For years I'd infiltrated alt right channels, group chats and had countless one-on-one conversations with these "activists", who often didn't know I was Jewish based on my appearance.

My reasoning was to figure out what drove them, but to also know how they operated so it would keep me and those I care about safe. At some point, the fashmeishas (as I call them) became a focus for me, because it was almost a parody to talk with them. So I decided we should make a real thread/discussion on our experiences, whether we've had friends, family or have been the fashmeisha.

What I've gathered is that:

  • Many were groomed into that way of thinking and that lifestyle, of which those same women often flee and unlearn all the harm that's been done to them.

  • While many came from fundie/highly religious backgrounds and were groomed, many choose to live a more redpilled/trad lifestyle due to having the opposite; single parent upbringing with chaotic and tumultuous childhood, so they wanted to be the opposite and give their kids what they perceive as a "better life". These ones are less likely to leave since they feel they have more to prove.

  • They are in extreme denial about the extent of hatred these alt right men have towards them, to the point of constantly "not like other girl"-ing ad nauseam.

  • Most aren't receptive to other women's input at all, beyond face value.

  • The truly racist ones, like those who oppose miscegenation, ironically fear their men leaving them for a minority and/or younger woman.

  • Adding onto the above, they've been gaslit into thinking that on one hand, they are "more valuable" because these NVMs "chose" to breed with them. However, they still get programmed into seeing "non-white" (their term of choice) women as a threat since they're aware that alt right men will sgo as far as to sleep with them, but never commit.

  • Those who do manage to leave usually drop off the grid due to the safety risk.

  • Lastly, many of these women knowingly thrive in being outnumbered, because they get even more attention than a woman who doesn't subscribe to hateful ideologies, specifically from the undesirables, the extremists and the bottom feeders who promote violence. They know these men are easier than "normies" and the mass amounts of attention/validation is instant access.

Feel free to add on your thoughts. I'm sure more will come up since there's a lot to dig up in the memory bank.