Q4M: Have you been satisfied with low N-count women sexually? or are more experienced women better?

WhiskersNT · 2017-09-08T18:20:36+00:00

the main difference is in how much she wants to do with you rather than what her N is.

Its basically about her attraction to you.

whichbladeN · 2017-09-08T19:03:36+00:00

balls-deep deep throat

I wanna say that most people don't partake in that because it'll make them vomit.

prodigy2throw · 2017-09-08T18:28:21+00:00

It really depends on the woman and what stage she's at in life. A virgin who's decided to go full whore will be down for anything while a slut who's decided to settle down won't be as much.

[deleted] · 2017-09-08T19:03:03+00:00

Personally, it seems less experienced women aren't willing to do as wild sex acts in bed as those who are more experienced, such as balls-deep deep throat, throat sex, facials, swallowing, anal, sex on balconies, etc.

Most of these I've never wanted to do. Id speculate that women who agree to these have probably got more experience watching porn though.

The girls who had a lower n count but I got into LTRs with were enthusiastic to try out different stuff. Perhaps excited to have a boyfriend (I was my last ex's first really serious one) and eager to please. They were more willing to try out BDSM type stuff. Again though, I thnk this could be an age difference. Women my age and above might not have seen that much porn whereas the younger aged girls have been raised on it.

Also with lower n count girls I had a period of crazy fucking that wasnt quite as rampant with higher n count ones. I mean the times when you go 3 or 4 times a meeting each time. That isnt so important to me but a difference I saw.

Furthermore, you've got a bit of a blank canvas with a lower n count girl. So if you want to try stuff that is a bit further out there they could be more willing to do it. Someone who has done a lot might have tried it already and doesnt like it, or could be past their experiementing phase altogether. I've got stuff that I was once into but now wouldnt bother with.

More experienced women are more comfortable with themselves though, so this is a good advantage. I had girls when I was younger who wouldn't get naked because they were insecure about their bodies. Also, younger girls sometimes talk a good game but dont back it up in the sack. That level of comfort they can have with themselves can be a very big benefit. Also they are usually a bit less possessive etc.

SlimLovin · 2017-09-08T21:32:10+00:00

Personally, it seems less experienced women aren't willing to do as wild sex acts in bed as those who are more experienced, such as balls-deep deep throat, throat sex, facials, swallowing, anal, sex on balconies, etc.

This is what happens when you glean your understanding of sex from porn.

TheOneTrueMagnet · Fri Sep 8 19:59:23 2017 UTC

Personally, it seems less experienced women aren't willing to do as wild sex acts in bed as those who are more experienced, such as balls-deep deep throat, throat sex, facials, swallowing, anal, sex on balconies, etc.

If she is attracted to you, then she will do those things for you. The problem is most women aren't attracted to their mate.

Have you noticed any difference from sleeping with less experienced women versus those with more experience?

The only difference is with virgin women. They are excited for every new experience and are very eager even if nervous. The best sex life I ever had was when both my girlfriend and I were virgins and everything was new and exciting.

When you get older, your technique might get better. It might not. You find out what you like and what you don't. Eventually it just becomes a mutual exchange of fluids that your brain tells you that you want.

Which did you enjoy more?

I think mutual inexperience that turns into learning and experience over the long term is the best by far.

Do you feel there are sex acts that a less experienced woman has refused to do for you?

It's the older, experienced women that essentially give me a list of what they want. She knows what she likes and isn't afraid to tell you what she likes and doesn't. Every once in a while she might feel frisky or you might be new and so she is trying to pull you in, but overall, they have a way they like it and stick to it.

KerPop42 · 2017-09-08T20:08:51+00:00

Not much of a correlation; both can be really good, both can be really bad. My first time was with a virgin, and neither of us knew what we were doing. My second time was with a girl with lots of partners, and she had high standards my inexperienced ass couldn't meet. My third partner was also a virgin, because she wasn't comfortable with sex until me. We went slowly, and as a result built up an incredible rapport. My fourth partner also had a lot of experience, because she had a high sex drive. Her being so attracted to me made the experience really gratifying.

[deleted] · 2017-09-09T00:07:36+00:00

If you are looking for wild sex N count doesn't matter much.

