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Q4RP: How can men deal with the fundamental paradox that (1) you need a genuine DGAF attitude to fuck a lot of girls but (2) you need to fuck a lot of girls to acquire a genuine DGAF attitude?

HopefulAboutADHD

July 6, 2017

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Title	Q4RP: How can men deal with the fundamental paradox that (1) you need a genuine DGAF attitude to fuck a lot of girls but (2) you need to fuck a lot of girls to acquire a genuine DGAF attitude?
Author	HopefulAboutADHD
Upvotes	10
Comments	91
Date	July 6, 2017 4:52 AM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/6ljkkk/q4rp_how_can_men_deal_with_the_fundamental/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/PurplePillDebate/q4rp-how-can-men-deal-with-the-fundamental-paradox.267157 https://theredarchive.com/post/267157

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What do you mean by this?

People who can't control themselves are easy to seduce. They never see the sudden brick wall that suddenly ends the fantasy you've prepared for them. Blue balls (or blue walls) do the rest.

What did you mean here?

I wasn't ready for sex. Reddit's worst let it be known that anyone with my issues about it was either disgusting, completely broken, or a liar, and I ate up all the hate. It was my own black pill. Suddenly, it felt like I needed to have sex, just to redeem myself. It didn't matter with who.

Can you break down each component of this sentence and what you meant by it?

That = people suddenly avoiding my newly found desperation. To someone terrified of sex, the thought that nobody could want someone like me hurt, but it felt like a shield. I dared people to prove me wrong.

The sadists then took great pleasure in doing so.

It = my sex phobia.

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DGAF attitude is tied more to your own self worth than anything. Do you think you're the shit or a piece of shit? The best way to think you have a lot of value is to create a lot of value in yourself. There's no substitute for hard work.

The one thing that abundance really taught me was that most women are kind of shitty. Most men are also kind of shitty but besides the point. Anyway, most women are kind of shitty: lazy, boring, have shitty opinions, elitism, and entitlement. I'm a pretty harsh judge. I'd say I'm a 7. I'd go out on a date with a girl who is maybe a 6-7 and leave it thinking she's a 2. She'll act like she's the hottest shit and that any man is lucky to be with her (because she can, she's been validated her entire life). But then she'll have no personality aside from what she's seen on reality TV, her hobbies will include "hanging out" and netflix, and you are somehow competing with a bunch of other men to be with her. Now, if you are worth a damn, would you find that personality attractive? Most likely that girl you think is awesome has a bunch of shitty characteristics that you wouldn't know unless you got really close to her. I remember hearing somewhere one way to de-pedestalize women is to just imagine that person taking the smelliest, nastiest, shit. Imagine what kind of shitty things she's doing behind closed doors.

Get hobbies, get good at conversation, get religious with your health, fitness, and sense of style. Then when you KNOW you're better than a lot of lazy men out there (Remember, most men are pretty shitty so its not that hard) you will see that what other people are asking of you is horseshit. When they all of a sudden feel they deserve your value and you're not trying out anymore, you'll see how small people really are. You'll realize that if this chick won't do, there are a million more exactly like her. In fact, that girl you think is awesome? There is one better just around the corner. The more people you know in general, not just women, the more people you have to compare and can accurately rate someones value.

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This is a very fundamental question that comes up often in one way or another, in a way, this question is about how we as humans can be/feel less like other animals.

You don't solve this problem, because the problem lies simply in setting fucking a lot of hot girls a girl as an aim, what you do, is take on an other problem....

How can I be perceived as a good person if caring about how you're perceived isn't good? Answer - be good, but for other reasons. How you are perceived can be a valuable indication, but not the definition of good.

You might as well replace "good" with fuckable.

Whatever you do, you're biologically programmed to do so in order to procreate with lots of women, so just trust in your drive. Some things are good on principle, because they make you fuckable on principle, and vis versa, so care about those things on principle.

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