woman nearing the wall tells safe beta about her time riding the carousel and wonders why he isn't "proud" she chose him.

pDiddyParty · 2014-04-06T22:57:46+00:00

He's nothing like my previous boyfriends; he's quieter, calmer, has an interesting job, and honestly perhaps not on the same level of physical well-being.

Quiet, calm, interesting job. that's what you think of the guy you're head over heels in love with? i don't even...

But I'm absolutely in love with him anyway because I've started to admire those qualities more and more.

admire... she admires him. that's how she describes it. because he can give her $$ and will be there. that's it. no tingles, nothing. guarantee she will divorce in <10 years.

these women don't love their husbands. they don't give a fuck who it is, as long as they are "stable".

TheOpposingView · 2014-04-06T21:30:34+00:00

"Why do some guys..." posted on AskWomen. That will turn out well.

DanReggins · 2014-04-06T22:59:27+00:00

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semigod__ · 2014-04-06T21:04:30+00:00

I thought he'd be proud of the fact he's the one I want to keep and eventually marry, and not those other men.

be proud the rusty car choose you, beta bux - yes its old and used, but if you are lucky you may buy and keep this car for the rest of your life instead of buying this new car over here for half the price.

2014-04-06T23:04:33+00:00

I can't believe he wasn't excited to dedicate all his financial and emotional assets to obtain what other guys just took off their pants to achieve.

TheOpposingView · 2014-04-06T21:41:18+00:00

Its amazing how women have managed to, as a group, reach a general consensus on how to explain their awful behavior towards their "betas". This girl is a fucking moron, obviously, and the conceit is incredible. Proud?

They have no idea, or have intentionally excised their ideas about, how men feel and how that comes across. And they don't see the obvious pattern of "young and crazy" and now I settle for you. They have wrapped it all up in this narrative that somehow all females and white knights are now groupthinked into, and they paint a picture of a heroine finding her way...and the men in their lives are supposed to repress and butcher their anger and revulsion and change how they naturally feel; it is in no way the girls responsibility to be attractive, appealing, and non sickening, of course! You just change what you want so you like me no matter what!

Honestly, reading this type of thing makes me think of the south park episode where Cartman continuously rewrites the history of him and Jimmy until he is saving them all from a dragon. Some women really seem to have that sort of narcissitic level of psychosis.

Edit: oh and then the comments saying "men are just insecure" and "I hung out with guys who got pussy all the time and now they are just fine so obviously all guys should be like that and there's no chance that by only hanging out with hot male friends I may have got a teensy bit of a biased sample". And the disdain...

Women just do not care about non alphas. They have zero empathy and zero understanding of what it means to be alone, rejected, and in despair as other guys seem to have the easiest time. Women just write it off...they even add an extra layer of cognitive manipulation by hating guys who struggle to be laid. They despise what they see as weakness.

Fuck them.

-Tyler_Durden- · 2014-04-06T23:27:36+00:00

He's buying the cow when others have gotten the milk for free. The only problem is that it's actually a lease with very shitty terms.

BoredOnATuesdayNight · 2014-04-06T21:18:49+00:00

Scroll down a little bit and you there's a guy who compares her sexual history to political corruption. Haha...the hamsters that go off after that...

RS73 · 2014-04-06T22:23:49+00:00

"You should be greatful - you low status, money dispensing, asexual little gnome. My golden pussy's been reamed out by the hottest and the best and now you can lick up the busted leftovers. You should thank me." What in the mother of all fuck. GTFO. Our society's cultivation of utterly egomaniacal, obliviously selfish women shows no signs of correcting itself.

I had one-itis really bad for a girl I dated in college. She, unfortunately, was more interested in traveling - i.e., fucking lots of new guys - and living out a life that featured and benefitted from lots of interest and attention from new exciting (and very horny) men.

And, you see, it was always going to be that way because she was smart and young and attractive and, even if she wasn't always young, she would always be smart and attractive and given flattering, servile male attention because she'd always been smart and attractive and that was the only life she'd ever known. Why would that change? Besides, the entire culture grovels to women and tells them they're never getting older, they're only getting better.