Gotta find a crazy one

WhiskersNT · 2017-09-08T19:19:16+00:00

The higher the N the more you will here

"I did that with my last ex no thanks"

Low N girls are demonic if they really like you

Succubus succudick and everything else

WhiskersNT · 2017-09-08T18:29:25+00:00

depends on the circumstances of why she's a virgin

"Slut minded" woman you meet at 14 when you're both freshmen in high school, and you're her first? She's probably gonna be down for some wild stuff

Virgin 25 year old who takes 6 months to give you sex the first time and makes it clear she hates it? Good luck with that

Hairbrainer · 2017-09-08T18:59:25+00:00

I don't know if I've been with many inexperienced women, or if I have they didn't say. What I can say is that for most women I've been pretty satisfied. The last girl I was seeing was very open about her sexual past, and we only scratched the surface of shit she wanted me to do.

I have never seen the whole trope that wild girls will lose their sex drive when they settle. If anything I've found it ramps up.

[deleted] · 2017-09-08T19:25:03+00:00

Like u/scurvemuch pointed out, the main thing is whether she's sexually attracted to YOU and wants to fuck YOU, and that's what determines how good she was in bed. Not necessarily her N.

But otherwise it's a mixed bag. I've known a couple of high N women who were duds in bed for one reason or another, and some who were great. I've known a couple of low N women (N= 0, 1 or 2) who were awesome and willing to learn; and most low N women who weren't very good because they were inexperienced, timid and bashful.

The difference is obviously in technical skill level. most high N women have a lot more skill but I've met some low N women who were naturals and who made up for inexperience with enthusiasm.

Same on the reverse: Some sluts who'd been with 20 or more men who still couldn't find the underside of a dick and would lay there like a board.

eliechallita · 2017-09-08T19:55:57+00:00

I've been with both, and they were both fun but in different ways.

More experienced women had a good idea of what they liked and of how to perform what I enjoyed, so the sex was usually pretty fun and direct. I would definitely prefer them for one night stands or casual dating.

Less experienced women were fun to teach and discover with: It was more tender, I think, because I would remind myself to take it slower and more gently so that they would discover what they enjoyed. It's the kind of sex that's best enjoyed as a long term, ongoing partnership even if you aren't exclusive.

Note that I'm not saying that I prefer less experienced women for LTRs, but only that you can't do them justice with a casual encounter.

Pope_Lucious · 2017-09-09T01:00:56+00:00

"Better" is a weird term here. Some girls (and men I'm sure) are just lazy and are poor communicators. I imagine some experience is better than no experience though. N-count doesn't concern me too much.

The highest N-count girl I've been with was the best, and the most sensual. But she wasn't slutty at all. She might have just been "the best" for my personal sexual taste.

The second highest N-count girl was more insecure. Her sexuality seemed sort of inauthentic. She was into more hardcore stuff, but it was hard to piece out what she actually liked from what she said she liked.

InformalCriticism · 2017-09-09T12:50:41+00:00

The sluttiest girl I've been with gave the most bjs and sex, but it wasn't "better", it was just more. The only thing that makes sex more enjoyable to me is the vajayay. I've had teeny tiny girls with huge birth canals that make you question your manhood, and I've had larger set women with unbelievable pussy, just makes you feel like a premature ejaculator kind of pussy.

The smaller the naughty bits, the better. That's the only difference I notice.

The only thing I've not done is anal. I just haven't met a girl who thought it was a good idea.

DashneDK2 · 2017-09-09T01:16:14+00:00

I wouldn't want to do balls-deep deep throat or throat sex, why the hell would anybody want that? - and anal is for fags. Other than that, it silly to go around and think sex is a rocket science which it takes years to master. It's not that complicated, enthusiasm is the best thing she can bring to the table. Less experience women tend to be more excited or thrilled.

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Temperfuelmma · 2017-09-08T18:39:36+00:00

Lesser experienced women are just shy, you have to work to get her out of that shell but sluts generally have no self respect and will do anything like the whores they are.

[deleted] · 2017-09-08T20:05:56+00:00

Can't speak from experience but I don't think it really matters. I have zero experience and I am willing to do lots of things. I imagine plenty of inexperienced women are the same.

dicklord_airplane · 2017-09-08T22:08:30+00:00

one of my exes had a low partner count and was really good in bed, particularly giving head. i asked her how she got so good, and she replied that she learned a lot about giving head from reading cosmo magazine all throughout her sexless teenage years.

DicklessAlpha · 2017-09-09T08:33:18+00:00

Doesn't matter one fucking bit.

Title	Q4M: Have you been satisfied with low N-count women sexually? or are more experienced women better?
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Date	September 8, 2017 6:17 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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