Q4RPMen: How do you guys know the lives and experiences of women so well?

Atlas_B_Shruggin · 2017-04-19T16:49:43+00:00

this is where ive started to criticize TRP. I am red pill. TRP describes the reality of male and female sexual strategies and nature. i agree, 100%. i do not care if men gather to discuss team man centered sexual strategy and i wish them well. i dont care about "misogyny" and sexism etc and i understand game. when men tell me the MALE experience from the mal perspective i listen thoughtfully and respectfully and think they are probably right. fine, great

where TRP TRADCONS AND MGTOWS have COMPLETELY gone off their rails is their mentally ill solipsistic assertions regarding the FEMALE experience from the FEMALE perspective. the amount of male solipsism they engage in is astonishing, it is always through a lens of MALE sexuality, MALE scarcity mentality, MALE cognition and male drives without regard to female nature or the lived female experience. yes dotn listen to what women say, watch what the do. agreed. but when you are SEEING what they DO you still may not be privy to their mental state or motivations and can ascribe male solipsism motivations and explanations to it

comfysofachair · 2017-04-19T19:46:19+00:00

I cannot speak for individual women and their attitudes and perceptions but I do speak to probabilities and direct observation.

Someone once said that the study of physics and learning the rules of the universe was like watching a game of chess and determining the rules based on what he (or she) saw in the course of watching games. They couldn't do the things the universe did; they could only observe.

I cannot be a woman (for many reasons). I can only observe, build hypotheses, and try to test them. Fro. that- I don't know why a woman does things; I can only guess something based on prior observations.

Over 2/3 of divorces in the USA are initiated by women (hetero marriage). That percentage goes up as education level increases. I don't know why but I can guess who filed when I hear that a couple split up.

TheBlackQuill · 2017-04-19T17:32:59+00:00

It is hypocritical for RP to criticize feminists that they don't understand what is it like to be a guy and now they assume they understand women by watching what women do, never mind the fact that, action does not necessarily explains the why. They don't live in our head, and yet they feel like they understand us more than we understand ourselves...

hyperrreal · 2017-04-19T18:02:14+00:00

Hey OP, we require post text sufficient to explain any linked materials. Please provide a summary of the linked content in your post. Thanks.

alreadyredschool · 2017-04-19T16:36:28+00:00

No idea, it's often very laughable.

But I can talk about what I see my friends doing and I know their lives pretty well.

2017-04-19T16:51:10+00:00

Because we see it. We can see how women respond to attractive men, and how they respond to unattractive men. We see how women respond to fear, anger, danger, problems, love, hate, sexual attraction, lack of attraction, elation, despair, etc.

We see how women respond to us when they perceive us as attractive. We see how they respond to us when they perceive us as unattractive. We see how they deal with us when they want us in their lives, and how they address us when they're done with us. We see how a woman responds during sex when she's attracted to us, and how she responds during sex when she's not. We see how she conducts her relationships with men she wants, and men she doesn't want.

SexyMcSexington · 2017-04-19T21:02:05+00:00

I don't.

What I do know is myself and what has worked for me. I know what works on the sexuality a subset of women I'm interested. I know in aggregate men and women are different. That's all I know, and that's all I would claim I know.

cxj · 2017-04-19T21:18:32+00:00

I have always worked in female dominated industries, and I'm privy to many girl talk conversations most guys wouldn't be.

I am largely parroting things I hear them say repeatedly.

2017-04-19T18:15:07+00:00

I saw this thread just now, and it got me thinking, because I see so many guys talk about how women experiences Chads, men, dating, relationships and sex. I'm just wondering how you guys know this or where it came from.

Because we're forcibly dragged into the sphere of women's issues when women place responsibility on men for the problems that women cause.

breakfasttopiates · 2017-04-19T20:28:15+00:00

Because men are more analytical in general. We cannot experience the opposite sex directly in a phenomena of mind sort of way, but we're better at understanding the other sex logically than they are at understanding us.

Same way that men who fish are really good at understanding fish, where they are what they eat and how they behave. You have to know em pretty well to catch em for a living.

Women can to, but less women are pro fisherman than men. Less women are interested in women than there are men interested in women

Christian_Kong · 2017-04-19T20:31:00+00:00

Life experience and knowing lots of people. Chads, sluts, prudes, betas and everything in between.

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fiat_lux_ · 2017-04-19T21:06:10+00:00

I talk to women, observe their behaviour, and read between the lines.

They're a lot more honest one-on-one than when they're in a group.

As for your link,

What the OP wrote can be defended using semantics and rhetoric and isn't worth arguing. E.g. "Most women, even ones who are busy might make exceptions to talk to a male celebrity, rather than being annoyed. The attention would be flattering and rare."

SirNemesis · 2017-04-20T06:28:52+00:00

Because they boast about it all the time online.

2017-04-20T11:45:00+00:00

Cant i just flip this on you and then youll say the same thing and this goes nowhere?

despisedlove2 · 2017-04-20T13:51:18+00:00

The same way a mongoose knows the life of a snake.

Title	Q4RPMen: How do you guys know the lives and experiences of women so well?
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Date	April 19, 2017 3:56 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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