I can't get over my cheating ex.

Metalgear222 · 2020-05-18T21:39:56+00:00

I can tell you what you want to hear or what you need to hear. I'm going with the latter; She is 100% not thinking of you right now and doesn't give a shit about you. She does not even in the slightest feel guilty. Your revenge fantasy will not come true. You need to have some RESPECT for yourself and realize that she's winning by you caring. She's a complete whore, her loss. However, You broke the cardinal rule, never be more invested than she is.

Have the foresight to realize that you can and WILL do better than her with time. Shit is fucked everywhere right now, stay on top of your shit and wait for things to return to normal and you can go out and find one that actually deserves your time and attention. There is no other correct way to look at this situation if you're forreal about her fucking a bunch of sugar daddies behind your back. I'm assuming you overlooked a fuck ton of red flags to end up in this situation in the first place. It's okay, just learn from it and move on.

lozboss · 2020-05-18T20:49:57+00:00

Mate you need to lock her on social media.

Time will change things. There's no special pill. You'll think less and less as time goes on until it's once a year at most.

IBETITALL420 · 2020-05-18T23:27:47+00:00

Listen to this advice very carefully. Rule number 1 of frame: YOU ARE ALWAYS FUCKING BETTER THAN HER

DO YOU FUCKING UNDERSTAND?

YOU'RE MISSING THE CUNT, CAUSE YOU THINK IT'S BETTER THAN YOU.

BUT IT'S FAR FROM THE TRUTH, EVERY SINGLE FUCKING DAY SHES GETTING OLDER AND OLDER AND APPROACHING THE FUCKING WALL.

YOU? YOU'RE WORKING ON IMROVING YOUR MONEY, YOUR LIFTS, YOUR SMV, YOUR RED PILL FRAME. IN FUCKING 1 YEAR YOU WILL HAVE ALREADY 100000X SUCCEEDED/ACCOMPLISHED MORE SHIT THAN THAT DUMB CUNT.

IN 1 YEAR, THAT CUNT IS GONNA BE OLDER, AND CLOSER TO DEVELOPING WRINKLES. HER SMV RELIES ENTIRELY ON HER APPEARANCE. YOUR SMV RELIES ENTIRELY ON YOUR FRAME. THINK ABOUT IT.

ViolentInteger · 2020-05-18T21:37:12+00:00

she texted me at 1 am on a Saturday, "Can I see you?" 1 minute later "Sorry nvm."

FYI, she wanted to fuck. Those in the intermediate and advanced stages of RP theory can make this happen without any consequences, but those in the beginner phase (i.e.: you) absolutely cannot FWB an ex-LTR without failing spectacularly. But I thought I'd point it out.

Why isn't her phone number blocked? Someone in your position needed to hard-next her.

I've seen instagram stories of her

You shouldn't be looking at that shit. Block everywhere.

I can't get over the deceit, the lies, everything.

The solution isn't easy, but it is very straightforward: block everywhere, lift your fucking face off like your life depends on it (because it does), work on your mission (you do have one, right?), and spin plates. After a while, you'll have forgotten all about her.

So many guys come in here with similar questions, thinking their situation is unique. It never is.

theunconquored · 2020-05-18T20:50:37+00:00

Every guy has a story like this. Well, maybe not quite like this, but still...

What are you doing with your life? Tell me about your gym habits. Tell me about your reading and self improvement. Tell me about your work towards career advancement.

You're still so focused on her, and it sounds like she's probably pretty damn good looking, so that can be hard to forget.

Go find and read the 16 Commandments of Poon. Realize and take responsibility for where YOU fucked up in every one of them, then vow to be better.

But you have to first learn to give enough of a fuck about yourself to really invest in yourself. Improve yourself. Commit to yourself and make yourself better, a little bit at a time. Every day, be a little better than yesterday. Grow your own sense of confidence.

This is how you become the prize. This is how you become your own mental point of origin. This is how you develop frame and pull chicks hotter than her on any given Tuesday afternoon, then leave them in a tailspin for 3 months when YOU move on.

