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[–]HennyyenniFDS Apprentice281 points282 points283 points 4 years ago* (13 children) | Copy Link
By keeping things casual I mean I have the right to verbally and emotional abuse you for dating or even talking to other men because how dare you I should be enough yet you can’t expect more from me than a WYD text and some wack dick. And also If i get rejected from being a male porn star or I’m expected to pay my evil baby mama 299 a month you better sympathize but whoa you got raped or whoa your parent died? Too much for me to handle and we are CAZUAL so your fault for expecting anything of me
Oh and I almost forgot, I can point out hot girls to you and talk about other women to your face because we are CAZUAL
I just remember when this guy on a dating app was like ideally you’ll only fuck me but I’ll be able to fuck other women and this dude was white and I’m a Latina and I’m just like these white guys get so gassed and it doesn’t help that a lot of WOC be gassing up basic ugly white dudes who don’t give two fucks about them cough choke mindy Kaling
[–]Queencake504FDS Apprentice29 points30 points31 points 4 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
"Oh and I almost forgot, I can point out hot girls to you and talk about other women to your face because we are CAZUAL"
Yup😠 disrespectful asf
[–]ItsFreezenFDS Newbie3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This
[–]supremelyparanoidFDS Apprentice[S] 68 points69 points70 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Sis this is biblical
[–]galian84FDS Apprentice13 points14 points15 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ughhhh this is so on point. Tried a "casual" thing with someone for a few months in the past, and this was pretty much him.
I will never do casual again.
[–]ChocolateBiscuit96FDS Newbie14 points15 points16 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Facts! Guys gas me up all the time, and I’m like thanks, but you’ll never see me gassing you up. And it’s so funny when they ghost or get mad at you like you weren’t just in my inbox first - saying dumb shit like “l love you” within the first few hours of messaging or “you’re so beautiful”, etc, etc. Hear it all the time and it never means anything!
[–]ghygdryhchmmmmjjFDS Newbie25 points26 points27 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yea 🤬
[–]purasangriaRuthless Strategist24 points25 points26 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
These assholes want an entire harem. Nope.
[–]nnnsFDS Newbie8 points9 points10 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Lol this is hilarious
...but what did mindy kailing do?
[–]one-anus-grab-away26 points27 points28 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Omg this was me. Thank you for this.
[–]Dirty_Commie_JesusFDS Newbie11 points12 points13 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Periodt.
[–]Chandira143FDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I know THIS guy. Brilliantly written!!
[–]--wellDAM--FDS Apprentice161 points162 points163 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Clowns? In my vagina?
It’s more common than you think.
[–]supremelyparanoidFDS Apprentice[S] 80 points81 points82 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I think they have a cure for that called FDS
[–]mephitmpHFDS Newbie48 points49 points50 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Jesus Christ sis it’s not a clown car 🤣🤣
[–]HolyCatatoeFDS Newbie11 points12 points13 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ahahaha! OMG
[–]Knackered_HubcapsFDS Newbie3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Haaaaa your comment made my day! So damn true.
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Is that what "It" is about? Get back in the sewer clown
[–]aryawhitesbaneFDS Newbie155 points156 points157 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Or even better...let's do everything people in a relationship for 6 months+ do but let's not commit so now instead of being your boyfriend you're forced to call me the guy you sleep with 5 times a week
[–]supremelyparanoidFDS Apprentice[S] 44 points45 points46 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I shivered 😢
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[–]aryawhitesbaneFDS Newbie8 points9 points10 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
My sister has been doing this for over a year now and its heart breaking because I know she wants a relationship but that dick head wont commit...but she'd rather have him as a fuck buddy than nothing at all.
[–]supremelyparanoidFDS Apprentice[S] 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Tell her to dump his ass
[–]binahbabeFDS Newbie28 points29 points30 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I almost fell for that a few months ago, but I shimmied out of it real quick.
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[–]supremelyparanoidFDS Apprentice[S] 47 points48 points49 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I used to have a casual guy like this last year but I never had sex with him. Damn you like hurt my own damn feelings haha 🤣 you’re right
[–]ghygdryhchmmmmjjFDS Newbie28 points29 points30 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yup. The double standard is mind blowing.
[–][deleted] 22 points23 points24 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This comment literally made me cackle like a hyena.
[–]siberiansummerFDS Disciple75 points76 points77 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Or “if I wanna stay on Tinder to look for better options while I have sex with you, you have no right to be mad”
[–]purasangriaRuthless Strategist74 points75 points76 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The last guy who told me, "let's keep it casual" really meant this: "I want to fuck you while not emotionally committing to anything and also while continuing to date other women, who I'm also fucking."
Nope.
So the EMOTIONS are casual, but the sex is as if you're in a relationship. He gets all the sex-related relationship benefits, and otherwise behaves as if he's single.
