People 👏🏻 don’t 👏🏻 want 👏🏻 women 👏🏻 to 👏🏻 enjoy 👏🏻 PERIODT

vatellechef · 2021-05-27T06:21:58+00:00

Yet another FDS post perfectly on point...My LVB (Low Value Boss) told me “as a joke”: “no matter how hard I try, I can never make you cry”...like ok scrote, if you have to exploit corporate hierarchy to exert dominance over a woman who is 20 years younger...the whole world and the job market is waaaaay to big for me to ruin my mascara over an OFFICE JOB, no matter how much I like it

spinsterchachkies · 2021-05-27T06:03:14+00:00

Those people are no value, obviously, they are literally sucking the value out of your life. I have noticed this however. NVM are bitter are hostile towards happy women just living their life. A HVM will not be like that. He will not be a piece of shit that hate a happy woman just living doing her thing. It’s sociopathic. My father for example helps make my life easier everyday. He enjoys seeing me and my mom happy. There is a stark difference between a HVM and these NVM. Avoid these bitter hostile evil men at all costs they will ruin your life

Impossible_Mud_7599 · 2021-05-27T06:49:14+00:00

My dad is this. I just keep my success from him now. He’s honestly just mad that I’ve done what he never could have.

Jaelismyhomegirl · 2021-05-27T06:33:44+00:00

I think the manosphere makes the men who participate in it miserable (and yet they keep participating), so they feel it’s oNlY fAiR that they make us miserable, too. Meanwhile, we’re just over here minding out own business, enjoying life because we don’t get involved in internet crab bucket/hugboxing.

Vmwvi · 2021-05-27T06:40:58+00:00

Yeah, they can be hard to get out of your life since they normally double down when they feel like you could escape your grasp. They tend to be super toxic and draining. If they insult your hobbies, are controlling of your time and life, particularly your friend group, it's a pretty good sign that they're trying to hold you down instead of pulling themselves up.

Novemberinthechair · 2021-05-27T11:11:05+00:00

This is why people have a hard on for setting women up with men they're not attracted to. I swear, people have a mortal fear of women enjoying actual chemistry with a man. God forbid.

BBQCoolRanchQueen · 2021-05-27T12:09:52+00:00

Yup. NVXs would often say the hated my laugh (or that I laughed too loud), hated my smile (or smiled too much). Before going very low contact with my current MIL, she'd always find a way to punish any daughter in law she had for being "too happy", whether on the spot or a bit later in the day (for example, criticizing a food item on one's plate or all out gaslighting the "offending" daughter in law about her weight). And she wonders why all of her sons are all VLC these days.

Peak_Tree · 2021-05-27T16:30:57+00:00

And they specially don't want women to enjoy anything if they are mothers. I have no children but it makes me SO angry when I hear people ( specially other women) implying that mothers that go out with their friends/ have hobbies/ retain their personalities and sense of self in a significant way after having kids are bad mothers.

You are supossed to live like your life is over, not be in public with out your kids and nor do anything not related to them or you are a monster.

Pasdepromesses · 2021-05-27T15:49:15+00:00

This is true, and I must say that I even had some of these tendencies (unconsciously) when I was in my late teens and twenties and they made me very unhappy. Even when I was considered the feminist, ‘too educated’, uncontrollable and ‘selfish’ woman of the family I would still give the best plate of food to my SO for example. I was ashamed of being so selfish (aka having the bare minimum wants and needs) and sometimes got angry when I saw women ‘breaking the rules’ and even went above bare minimum for themselves without giving a fuck.

I think we all live in a patriarchal society and it’s inevitable in a way that we all have internalised misogyny to various degrees. It’s a good thing to realise this, because then we can do the works and free ourselves from it.

Pickled_Tink_Tea · 2021-05-27T07:50:44+00:00

Yup, just have a look at my post about my NVDad and brother.

LonelyWineAunt · 2021-05-27T16:27:02+00:00

I have two of my three brothers love to crap on my successes and happiness.

I grew up being told my sports accomplishments didn’t count because I was a girl. Everything I enjoyed was mocked. I was even directly mocked for being a woman.

I now don’t talk to those two brothers.

DeliciousOnionSoup · 2021-05-27T15:35:13+00:00

I'm not a native english speaker and I've read this title as "people don't want women to enjoy [their] period" and was very confused. I sure as hell don't enjoy mine. 😄

But you're right. They want us to be miserable.

sugarelf222 · 2021-05-27T17:24:13+00:00

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mamamyskia · 2021-05-27T16:06:10+00:00

Yup. My ex is determined to take my child away from me and force me to do all sorts of psychological treatments.

You know, the same guy who would lock me out of the house in the middle of the night, pour his beverages on me because he didn't like my attitude, who also choked me while pregnant and threw a cup of his urine on my face? That guy.

My attorney, also a woman, knows he is threatened by my successful life (pre med student and financially stable). The more successful I have become the more he has tried to tear me down.

My mom is the same way as well unfortunately.

rednopal · 2021-05-27T14:47:22+00:00

Absolute truth. Your destiny being in your control sets something off in them.

Partypuppers · 2021-05-27T20:01:59+00:00

I've realised that so many women are so insecure that they find a confident woman offensively arrogant, even if she is just expressing (what should be) normal and healthy levels of self worth and confidence.

As a woman you're always expected to underplay your abilities, your looks, your (insert whatever good thing here) because it's taboo to actually just own it and be proud of it.

Title	People 👏🏻 don’t 👏🏻 want 👏🏻 women 👏🏻 to 👏🏻 enjoy 👏🏻 PERIODT
Author	sugarelf222
Upvotes	353
Comments	35
Date	May 27, 2021 3:17 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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