Get better. Tell me, right fucking now, what you are going to do to get better today. Then go do it. I'd humbly suggest working on your grooming habits, working out, or reading "The Rational Male", but maybe you can just muster cleaning up your house and getting a little organized. Just do something.

bminusmusic · 2020-05-19T00:03:57+00:00

First off, fuck anyone who tells you you’re a “beta faggot” for still having trouble with this. This goes beyond just a messy breakup, this is a borderline traumatic obliteration of your trust and I can’t imagine how awful this must have been for you.

Sometimes things this bad take longer to get over for certain people. You need to keep increasing the emotional disconnect, not talking to her or looking at any pictures of her anything like that, in order to reach a pinnacle of just not giving a shit. Some guys achieve this in a week, others it takes a year or more. Sometimes fucking other girls just doesn’t work nearly as well as time does for healing this. Your time will come, just keep doing what you’re doing and focusing on you, I promise you will feel a little better each day. And remember your ex is a fucking psycho who will end up ruining a bunch of other guys’ lives too.

A recent similar story of mine is: I broke up with my girlfriend a few months ago. I just found out the other night that within a few weeks of us calling it quits, she fucked two of my fraternity brothers. One was my grand-little and the other one apparently they had a 5-hour sex marathon, both while we had still been in communication with each other. I don’t know why I had to find out these details, but I also felt like I was going to throw up. However, because she and I have stopped talking as of last month it didn’t hurt as bad, because I had already begun the emotional distancing process and I felt good just trying not to give a shit knowing I am much better off without her.

alphaonthecomeup · 2020-05-18T21:18:41+00:00

Your situation is a lot worse then mine so I can’t imagine how you must be feeling.

I broke up with my ex little over 3 months ago also and I still think about her every day. I don’t know why the brain defaults to it but it really does suck.

I’ve been doing the same shit, improving constantly and all this and yeah it’s harder during quarantine.

To keep it real , I don’t have any advice for you really, but to just keep living. When a thought of her comes in my mind, I try to catch it sometimes and tell myself it’ll pass. The thoughts done define me and my value, I am a pretty elite man, just because she doesn’t see it doesn’t mean anything. // It only hurts because I thought highly of her and wanted her approval endlessly. I didn’t think my “turn” would end.

In my case and Maybe in your case you miss the illusion of her that you had in your head (sweet, submissive, couldn’t do no wrong girl) , you don’t really miss her (the actual her) .. or maybe you do. I don’t know.

I don’t know if girls think about their ex guys either, I’d like to think that if I knew she was thinking about me on the reg I’d feel better but I don’t think it would change anything really at this point. The damage has been done , the heartache is being lived and nothing was the same.

A lot of heads say time heals all wounds. I hope it does because this heartache shit is not fun and really was not necessary. It sucks because I also feel like it is self induced torture, but at the same time it isn’t.

Life has got its insanely high ups and it’s got its insanely garbage downs. Feel your emotions and try to enjoy/use them. Hopefully you don’t feel this way forever, but while you do, you could do some real introspective shit. This is how men are made I guess.

All in all bro, just know that you are not a bitch for thinking about her and wanting her to hit you up. It’s normal. It sucks. Just keep pushing forward.

Love yourself.

Unlikely_Composer · 2020-05-18T22:28:03+00:00

“Can’t get over my cheating ex”

Yes. You can.

You’re where I was 4 years ago now. I got hurt bad.

It took me 2 more years to begin to see the bigger picture. It took a year after that to find TRP.

I’m super tired right now but I’ll come back to this tomorrow and give a better response because I care about this.

hopingforclearskin · 2020-05-18T22:33:38+00:00

I've been there. I'm sure we all have. It hurts to be deceived and lied to for so long. However, it is time to have some self-respect for yourself. You feel like shit that she whored out because you hold her own sense of respect higher than your own self-respect. Keep a holistic mindset and stop playing the victim game. Ask yourself these questions:

"Would I have preferred to never know about how much of a whore she was and remain naively happy?"
"If I knew in the bottom of my heart that this bitch wasn't going to be the mother of my children, why the fuck do I care about what she does?"
"Why do I keep her around and haven't blocked her yet? Is it because I know there's hope between us or am I just dwindling in grief and feeling bad for myself?"