I got better and she got fatter. And older. Four years after she dropped me to continue her sex tour of the Western hemisphere and after not contacting me even once in the entire four years' time, she contacted me using some of the language I'd used with her in my old love letters. It was about a month before her 27th birthday. I never responded.

redpilldude · 2014-04-06T23:25:46+00:00

tl;dr:

"Hey, honey, I've let 50 Alphas ravish me, and they were all bigger than you, but I chose you because you're such a Nice Guy! Aren't you lucky to be with me?"

grelknar · 2014-04-06T22:19:45+00:00

Sidetrack, but

I mean, they thought men were the only hunters for decades until someone did an analysis of cave paintings in france comparing the hand marks in the paintings to the hand sizes of the male and female bodies they found around those sites. The hand sizes were too small to be male, indicating women painted something like 75% of the cave paintings of hunting. Which is indicative of women engaging in hunting, but anthropologists who discovered the caves about a century ago assumed they must have been done by men because women in their society did not hunt.

Or maybe the women painted about hunting because they weren't busy actually hunting. Who was the idiot that decided the person painting must be the person hunting, man or woman? Unfalsifiable claims aren't science and this shit needs to stop showing up in journals.

sluz · 2014-04-06T22:28:30+00:00

I used to date young and beautiful women but they were too demanding. That's why decided to date you instead.

Fundumpsters · 2014-04-06T23:46:10+00:00

But the relationships never worked out because of lack of stability.

Never your fault! Always the victim!

And why hasn't anybody over there asked her: "Do you deep throat his dick and take it up the ass like you have with previous men? No? Well geez lady...and you wonder why then he's pissed off??"

TheSKSpecial · 2014-04-06T22:29:20+00:00

I do wonder why he won't talk to OP about it. It's possibly irrational insecurities and/or sexist views of what kind of girl has a wild youth, and he's embarrassed.

Of course. It's his fault for being upset he's paired up with the town bike. If only he would just suck it up and be happy this slore of a princess chose him.

Ali-Sama · 2014-04-06T23:49:03+00:00

"Hey, (fiance), I used to love those girls in pushup bras and with their perfect little asses and shiny hair, and if I knew how to bang those college-aged girls again I would, but since I'm getting older and busy with my career, I'd like you to handle housework, cooking, and raising my kids because fuck it, you have OK enough DNA that when mixed with mine, our kids will be reasonable enough."

ERP_BLARP · 2014-04-06T23:39:50+00:00

I had an ex who was like this. I'm glad that shit is over and done with. It wasn't until I came across TRP I could put it in to proper perspective, but I was very resentful that "all the fun has been had", and well, I was a 26 year old chump on a six figure salary who could buy her a house.

I had the same reaction as this beta, I was pissed. But I put up with it, for a while.

2014-04-07T02:51:28+00:00

The alphas gets her best ten years of pussy and you get to deal with her menopause. Great deal, right?

2014-04-07T02:39:38+00:00

Can explain everything he is feeling in one sentence. He just found out he is captain save a ho.

2014-04-07T00:21:17+00:00

Also I love the post that's like "Why do men buy VIP passes to clubs and football games? Specifically because other people AREN'T up in that club." The exclusivity, the feeling that it is a privilege to access it that only you or a very small number of people have had, is one of the major reasons a man spends his time and money wifing up a girl, because they have bought into the social narrative that marriage makes your love exclusive, powerful, individual, and secure. The entire point of paying more for VIP (which is an interesting analogy for marriage because you are basically paying more for the same pussy, but betas love the social proof that comes from having a pretty wife / feeling that one person thinks you are important enough to commit to for life) is to keep other dudes OUT.

If I'm paying 40$, I don't care if you put me in the general floor at a great concert. But if I'm paying 4000$, then I better be in the fucking VIP of the VIP at that show. This analogy has its shortcomings, but it is amusing to think about.

cooltrip · 2014-04-06T23:27:05+00:00

No madam, you are not finally choosing that beta over other men; but none of the previous Alphas you attempted to get accepted you, and so now, since you have no options, you have to accept a beta.

