear sweats every day? It takes the same amount of time to put on pants. Level up and do better for yourself

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Author	GreenApplesJuice
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Date	September 6, 2020 9:13 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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