In your mind, you always had expectations for her. You probably even envisioned a potential future with her whether it was a long-term relationship or even a wifey. This is where you fucked up. Ghost her, cry about it a little, but make sure you learn not to hold unrealistic expectations for bitches. AWALT.

comcain · 2020-05-18T23:01:36+00:00

She's taking money for fucking. A whore. That's what a sugar Daddy is about. Thank god she is out of your life, you never have to look at her disgusting face again. She's a worthless slut who fucked around on you. Again, thank god she's out of your life! Thank god you found out before she gave you a world of STD's!

Remember that much of what she said and did was lies. It's not your fault. I know how supportive a hot girl can seem to the ego - I really do, been there - but brother, you dodged a bullet here. She was studying you and shifting her personality to be what you wanted. She's a borderline.

Your memories are partly of lies, it's time to prune them.

The best way I know of to get rid of thoughts circling like this is to write them down. Really get intense with it. Use words like "tramp, whore, worthless cheating bitch", and more. Let yourself get angry. For some reason, writing it down gets it out of you. It drains the poison out. It's as much fun as throwing up but it really helps. The thoughts stop circling in your mind. Do it.

It could be way worse...

My ex wife called the cops on me one day out of the blue and accused me of assault. She told 6 different cops 6 wildly different stories. Nevertheless, I got handcuffed and taken to jail. She got a restraining order to keep me out of the house. Thank god my brother bailed me out.

Turns out she planned it all and executed it passably well. She was a borderline, and they break permanently around age 30. She could switch personalities in thirty seconds flat.

All this was rather expensive ... attorney fees, etc.

Your ex sounds like a borderline, switching to the personality needed for a given sugar daddy.

I want you to consider yourself as lucky. You're lucky you're not in jail. You're rid of her without being divorce raped. You're lucky you didn't marry her. You're lucky you didn't have kids with her. You're lucky she's not helping herself to half your income and child support. You're really fortunate.

People here can tell you worse stories than mine.

Brother, I know it hurts to be cheated on. Been there. Here's what will happen. Right now your path led you down into a canyon. There's wreckage there. But your path continues! You'll gradually come out of the canyon and keep on walking. Soon you'll have no urge to look back and see the trainwreck down in the canyon.

Every new experience is another step on your path. Go wild! Have lots of new experiences, all without that slut!

Go journal those thoughts out. Keep working out; strong body, strong mind. Start imagining the new you that will be walking forward. You will find a hotter girl, if you want one. You will find a girl that isn't shifting her personality to be exactly what you want (borderline). Again, if you want. Girls are not essential.

Luck, brother. Hang in there.

Cheers

jojojijo333 · 2020-05-18T20:51:01+00:00

“Failure gave me strength. Pain was my motivation.” Michael Jordan

Or you can stay a bitch

Kabuki431 · 2020-05-18T21:45:27+00:00

Sorry about your pain but i wasn't one of those.

Reality is every girl out there with fuck for money or luxury lifestyle. Improve your self and keep fucking other women, there's always younger tighter women out there. Hell i don't even need to spin plates anymore, there are so many i just pump and dump them and still fresh supply every day.

Unlikely_Composer · 2020-05-18T22:28:27+00:00

!remindme 12 hours

renoka · 2020-05-18T23:36:49+00:00

Necessary first step is to block all forms of communication with her and let your friends know that you don’t want to know if they’ve seen her around. Stop being fed breadcrumbs so your mind isn’t wondering what she’s up to. Shit like this happened to me 2-3 years ago and I definitely recall the pain I was in. Fast forward to now, with me as a better person and lots of time to heal, it doesn’t bug me as much as it did in the past. I still get “mad” since we did have lots of mutual friends but I can confidently say I moved on. Best of luck man. Focus on yourself and give it time.

hopingforclearskin · 2020-05-19T01:30:02+00:00

Don’t follow her on any social media. She doesn’t exist.

Cerohero · 2020-05-19T01:40:57+00:00

We've all been there, mine was the reason for this awakening. Still hurts though when I see her guess kryptonite does exist despite being better

xerxes3 · 2020-05-19T05:10:59+00:00

Something similar happened to me recently. Found out my "girlfriend" was actually engaged to someone else, living a double life. Told the fiancee and compared notes, we both cut her out. Took me a long time to get over it. Part of it is the sting of rejection and the pain of loss; the mystery of how you can fall in love with someone so horrible; and anger at yourself for seeing all the red flags but looking past them anyway.

