Q4W: Is there such a thing as a case-specific Chad, or a Chad who is only a Chad for you, or a certain demographic of women?

Tyler_Gatsby · 2017-03-30T14:37:24+00:00

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GridReXX · 2017-03-30T15:35:06+00:00

Pete Doherty looks like Smoegel farted out a dysfunctional human, bad teeth included, and yet he gets Kate Moss. So.

Yes. There are plenty of men who get hot women who seem to actually find them sexually attractive that I personally wouldn't touch with a 10 foot pole.

PopularPoplar · 2017-03-30T14:40:04+00:00

There are various types of Chad:

Basic Chad

Alt Chad

Frat Chad

Jock Chad

etc

see /u/lonny_zone for more info

fetchyminx · 2017-03-30T14:40:30+00:00

One more post about "chads" and I'm gonna kill myself

antsinmyeyespetersen · 2017-03-30T17:20:28+00:00

I have been told I have weird taste in men by female friends and every family member.

I like big noses, and I'm attracted to the way their voice sounds, and what comes out of their mouth. I've never been attracted to a stereotypical Chad or variations of Chad. I don't want to hear about their fancy job/suit/watch/how much they can bench press. I wanna hear about what their passionate about. When they forget about trying to impress me and you can tell they are really excited to be talking about this thing.

Littleknownfacts · 2017-03-30T14:35:21+00:00

I wrote an post on this for RPW a while ago:

https://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/43efu3/on_chad/

TL;DR: Yes. All men will commit to a woman that is good enough (if unicorns were real). So for any specific woman, Chad is a guy that would fuck her, but not commit to her.

SpaceWhiskey · 2017-03-30T18:16:42+00:00

Oh of course. When I was younger and would routinely get celebrity crushes, most of them were guys my friends didn't see the appeal in. But I'd have run away with them in a heartbeat. This is pretty normal I think, this idea that there is only one type of man that ALL women are attracted to is a bit silly. Because the same went for my friends, they've all crushed on guys that I haven't seen the big deal about at all.

EchoZeroEleven · 2017-03-30T19:29:05+00:00

I imagine that many Chads are like this.

A guy that's the AMOG in a club or party type culture may well be out of his element in sports, academic, debate, tournament, video/board game, music, etc. settings.

In my opinion, Chads that are "on top of the food chain" in all settings and social circles are bound to be rare. Circumstantial Chads are more likely to exist.

RockinSocksReborn · 2017-03-30T15:12:16+00:00

My Chad is always skinny or lean. Too much muscle is bleh. Think like a biker or a climber in terms of max acceptable muscle.

As for a specific type, my Chad has taken many forms over the years. Punk or emo is still attractive to me, but there seem to be less of them around these days. I like hipsters now for some reason. I have a theory that these types are typically NTs, but I have yet to confirm that.

GinSmokeLies · 2017-03-30T14:57:01+00:00

Yes this is definitely a thing. It's basically what people mean when they say they have a "type."

For example I'm really into Hispanic guys, always have been. That's my "type." Some of my friends think that's weird. My best friend is really into the blonde-haired, blue-eyed all-American looking guys which doesn't appeal to me at all. Etc.

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Tyler_Gatsby · 2017-03-30T17:27:26+00:00

Generally speaking, if you can heavily attract an average looking woman, you can attract many different types of women. Women have a very generic and universal taste in men when it comes to looks.

Superfluous_Toast · 2017-03-31T09:54:27+00:00

Why is everyone obsessed with hands? Did I miss the memo as a girl that hands are important? Is it stored in the same file as muscles? Because I'm not interested in those either.

SeemedGood · 2017-04-01T08:11:51+00:00

I hope that you're asking just to see what women say, because that's all you're going to find out by asking women.

If you want to see how their actual attraction patterns run, observe what they do. And observe with the understanding that some significant portion of what gets done is done behind closed doors in Vegas.

Unless you run with a particularly prolific group of guys, only a very small percentage of guys that you know will be "successful" with women - as in can get laid whenever they want. Ask them.

What you will hear is that while women do have different conscious attraction cues both individually and demographically, their sub-conscious attraction cues aren't really that different with the proviso that their innate attraction to genetic difference creates some superficial differences based on ethnography. The conscious ones are the ones that count most for a relationship, and the innate ones are what get you laid. Obviously, a combination of the two is what gets you into Wonka's Chocolate Factory.

cxj · 2017-03-30T17:19:35+00:00

Yes there is and I addressed this issue in detail in my depth hub post on hypergamy and the 80/20 rule

I'd link but I'm on my phone just find the depth hub in the side bar

fatchobanispliff · 2017-03-30T16:44:48+00:00

I don't know what chad is, but if by chad you mean a typical jock or meathead bro I've never fucked or dated one. I came close to it with one guy, but the lack of anything to talk about bored me and I lost any interest. I crushed on a wrestler in highschool but he was skinny and liked video games, and was in no way at the top popularity wise or in the way of conventional looks. The same traits I like are just slight to moderate attractiveness and weird or bizarre behaviors interests. Every guy I'd ever liked or been with has had problems with the law or problems with stability. I guess there is no "chad" there's just traits girls are attracted to.

Title	Q4W: Is there such a thing as a case-specific Chad, or a Chad who is only a Chad for you, or a certain demographic of women?
Author	Tyler_Gatsby
Upvotes	6
Comments	136
Date	March 30, 2017 2:31 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
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