You gave the best of yourself to all those Alphas of your youth, not to betas.

Now that you've learned what the important things of life and of men are, you want that beta.

Sorry madam, you chose in the past what you considered best; so your past choices are the truest ones, and make your present choices false.

Why is the beta you currently want to marry upset?

Why, you wonder?? You should perfectly know there shouldn't be a reason at all, other than BECAUSE HE'S FREE TO REJECT YOU.

GurneyHalleck85 · 2014-04-06T23:16:39+00:00

I swear, sometimes these redditlog type of posts feel like a Red Pill troll.

Yikes!

newguyacct · 2014-04-07T01:40:16+00:00

aright, which one of you guys trolled AskWomen?

This is too textbook to be real..

Tastysalad101 · 2014-04-06T22:38:19+00:00

I might have high standards but if i was the guy i'd drop her there and then.

Captain_Self_Promotr · 2014-04-07T02:22:05+00:00

The first comment was a great neg, but it could have been a bit more scathing.

She's trickle truthing. She wants to go back to the alpha cock after 1.5 years of beta. Pure hypergamy, she has stable bf and she wants to test the water for some d on the side.

I see no other reason for her to disclose this info to her husband. Surely she must know that men don't value infidelity. She's trying to live vicariously through her past, and wants to go back in time.

Areimanes · 2014-04-07T00:03:05+00:00

The biggest concern I have with this thread, and something that hasn't been touched on here, is this comment:

You made a big mistake by telling him those things.

Two common reactions whenever a person, guy or girl, is confronted with someone opposed to sleeping around during youth: the first is ignorant confusion. Lots of people haven't done the research into how damaging premarital sex can be for an LTR, but it shouldn't be difficult to grasp why hedonism and insecurity (the only two reasons a person would bed hop) make for unattractive personal qualities, especially for the future mother of your children. The second, as we see here, is trickle truth or outright lying. After all, you can't change your past -- if a guy has a problem with it, what he doesn't know won't hurt him. Right?

As our culture continues its march towards unrepentant pleasure-seeking, this sort of lying through omission is going to become more and more commonplace. It's been said before but bears repeating: do not trust your significant other to be honest about her sexual history. If partner count matters to you, as it should, then you'll need to come up with ways to more accurately predict their past.

Whisper · 2014-04-07T04:00:34+00:00

/u/bhavini_married pretty much nailed it. Thread over.

Dreamtrain · 2014-04-07T04:00:58+00:00

Not too long ago, when I was still completely plugged in, I got this advice that "there's a time in a woman's life when they mature and they start to appreciate guys like you, just be patient", and momentarily I felt comfort, that inevitably I would finally be appreciated for being who I was, for trying to do what I felt was the right thing and putting others' needs before mine instead of being punished for it over and over. She would tell me how lucky I would be over all those jerks she dated in the past.

And then I felt something. Something felt off, way off. All those comments described so well how I felt back then. I'd rather MGTOW or hell even sex escorts from time to time if despite lifting and improving my game I failed to spin any plates, than to be settled for.

2014-04-07T04:05:03+00:00

Comments like these make me proud that my fiancee was a virgin when me met. Look for a sincere church mouse if you can stand the bible stuff.

seancj133 · 2014-04-06T22:31:20+00:00

Hamsters gonna hamst.

Textbook hamstering as she hits the wall.

logi_thebear · 2014-04-07T04:19:05+00:00

Maybe he feels that you settled for him. That he's less fun than your exes but that you're with him because he's stable. Not saying that that is how it actually is, but he might feel that way.

Alphafucks, betabucks.

dvrzero · 2014-04-06T22:03:11+00:00

Is this like psyops trp advertising?

cuz if so, i've seen it done better, that's all i'm sayin

sailorJery · 2014-04-07T11:11:00+00:00

the fucking naievity in those comments

there's no biology at play in this

in reference to evolutionary psychology

I wish people would stop quoting pseudopsychology as "biology". Or just stop quoting it at all.