But eventually, you get over it. And it helps to go completely no contact and block her and all her friends everywhere on every medium.

Here are three quotes that helped me.

1 - Don's speech in Mad Men about the urgency of moving forward (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PDr42dzsbAQ)

2 - Mike's speech to Jimmy in Better Call Saul about recovering from loss and our responsibility for the consequences of our choices (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gsPs_SkwItc)

3 - This defense of love from Roissy (before he became insanely racist) (https://heartiste.org/2007/07/06/love/):

A lot of seducers mistakenly think that love is a garnish to the main course of pursuing and winning the hearts of women. They compartmentalize — it’s a bonus to feel love, but damned if they’ll let that get in the way of the good times. The worst thing to happen to a guy who gets ass regularly is not rejection (after all, rejection is the badge of honor worn by womanizers) but falling in one-sided love. Or, similarly, falling in love only to have his woman dump him. Getting dumped is part of the game, and can be expertly handled, especially if there are fallback options. But the alpha who succumbs to the folly of love opens himself up so completely that state control is no longer his prerogative. He risks everything, including his most cherished asset… his trust.

This is the wrong way of approaching relationships. It’s fine to be calculating about the pick up, and the dating, and even the relationship management, but attempting to corral as thermonuclear an emotion as love is only going to light the fuse on the bomb. I’ve seen many players sabotage their relationships with really great girls who had captured their hearts because they feared losing control under the chaos of being in love. They put all this effort into bedding her and making her fall for them that they lost sight of the main objective. A man can be all alpha but if he doesn’t cash it in for the ultimate prize he’s revealed the beta at his core.

I once lost a girl I loved. The rush of pain was so intense even a fight club pummeling couldn’t have distracted me from it. But I didn’t stoically shrug it off. I threw glasses at the wall. I broke things. I smashed up my apartment.

If you aren’t smashing stuff after losing a lover you don’t know the pleasure of relinquishing everything for love.

Unlikely_Composer · 2020-05-19T10:03:36+00:00

I made a brief comment here earlier, but wanted to make a proper reply when I had more time, so here I am.

A few years ago I was BP and dating a girl who cheated on me after (and probably during) a 2 year LTR. It took me a while to get over it, but I honestly find it funny sometimes now.

I realize that by making this post I will come across as a beta faggot but that's why I'm here asking for help.

That makes you far better than all the BPs that never actually do anything about their issues.

Long story short, found out my ex had been fucking dozens and dozens of sugar daddies for money, and guys from bars, etc.

Be thankful that you found out. Some people never find out/choose to never find out.

I ended it when I went through her phone and learned the truth about her. I told her never to call or text me again, and that was it.

Good reaction. You got out of the relationship with your balls. I know so many people who would've "tried to make it work".

We ended things a little over 3 months ago. 5 weeks after ending it, she texted me at 1 am on a Saturday, "Can I see you?" 1 minute later "Sorry nvm." I never responded to this.

Well done for not responding. This is just her prodding to see if you're still under her control. Make no mistake, she is a wild animal and will tell you whatever you want to hear just so she can own you again.

I've seen instagram stories of her getting drunk with her friends and regulars at her workplace. She looks happy and free.

Eh. Who gives a fuck, right?

Since the breakup, it's been hard to get over her, and even harder with quarantine. I've had sex with 4 girls, my first threesome, and not one of them compares to her in terms of sex, looks, etc.

Yup. I went through this too. Just realise that this idealistic image you have of her is a result of the chemicals in your brain slowly wearing off. If you showed me a picture of her, no doubt I'd tell you she wasn't actually as hot as you think. This will go away soon enough. The simple solution is to fuck more women, but I know this isn't exactly possible given the current situation. Get under a barbell for now.

I workout, try and stay busy, hang with friends as often as I can.

Good. You're lifting right? What about your mission?

I think about her every day, want her to reach out and show that she has at least some guilt, but for what? I should be THANKFUL that she's no longer in my life.

I've been here too. I for the longest time I wanted to reach out and launch a mountain of abuse at my ex for what she did to me. I had a need for her to understand what she'd done. She never will because she doesn't actually care. Solipsism.

She's probably getting dicked down multiple times a week, still is getting fucked up drunk, all this shit.

