Ok, just found out a few hours ago that after 18 mos of legal nonsense with my ex that I've just been awarded custody of my kids and I couldn't be happier. She had a lot of baggage and brought it into the relationship...not going to go into it, but still, I was pretty much losing the case because the legal system seems to favor women when it comes to custody. Then I started researching, watching YT vids, to try to find a way to get a fair shot at custody. I bought a book MENy Calculations about two month ago because it was the only thing I could find written for MEN going through divorce/custody stuff. It basically changed my whole approach, and yesterday I triumphed. If you're going through this, it's so so hard, but hang tough brothers, I'm proof that we can win!