If a man says, "Let's keep it casual," then friendzone him or dump him; he doesn't want a relationship. Sure, let's keep it casual, indeed.
[–]saucypieceFDS Newbie34 points35 points36 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is why I like asking a guy to describe the type of casual relationship he wants and then follow it up with, “so a girlfriend without the title?”
Some of them have responded with an overly enthusiastic “yes!” It’s like dude, really? Really? Did that just whoosh right over your head?
[–]prettyexcitingnewsFDS Disciple29 points30 points31 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Just do not give men any benefits that should come only after being in a decent relationship.
[–]bitch_not_itFDS Newbie84 points85 points86 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
It also usually means "let's have sex whenever I want plus emotional intimacy but I can have this with 3 other girls. You can't do this with any other guy. Only me"
[–]fabianoidFDS Newbie7 points8 points9 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Omg yes, this!
[–]janeaustenfan99FDS Newbie21 points22 points23 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
casual = i don't like you
[–][deleted] 20 points21 points22 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Or they take it a step further like my ex-husband. He decided after he discovered what polyamorous is, declares that that's what he is and if I don't want to join him we need to divorce and that my friend was open to trying it with him so they both ran off and are trying that. She's a MAJOR pickmeisha. She told me flat out that she knew it was wrong, but she was just so lonely with no friends or man but my ex was always there for him. It hurt like a mother, but if he was willing to destroy a marriage over pussy that he described as, it's just different, not better or worse, then she can have my sloppy seconds. He was a total introverted, elitist nerd who, once he got attention from another female his ego blew up and now he thinks he is going to live happily poly after. Lol. And the best part is he is already interested in another woman, so, if he gets lucky, we will see if my ex-friend turned snake really is truly ok with that little arrangement. Good riddance to them both. Thank God we didn't have any children!
[–]si_vis_amari__amaFDS Newbie17 points18 points19 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The reason why I don't have sex for at least 3 months of lavish generous kind treatment.
[–]theghettogirlFDS Newbie16 points17 points18 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Or they try to do this if you tell him you're not into casual dating they love bomb with the whole be my girlfriend please" (within the weeks of telling them) and if you say yes they use you and dump you in three months . Seen it happen to a couple of my girlfriends so y'all watch out.
[–]lyricthesecondFDS Newbie9 points10 points11 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
if you tell him you're not into casual dating
Yeah that's why I tell them very little about what I want and don't want. I don't know this guy, what's stopping him from playing a role to get sex? You indirectly find out who they are. Words are so cheap - actions are what matter. You don't want to give them the script set you up for a letdown.
[–]HighLife0001FDS Newbie17 points18 points19 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
There’s nothing casual about sex. Sex is intimate, it is personal, and it carries a lot of responsibility. Treating sex as a casual act brings more cons than pros for women, biologically, emotionally and physically. I don’t recommend any woman to practice casual sex. If you want to, you do you, I’m not going to judge, but it is not wise. And none of us should pretend it’s empowering or beneficial for us in any sense to participate
[–]stillcantseeFDS Disciple46 points47 points48 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Last guy who wanted to keep it casual texted me one day- he’d seen on my ig story I was out at a restaurant celebrating my new job. He said he was in the area...for a date...and he didn’t wanna make it weird in case we ran into each other. I told him (in a very NON casual way) to go fuck those girls and himself because I’m too good to be pussy on rotation.
NEXT, BITCH!
[–]bootybootybootymeowFDS Newbie4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Lol what a fucking narcissist "hey I know you're not thinking about me AT ALL RIGHT NOW 😤😤😤 SO HERE I AM ALSO I AM ON A DATE MEMEME"
[–]supremelyparanoidFDS Apprentice[S] 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
Sounds like this guy was trying to rain on your parade dude
[–]stillcantseeFDS Disciple3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Wouldn’t put it past him!!
[–]bootybootybootymeowFDS Newbie1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Also must not have been a very good date if he was watching your IG story. Or most likely, he is just trash.
[–]goldenhiccupsFDS Newbie21 points22 points23 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I FEEL THIS POST SO HARD! “Casual” means lemme use her to get my sex/emotional intimacy fix but still seem available for better options.
[–]aTrueJulietteFDS Newbie10 points11 points12 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
My ex in a nutshell 😂
[–]MaidenMBFDS Newbie6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
There are WAY too many of us that share this sentiment.
[–]watershipdownersFDS Newbie4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yes me too and many more of us on here
[–]Lakersrock111Throwaway Account30 points31 points32 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I wait till he is exclusive with me. It could take 6 months. Many men can’t hold out that long.
[–]BlackgirlwandersFDS Newbie4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Dayum! Felt this one in my soul.
Never again.
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