I made the comment below on another post, I'm curious if there are men that would be willing to trade a woman they consider above their league but is a deadbedroom marriage to marry a woman that wasnt as hot but loved him and would do anything for him and fucks him like he is her God.....this is in response to the deadbedroom debate.

"Heres my take on it. Purplepilldebate constantly talks about how women are the gatekeepers of sex and men are the gatekeepers of relationships. Women can casually fuck above their league but must date down for relationships/marriage, whereas men can date up for marriage and commitment but must fuck below their league for casual sex.

Because of this dynamic it sets up the marriage deadbedroom situation. A woman has sex when she is younger with the hot bad boys, her alphas, the ones she can't lock down but always gets her pussy wet. The ones she obsessed over, cried sleepless nights over and the one that got away. She becomes his alpha widow. Almost every girl has this guy, he may not be a Chad or an alpha irl but he is her alpha, she sees him as a God. He leaves her because she is too easy, too needy, too available, he wants a queen, he wants the girl that he has to work for, the one that is a challenge, the one that is out of his league, the one that isnt really that into him but he wants to win to prove he is worthy.

He dumps the girl that loves him, the one he is just banging, his place holder until something better comes along, her heart gets broken, then he goes for the hotter chick or the chick that doesn't love him the same way but is a prize in his eyes. The new woman settles for him because her alpha wont settle down and marry her either and she wants babies. He asks her to marry him because he believes he has won her heart, the prize, his queen, he worships her, and she just settles for him because she doesn't have any better options.

Most women settle for marriage, most men wont marry unless they consider the woman to be out of his league, he will not give up being single and having sex with all the other women unless he finds a girl that he thinks he can never do better then. He marries above his league, she settles. This is why these marriages always end up in a deadbedroom situation. She never loved him, he was never her alpha.

There is a popular song about this "if you want to be happy for the rest of your life never make a pretty woman your wife". Not exactly true, but the truth is, if there was a girl that was gaga for you, couldn't get enough of your cock, blew up your phone, acted crazy, would do anything to be with you, if a man were smart, that's the girl he would marry, she will suck his cock until the day she dies. He is her alpha. He doesn't want her though, he wants his cold, hot as fuck Stacy that barely gives him the time of day until her alpha dumps her and she is desperate. Then she settles and gets the ring but she wont want your cock, if anything, you will quickly disgust her.

Stop marrying above your league. Marry the girl that is obsessed with you, the one that thinks you walk on water, that's the girl that will fuck you like a rockstar and make you a sandwich when ur done. Your Stacy, the prize you think you won? She will settle for your lame ass, fuck you lukewarmly for awhile then divorce rape you when Chad comes along and fucks her like her alpha used to do."