I bet you do. I bet you do.

GushyWetWet15 · 2014-04-07T01:04:41+00:00

lol going into askhamsters is cheating. the shit those dumb bitches spew from their mouth is absolute garbage

lesbianDREAMS · 2014-04-07T08:44:36+00:00

I'd sooner date someone with well managed HIV than with Herpes, but that's just me.

That's just because you're a fucking idiot along with everyone else in that thread. This is who OP is taking advice from. He might as well inject the HIV into his bloodstream. All in the name of love of course.

2014-04-07T10:13:08+00:00

"has an interesting job, and honestly perhaps not on the same level of physical well-being. I'm absolutely in love with him anyway because I've started to admire those qualities more and more." ie after fucking tons of hot hunks, she wants a man who makes MONEY!

2014-04-06T23:52:21+00:00

There is nothing inherently wrong with the behaviour. Have fun when you are young and accept that if you want a long term stable relationship you may have to settle in some ways. Just don't tell your partner - ever!

Its the total and utter lack of insight that blows my mind. And the fact that she shared her past with her partner and was surprised he isn't overly happy about what she said? And the fact that she posted these comments on ask women?

DonaldtheDefiant · 2014-04-07T03:34:26+00:00

I'd dump her.. "Yeah I used to fuck all these guys but none of them can bring a paycheck and clean house like you, honey. You should be proud a girl like me chose a guy like you!" See ya bitch.

cooltrip · 2014-04-07T06:46:27+00:00

The only solution to this problem (of a woman having ridden the carousel), from a man's perspective, is: don't beg for her love, make her really difficult and expensive to get your love; make her beg for your love and take much more efforts than she ever took for any other man before; make her do things for getting your love that she never did to any other man; treat her like having lost all her worth after other men's use; make her really prove you are the best man; behave yourself Alpha, never non-Alpha. Because this is the only nice and good thing a man can get from a woman and a woman is able to give a man: her acknowledgement that he is the best man.

Soupnazi630 · 2014-04-07T10:58:34+00:00

Is she really that ignorant?

Idontlikekarmawhores · 2014-04-07T12:32:55+00:00

"Has an interesting job" Gold digger confirmed.

the99percent1 · 2014-04-07T12:34:35+00:00

The chosen one!

myschadenfreude · 2014-04-07T13:07:47+00:00

"...not on the same level of physical well being." -- All other positives are behaviors or attributes he brings through career.

She's attracted to what he can do for her, but on a base level not attracted to him.

Sad. Sad, because she probably doesn't get how duplicitous and self-serving her behavior is.

2014-04-07T14:36:50+00:00

Nothing to see here but a gold digging whore.

mikelovesvegas · 2014-04-07T14:59:51+00:00

Master level trolling.

McDoner · 2014-04-07T05:23:14+00:00

I'm really not upset with this girl. She was honest to him. Her behavior as somebody referenced on here already, " the village bicycle" is what it is. It's in the past. She wonders why he's upset, and while that is agitating that she doesn't possess the ability to think outside of herself, isn't it expected from these irrational women? Are we really surprised? If anything, this guy is being such a little bitch. He's upset because he hasn't had the same fun that she's had. He's upset because he sees the truth of his worth. He's the nice guy. This guy isn't pounding pints while devouring whole turkey legs and singing bar songs in a brothel (manly things).

No guy is excited to hear that jake from Panama City 2007 was balls deep in his gf while his friend Rico recorded it. But at the same time I just think this guy doesn't have many trophies of his own. Otherwise it would roll off his back by the next day when he texts his friend about Sally and Rachel from Key West 2007. I hope the best for this guy, but it's just another reminder to me, bitches ain't shit but hoes n tricks. :) lol

badahole · 2014-04-06T22:42:22+00:00

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Title	woman nearing the wall tells safe beta about her time riding the carousel and wonders why he isn't "proud" she chose him.
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Date	April 6, 2014 8:43 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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