Oh absolutely.

Meanwhile even when I try and do those things, it all just comes back to her.

Women move on faster. That's just how it is. Give it a bit more time. The though of fucking my ex makes me laugh these days. She's fucking crazy.

I can't get over the deceit, the lies, everything. Just looking for some help please.

For me, the physical side of what my ex did was bad enough but unexpectedly, I was more hurt by the lies she told me. Weird right? The thing is the BP teaches you to idealise who you're with as a magical princes. It's all horseshit. People do awful things to each other. When you found out what your ex was doing, it completely destroyed this image you had of her, and than can do real damage.

Here's some shit you're going to learn, so I'll give you a quick primer:

It isn't the first time she's done this to someone, and it won't be the last.
This fantasy of revenge, and making her feel guilt is never going to happen. To truly move on, you're going to need to accept that you no longer "need" her to do or think anything.
She's already riding new dicks and probably has a new chump lined up. Pity the guy.
she'll probably try to fuck some of your friends to make you jealous.
You'll get over this sooner than you think, you just have to allow yourself to let go.

Lift. Read. Focus on your development.

You'll remember this in years to come and realise it doesn't even matter.

Best of luck,

UC

UnkownChain · 2020-05-18T20:59:15+00:00

Thats life mate, its not meant to be easy or fair, just to be lived.

You know, many ppl here have gone through horrible things. But what differs us from the incels is what we do with the experience: we learn and adapt, they cry and resent.

You did well totally cutting her, and now its time to move forward. Didnt find anyone as hot/good at sex as her? Thats ok. Some will say this is lack of abundance (and it is in most cases), but among all the chicks, one might always make you more excited than other (eg favorite plate), and you only overcome this by moving forward.

Are yoy giving up your life because youre not the 12 yo dude who got into college? Ofc not, it might hurt you inside thinking about it on the beggining but you'll eventually ignore/forget the comparison and keep going, and same thing must be done with your ex

Stay strong mate, you probably just wanted to vent because there is clear hope in you, just keep reading, applying what you learn and eventually be the best self you can be.

Edit: typo

brianmcg321 · 2020-05-18T22:21:16+00:00

Just fuck her while you fuck other chicks. She is definitely not GF material or especially wife material. She's got more DNA in her than a sperm bank. Gross.

Personally I wouldn't fuck her with someone else's dick. She's just gross.

oooKenshiooo · 2020-05-18T23:25:37+00:00

In those cases, I do it like the comedians:

I find the funny in it.

You have the most horrible story ever, forever. And that shit is golden. Pure, comedic gold. That shit is so hilariously over-the-top evil, it is super fucking funny. You win every "my horrible ex"-one-up-battle for all eternity.

Find a way to tell that story in a funny way - you will be over it in no time!

hopingforclearskin · 2020-05-19T00:22:26+00:00

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hombredelmurir · 2020-05-19T01:01:25+00:00

Rule no.1 : Don't DATE A HOOKER

ay-fuh-q · 2020-05-19T01:14:49+00:00

3 months ago, I made a post in this subreddit called: "Just found my now ex-gf has been fucking 50+ sugar daddies in the last 9 months. I'm sick to my stomach." if you want to read about it.

Just this title sounds like cuck porn. WHAT?

Long story short, found out my ex had been fucking dozens and dozens of sugar daddies for money, and guys from bars, etc. I ended it when I went through her phone and learned the truth about her. I told her never to call or text me again, and that was it.

Right move.

I think about her every day, want her to reach out and show that she has at least some guilt, but for what?

She's not feeling guilt. She's trying to feel individual dicks while multiple ones penetrate simultaneously.

I can't get over the deceit, the lies, everything. Just looking for some help please.

It sucks. It does. And your story, if true, is worse than others.... but we all have to get over the bullshit. You have to. You will. Stay strong, brother.

Tambamwham · 2020-05-19T02:06:38+00:00

Delete social media. Stay away from strippers type. Girl’s that work at hooters are strippers types. Hooters/ twin peaks/ strip clubs... they are sugar baby HQ. no man with self respect should even go there. Leave it to fat construction workers alcoholics whose wives don’t want to fuck them. You need to lifting everyday and focusing on you.

