Men of reddit live in a fantasy where truth and lies are reversed. 90% of people who suffer from anorexia are women but I guess society is kinder to overweight women.

whiterabbit818 · 2020-12-12T21:22:51+00:00

I think it’s saying much more about men seeing women as objects and women seeing men as people and whether they’re potential partners .

atuan · 2020-12-12T21:32:01+00:00

They forget about the fact that accomplishments and intellect and personality matter in a man and no one cares about the inner world of women.

LadyGrimes · 2020-12-12T21:29:02+00:00

Probably because men will fuck anything.

AmazonArtemis · 2020-12-12T21:31:00+00:00

Imagine thinking that literally the only beauty standard facing women is to “not be overweight” when we’re living in a world filled with social media “baddies,” where anyone can have access to photoshop. The beauty standards facing women today are literally impossible to live up to because even the IG Baddies™️ can’t look like that in real life! Men are delusional.

atuan · 2020-12-12T21:36:12+00:00

I posted for some advice on r/selfimprovement and I got one response saying that I need to work on getting hotter and losing weight and finding a man and then I won’t have the career and financial issues that I had posted about. Pissed me the fuck off.

2020-12-12T23:11:32+00:00

Can we also just stop to acknowledge that body positivity is not about telling everyone their beautiful and making everyone find each other hot no matter what? It’s about loving your own body and saying that no matter what I look like I am worthy as a person and deserve love and respect from myself and others!

PasDeTout · 2020-12-12T22:52:44+00:00

There’s literal research that says he’s wrong.

Men wanting sex with anything female with a pulse but not meaningful relationships is not really a bonus for women.

Has this dude ever met the kind of men who have six kids by six different women? Quite often unemployed, uneducated, criminal history, look fifty at the age of thirty. He should also see his local prison at visiting time: full of wives/girlfriends and children of the inmates. Some of the prisoners are illiterate, drug addicted, have mental health problems etc etc. They are successful in getting relationships because they know what pond to fish in and have realistic expectations of who might be interested (although tbh some have lucked out).

AyemHerself · 2020-12-12T23:49:34+00:00

So... we should feel sorry for men because their standards are lower?

thinktwiceorelse · 2020-12-12T23:46:20+00:00

Yet I see thumbs dating gorgeous women everyday.

Splatzy19 · 2020-12-12T22:18:53+00:00

Umm... There's no female equivalent of a dad bod? And sorry not sorry for not wanting a man who is not the greasy gamer stereotype in looks. For many of them it's nothing a healthy diet and a decent fucking hair cut couldn't fix so if they don't want to put in that minimal of effort into themselves why should I look their way?

ManchurianCantaloupe · 2020-12-12T21:45:04+00:00

Um. Guys who look like literal neanderthals mock the appearance of the most attractive women in the world all the time. Like thanks for your insight on how unfuckable Megan Fox apparently is, Rocky Dennis.

rideoffalone · 2020-12-12T22:35:51+00:00

It's way easier for men to avoid being overweight because they have more muscle makeup in their bodies and muscle burns more calories than fat (not to mention the fact that they're usually taller than women). Women have more fat for babies.

Ikwhatudoboo · 2020-12-12T21:54:30+00:00

I’m sorry but being hot and skinny didn’t mAgically remove all my problems I cannot believe men actually think and have audacity to tell a woman to “get hot”. Like what are we Cinderella’s? The biggest issue today playing us is all this bombing of unattainable images all for gaining our insecurities and our wallets. Like come on everybody is brainwashed into thinking the better you look the better your life will be and that’s a total lie. Because once you reach your weight loss goal or your surgery or etc are you truly happy then?

Pasdepromesses · 2020-12-12T21:56:42+00:00

We all know this is BS, but hear me out for a moment. Even if this were the truth, why aren't they doing shit about it instead of complaining? Buy a treadmill, Jake. Level up.

SakuraGirl88 · 2020-12-12T22:46:31+00:00

Oh boo hoo. When a man "levels up" so to speak in the looks department, society will treat him like it's the second coming of Jesus and that women are just supposed to drop their panties for them (although men think this without changing appearance). But when a woman is attractive or enhances her beauty, everyone loses their minds and will tell her "you're pretty but you really shouldn't have high standards". And even if a woman improves her appearance, we'll still be picked apart 😫. It's exhausting.

ooftaboofta3 · 2020-12-12T23:13:36+00:00

I understand there are so many reasons this post is wrong but like how about the fact that losing weight is significantly harder for women than men?

Like maintaining the ideal sex doll bod he wants women to have is definitely harder than getting an ok-paying job for a dude. Women have to work for that shit every day, eating only the right foods, never drinking alcohol, exercising CONSTANTLY, and needless to say about old age and having children? What that shit does to your body?

And even if all those things werent problems, women have a harder time losing weight biologically, and we're probably at a higher risk of endocrine issues that would make weight stick (like with PCOS)

Like sorry you flunked out of college because you partied too much and then couldnt get a good job, but you want me to do all that, battle against my physical biology, to have a sex doll body? No thanks.

frustratedmarxistfem · 2020-12-12T23:27:15+00:00

I'm noticing more and more that you cant trust anything men say about relationships because the majority of the time they couch it in soft words like "attention" and "love" but what they mean is sex. It's easy for women to get sex, it's hard for men to have sex. That is all they care about, having sex with lots of different women is what they want and no matter what language they put it in they're looking for advice on how to fuck and leave women or looking for pity because they cant.

Wildestrose1988 · 2020-12-12T23:48:32+00:00

Okay this is completely fucking delusional. None of these are requirement for attracting women. They're just mad that they can't get women that look like supermodels

99power · 2020-12-13T04:56:44+00:00

This actually makes a lot of sense when you consider that they only think of skinny, conventionally attractive/feminine women as women, and everybody else is in an “unwomen” category. They can’t fathom ever approaching any woman on their level as a human being.

2020-12-12T22:08:40+00:00

Lololol.

Men will try to screw us to death while we're starving on the street.

99% of the time, attention given to women is deceitful.

elementalvirago · 2020-12-12T22:23:55+00:00

But a guy can literally choose not to be a fat neckbeard.

Again we are just supposed to accept them as they are but we have one dimple in our thigh and we are damaged goods.

nyclaurco · 2020-12-13T04:47:01+00:00

they don’t make any sense. one minute, all we have to do is not be fat. the next minute, we have to be below 30 (ideally under 25), with no bodily flaws whatsoever because they claim that men are “visual creatures” whereas women are more well-rounded with their attraction, also wanting money and personality besides looks in a partner.

ItsFreezen · 2020-12-13T00:42:09+00:00

If that's true then why did Scrotes create the looks ratings system?

Cool-Fill9819 · 2020-12-12T23:55:14+00:00

In all honesty, they live all over the internet. It's like I can never catch a break from a stupid man while browsing through the web. They are on LinkedIn on YouTube -- I honestly believe the internet is their kingdom. Makes me want to smash my electronic devices.

eluriaeve · 2020-12-12T22:28:19+00:00

“For women... you just need to not be overweight and you’re fuckable to the average man”.

There, I fixed it.

tiavarga · 2020-12-13T17:04:44+00:00

Yeah, the world is soooo kind to overweight women. 🧐

gcthrowaway2019 · 2020-12-13T12:45:22+00:00

Notice how over half of the requirements for attractiveness he names for men are not physical attributes but are personality traits ANYONE can have and build if they get off their ass.

kalina95 · 2020-12-13T13:28:53+00:00

Yea well, we don't marry broke idiots because we know we're gonna have to carry their weight.

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