Why do old men think young women and girls dress up for them?

Phoenix__Rising2018 · 2020-11-13T16:31:06+00:00

Men are nothing if not forever hopeful. That's a nicer way of saying most think everything is for them. I checked out a neighbor's tree being cut down in their front yard the other day and the guy working to cut it down thought I was checking him out and got all excited and smiled real big at me! Forever hopeful.

daria1994 · 2020-11-13T16:37:00+00:00

It’s because of ‘American Beauty’, ‘Wild Things’, ‘Lolita’, ‘The professional’, ‘Get Smart’, Bond movies, ‘Lost in translation’, ‘Annie Hall’, etc. Generations after generations of male movie producers pushing an agenda, brainwashing middle-aged men and young girls into thinking they belong together... disgusting. I’m sorry this is done to us.

kapuchen · 2020-11-13T17:22:35+00:00

My mom always says, the last thing to die in a man is his dick. Explains why pervyness prevails when other competencies melt away.

No_Energy7768 · 2020-11-13T17:30:57+00:00

Yeah it makes me very uncomfortable. I am in my late teens and dont even see myself dating a guy in his early twenties. I dont even pay attention to old men, they dont really exist to me or quite invisible. Middle aged men can be very persistent and creepy and I am very wary of that. Thus, I make them feel invisible or ignore them. If they stare at me, I stare at them back with annoyance and disgust or show them how creeped out I am. They usually are taken aback as if it hurt their ego.

Sir, you are 40+. What did you expect ?

Deadgirl1888 · 2020-11-13T18:07:12+00:00

This is a huge reason I have stopped dressing feminine and wearing make up. It sucks I miss dressing up sometimes but the creepers make me want to try and be invisible with baggy clothes.

Stuffnthings1840 · 2020-11-13T20:03:14+00:00

Women and girls aren't people to them

FDSxMuffinVSrat · 2020-11-13T17:15:54+00:00

This is what I love most about the area I live in now. I have never been ogled so little. I feel safer than at any other place I've lived. It's a mini China Town spanning a block or two. Lots of older Asian men that seem really respectful, I even see them picking up litter sometimes.

I've been where you are and it sucks. And no area is immune because men can go anywhere. But I just really appreciate my small pocket.

ponchoacademy · 2020-11-13T20:45:48+00:00

Cause they think everything about them. I rarely ever wear makeup, not even for special occasions. But some days I get up and just feel like it. And its so annoying that the one day I decide to do something cause it makes me feel good to do it, I'll have random guys I dont know from Sam say, you're so beautiful, you dont need to wear makeup, guys will find you pretty even without all that.

Uh. What? Get the eff out my face.

KateJ1982 · 2020-11-13T22:24:23+00:00

The sheer audacity of men is only overshadowed by their entitlement. They believe they are entitled to women's bodies, thoughts, physical labor, emotional labor, financial support and control, etc. For thousands of years this has been legally true. Although we now have legal rights, the old mentality is still reinforced by the majority of the media/culture/entertainment industry - all of which is run by guess who: men. Why would they ever want to give up their power to oppress us?

505ithy · 2020-11-13T23:47:47+00:00

ick I remember when I'd go to my blue collar job to pick up my check the neighboring mechanic would say that I dressed for their attention. Fool what the fuck makes you think I was dressing for your bald, fat, tweaker santa clause looking azz

beebeeteepee · 2020-11-13T19:22:30+00:00

Entitlement. That's it. They think they are entitled to us (all of us) until the day they die.

AppointmentOver1657 · 2020-11-13T22:50:50+00:00

Entitlement

2020-11-14T14:59:04+00:00

They are in their old age and losing their minds. It really is quite sad

Title	Why do old men think young women and girls dress up for them?
Author	kgem1
Upvotes	239
Comments	45
Date	November 13, 2020 4:10 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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