HurricaneHugues · 2020-05-19T05:11:00+00:00

Relax. Give yourself some time. You should probably stop watching those stories of hers

clonegreen · 2020-05-19T05:16:19+00:00

Her motives don't matter at this point. I was in the same boat as you, ex was great in many ways but at the same time, her actions cemented who she really was.

I know you're probably mulling over what she means , why she did what she did, but keep in mind all that is 100% meaningless as you know in your heart of hearts it's over.

The attachment you held may make you feel heartbroken , but you will get over it if you choose to continue self development.

It's not easy at first , cause you're literally like a drug addict caught by the oxytocin rush she gave you. But no matter how great the sex, attraction and admiration , her choices revealed how ugly she really is inside.

Lostfate09 · 2020-05-19T10:05:23+00:00

Mate you dodged a HUGE bullet and one day you'll realize it. You can't just "Forget" about her, just live your life, improve yourself and slowly over time you'll think of her less and less until one day you'll realize you don't really think about her at all anymore. Good luck

Longgbottom · 2020-05-19T10:22:43+00:00

I think about her every day, want her to reach out and show that she has at least some guilt, but for what?

Guilt you say my man? There is no guilt. No woman ever will feel guilty for walking all over ya. In her mind, she did what she had to for her self-preservation. Why would one feel guilty for seeking their own best interests? You are hoping to elicit an emotion in her that never existed in the first place.

It is tough. Almost everyone has an experience where they are brutally wronged and the Universe won't apologize - there is no respite. Ya have to let of these corrosive emotions Pal. You won't be avenging anything and she is never gonna apologize. C'est la vie. Live on. Godspeed!

hopingforclearskin · 2020-05-19T11:44:36+00:00

Fucks 4 girls in the past 3 months and cries over an ex with an N count in the tripple digits.. ok

volvostupidshit · 2020-05-19T11:52:33+00:00

Just think about this shit whenever the thought of her lingers on your mind; do you really want your kids to have a mother that is passed around by old guys?

MonsterZed3 · 2020-05-19T12:29:48+00:00

Having sex with 50+ dudes for money......How is that a sugar daddy situation? When did we stop calling women prostitutes/ hookers for this behavior?

Fabulous-Craft · 2020-05-19T14:08:36+00:00

Does anyone believe these people crying about their oneitis who say "i've fucked six 10s and had an orgy and I still can't get over them"?

i-am-the-prize · 2020-05-19T18:56:34+00:00

dude, be thankful.

i feel for the dudes who get cheated on by ONE DUDE. i.e.: your woman picked ONE DUDE over you, because that dude was singularly better/more High Value than YOU.

this is not your situation. you were cheated on by a professional whore, with dozens of other mena - I mean, big deal. Get over it. she isn't worth the time you're giving her. move on already.

BigTreats · 2020-05-19T19:28:49+00:00

keep plate spinning and doing more to improve yourself it did the job for me after breaking up with my ex

supa_mans · 2020-05-20T12:44:56+00:00

You have had emotional trauma inflicted on you. That's why you weirdly have an attraction to her still and want to get answers from her. It's similar to how battered women behave when they go back to an abuser. I believe it's called the trauma bond. Perfectly normal man but there's no easy answer. It just takes a long ass time to get right from emotional abuse like that.

hopingforclearskin · 2020-05-18T22:07:15+00:00

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TxnyMontana · 2020-05-18T21:50:24+00:00

Chill man, same kinda story happened to all of us. You're not the first (or last) guy being cheated. It's ok to think about it sometimes, and even everyday. People in my country say that it takes twice the time you were together to heal the breakup. I don't know. But whay I do know is that the things you're feeling are normal.

First of all, i'd sugest to embrace it. It's over, it hurted like shit. But the good thing is that this is a good oportunity to start over. Block her, you don't want to receive late night messages anymore. Block her on social media too.

As you say, you're training and stuff. You sound like a guy with a purpose. Give it time, keep on doing your stuffs and hobbies. Keep yourself busy and you'll do it fine.

breakdatass · 2020-05-19T03:42:49+00:00

So many thousands of words when all you need to hear is "STOP BEING A FUCKING BITCH"

Title	I can't get over my cheating ex.
Author	hopingforclearskin
Upvotes	31
Comments	117
Date	May 18, 2020 8:39 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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