Q4BP: If you believe most guys are getting laid with no problems, why do you believe this?

TheChemist158 · 2017-05-29T06:46:10+00:00

Statistics clearly show that the average man isn't fucking a new woman regularly. But I'm not sure how much of that is due to lack of interest/trying. I see a lot of men who are simply not too interested in the casual sex scene.

pinkgoldrose · 2017-05-29T06:42:29+00:00

Is it an official blue pill opinion that men can get laid easily? Wouldn't it be more blue pill to say that men shouldn't pursue getting laid, but rather meaningful and fulfilling relationships in which they get laid?

disposable_pants · 2017-05-29T06:29:05+00:00

Actually I don't think that's what TBPillers believe.

TBPillers would be more likely to say that it doesn't matter if someone gets laid rarely because sex is not the most important thing and that men shouldn't feel entitled to women's bodies or something like that.

NewOrder777 · 2017-05-30T22:01:01+00:00

Most men are not going out on dates, having sex or getting married, and for the most part, this is involuntary. The difference between most men and incels is most just channel their energy into other pursuits or just lie so people won't judge them as losers.

Every study into the matter focuses entirely on the female point of view, and blames the lack of romantic relationships on men being unwilling to commit, which is bullshit. Looking at it from the male POV would be groundbreaking social science that would expose rot many people can't believe exists.

Offhisgame · 2017-05-29T04:41:10+00:00

I like how people act like the world is just one big group on here. 20-35 year old average men can get laid EASILY if they actually try. Maybe they can't get the 9/10 girl they fantasize about but neither is the women they end up fucking now are they?

If you are 50 and complaining about not being able to have casual NSA sex then yeah I would say you need to realize the dating world isn't exactly built around you. You need to accept the hot younger chicks dont wanna fuck you in most cases and move on.

ProbablyBelievesIt · 2017-05-29T05:04:20+00:00

That post needs you to believe that all men were looking for random hook-ups, in order to sign on to its conclusions.

Since I'm not a pretentious junior high school student, there's no need for me to take it seriously.

But nobody ever said "No problems." Just that they're not nearly as dramatic as the drama queens in the redpill claim.

Gorgatron1968 · 2017-05-29T04:13:31+00:00

Because I get laid without any difficulty. I f I can I find it hard to believe it is that hard.

[deleted] · 2017-05-29T05:05:05+00:00

Almost all of my male friends have no problems getting laid, nor do I.

[deleted] · 2017-05-29T05:35:39+00:00

There are many guys who can get laid. There are many guys who can't. What's the point of arguing who is more represented? It depends on your social group. It comes down to individual choices / attractiveness anyways.

Something like 95% have had sex by the time they're 25 anyways.

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wholesomedude · 2017-05-29T14:22:20+00:00

It's not most men, it's the average man, meaning about 50%. Alot of guys can get sex regularly, but there are also alot of guys who struggle, because there are far more people held back by mental and social afflictions than you might realize.

Then there's also success rate to take into account. If I recall correctly, the consensus in that thread was that two new girls a month was alot. If you go to a bar twice a month, it's actually not too hard to get sex this way, provided you can take rejection and then approach a different girl. You're just playing the numbers.

This is different to, say, randomly seeing a hot girl on the street, approaching her and bringing her back to your place, which most guys can't do.

erileigh · 2017-05-30T08:48:38+00:00

Society actively punishes women for having sex outside of commitment. This punishment is instilled in us from birth, where we're told that "women should be pure because a man will use feelings to get to what he really wants - which is sex" (something that was said verbatim to me when I was a teenager). Even having sex in the context of commitment is frowned upon, but it's better than having casual sex, in most people's minds.

This, for the record, is my experience. It's what I've had to live with and understand to be my reality, and it's something I've had to unlearn. It exists even in spaces that aren't religious, like college campuses and the like. (I'm Southern, but I imagine this is a thing, if a smaller thing, in more liberal areas. Even modern media says stuff like this!)

It's further implied, if not outright said, that if we have sex, we're dirty and therefore unworthy of being in a committed relationship in the future. Being in a committed relationship is generally thought to be a cornerstone of any woman's happiness, so many times, women believe they won't be happy if they have lots of casual sex.

So then, can you really blame us for not giving in to your persistent desire to have sex that's divorced from commitment? Given everything we've been led to believe? Can you further blame us for only choosing to give in to the guy who's more attractive?

No?

Okay.

Hairbrainer · 2017-05-30T19:03:41+00:00

Because the average guy I see in my personal life has no problem. I'm not surrounded by lookers, mind you, but all shapes sizes and races of men. Every guy I've seen who puts out some sort of effort without being a total cock has succeeded on more than one occasion.

Sure, this is my own anecdote, but it's the world I can actually witness

Title	Q4BP: If you believe most guys are getting laid with no problems, why do you believe this?
Author	soccerstar77
Upvotes	13
Comments	100
Date	May 29, 2017 4:01 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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