Men who date a lot, especially after you get all ass old like me, end up realizing how much easier and better men have it in the dating game.

Women get used. I mean men lie to them. We string them along, and quite deliberately, by hinting that the "relationship" is going somewhere. And because men are generally the active gender while women are more passive the women will just go along with it. Guys will do things like randomly talk about weddings, what kind of wedding dress do you want, point at children and say, "we'd make cute babies, don't you think?", and other things just to keep a FWB around. And girls fall for it. They will hear this stuff and actually go look up wedding dresses, and show you, and you'll say yes that's a cute dress, so is that one, but you know girl, this is the dress.

Guys sometimes string women along for years while they think they are building a relationship with the guy.

Men have a much easier time finding a date as well. Girls have to dress nicely, add jewelry, go out, deal with a ton of shitty guys hitting on her, go out with a bunch of other guys, and hope she finds a gem. And then get him to commit.

If you're a guy then you just approach cute young girls. Then date away. If she's not marriage material then who cares? Just keep dating her while you find new girls to date. Randomly mention relationship type crap and she'll hang out for maybe a year. Push her into crazy sex she doesn't really want to do but does it for you. Then when she's finally at her wits end, or you've found a girl you want to give it a go with, it's over. Heck bro she'll probably dump you so you don't even have to do the break up talk. Just nod away while she says, "you need to change", and sobs. Whatev. At which point she's a year older, a bit more bitter, less trusting, and you just move right along with the date you have tomorrow.

Even sex is better for a guy. Guys can and do pressure girls into doing all kinds of crazy sex things they don't want to do and do not enjoy. But they do them anyway, to please the guy. Pretty much all sex is based around the guy and what he wants, his pleasure. Not even his pleasure sometimes as a guy you just want to watch a girl humiliate herself and watch her enjoy it, because she enjoys you enjoying it.

Guys hold almost all of the cards. A lot of them just don't use them. These guys are the poker player who is dealt three of a kind in his starting hand, knows that most girls have two pair, so he folds every hand. Cause to not fold, to play the game, is "immoral" and only something a "sociopath" would do.

It's even worse cause for some reason guys hamster that folding is somehow noble and that girls will fall in love with his weakness. When the reality is that he's just a coward and is weak. He then assumes every other guy must be the same. We aren't.

If guys knew the shit girls put up with in dating. The creepy stalker weirdos, the old men who keep coming back, the mediocre nice enough lying guys who pretend they like you as a friend, finally finding a relationship only to discover that you're dating a fking loser, or a fking liar, or that you aren't actually even in a relationship. Simply not having the wisdom to make good decisions because no one teaches young women this wisdom anymore. And believe me no guy is going to teach you real wisdom. We'll teach you to date us. Unless we marry you you aren't going to hear about the dirt bag shit we've pulled. And how are they even going to know we aren't lying unless we shut up and put up?

So CMV. Men have it easier and better. And don't even get me started in divorce. Something no man should fear.