Females initiate 70% of domestic violence and Google has no information on how to stop it. Society really does believe its alright for females to attack men.

Dazz316 · 2016-10-09T21:52:11+00:00

People shouldn't hit people. It shouldn't be about sex in the first place.

civilsaint · 2016-10-09T23:19:41+00:00

Can you link to the 70% stat?

bond___vagabond · 2016-10-10T08:54:10+00:00

Growing up as the son of a violently abusive self styled "feminist" mom, I hope this situation is one of those things we look back in shame on in 50 years. I'd say she gave me nothing, but I do have a high pain tolerance.

scanspeak · 2016-10-10T09:01:33+00:00

It's a fundamental human right to be allowed to defend yourself with appropriate force. If a woman is hitting you, you have every right to hit her back.

Neijo · 2016-10-10T00:21:17+00:00

I gotta put it out here, with all the words they use.

They say stuff like "boys shouldn't hit girls", but that is rarely the case, I cant ever remember anyone from middleschool hitting a girl, that was something you got bullied over "omg you cant fight boys haha u fight girls"

I fucking hate the oversimplifying of it all. There is something that triggers a man to hit a woman in later years, that is something to spread, some investigation of it all, and it goes both ways, whats the root of domestic violence and how do we minimize it?

There probably already is a bunch of research of it, but it surely hasn't hit the mainstream, instead we get thousands of these fucking shitty journalistics that dont even try to uncover the truth.

Nulono · 2016-10-09T20:56:59+00:00

Google doesn't respect word order unless you use quotation marks, buddy.

Tmomp · 2016-10-09T23:30:25+00:00

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splodgenessabounds · 2016-10-10T07:50:14+00:00

For those not convinced that the majority of IPV (inter-personal violence) is initiated by women, see also the Partner Abuse State of Knowledge Project. If that's too much bother, I dun a rough-and-ready summary a little while ago.

To the naysayers here, it's perfectly acceptable to question the premise of this thread providing you've read up on the subject. If you haven't, your argumentering and filibustering helps no-one.

DoItLive247 · 2016-10-10T06:35:03+00:00

ABC News did an experiment years ago on this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CRCS6GGhIRc

rougecrayon · 2016-10-10T11:43:46+00:00

Want to do something?http://equalitycanada.com/cause/violenceagainstmen/

All of the programs seem to be in the UK or Canada, US you need to step up and prtect your men!

_bluebayou_ · 2016-10-10T17:08:03+00:00

This survey draws a strong line between "domestic violence" and "male battering" so the title is misleading.

"The authors say they have no intention of minimizing the very real problem of serious domestic violence - the classic male batterer. The survey did not cover the use of knives, guns, choking, or burning, and it was not concerned with the kind of situation that can drive a woman to seek shelter outside the home. The view of the authors is that most intimate partner violence should not be equated with severe battering.

Domestic disputes that turn physical because of retaliation and escalation do not have the same causes or the same consequences as male battering. Couples counseling is generally regarded as ineffective for batterers, but if the violence is moderate and the injuries are minor, both partners involved, and they want to stay together, it makes sense for a therapist to work with both of them."

Lumberingfeather · 2016-10-10T01:15:25+00:00

I'm seriously staring to think MGTOW is the only sensible way for men.

Just avoid these entitled, privileged, man-hating *****es as much as possible.

adelie42 · 2016-10-10T00:15:38+00:00

It is evidence of a belief in inferiority. Some people think men are responsible for the actions of women they date in the same way they feel responsible for the actions of a dog they adopt.

You tell people not to abuse their dogs; nobody would say we need to explain to dogs not to bite. It is the owners responsibility to handle the situation or get out of it.

Some people want equality, some people prefer women were treated like bitches. Feminism has changed the culture of a lot of men away from desiring bitches, next is convincing more women.

FissureKing · 2016-10-10T04:28:01+00:00

That's not quite right. Women are the abusers in 70% of relationships with only one abuser, non-reciprocal violence..The relationships where the other party retaliates are reciprocal violence where both parties are abusers.

I_am_the_night · 2016-10-10T01:57:02+00:00

As /u/Dazz316 says, it's not really about sex, nobody should hit anybody else.

But even if you want to make it about gender, you're using the wrong search terms. This is seriously disingenuous. Here are several searches that provide better results.

2016-10-10T08:57:27+00:00

ITT: Feminists from /r/all going 'nuh-uh!', or otherwise equivocating.

If it should be about gender, why the fuck is it about gender in the first place, and why didn't you ever say that when the feminists first made this all gendered? 20k is an unbelievably large sample size. And unless you can prove that things have changed, you don't get to just assume that things have changed.

Chances are, no one here on reddit is actually smart enough or has enough access to the information to 'debunk' a study. Most of you aren't even 20 yet, FFS.

andybev01 · 2016-10-10T12:12:19+00:00

"So far it hasn't surfaced, But I'm sure it exists..."

McGauth925 · 2016-10-10T13:58:01+00:00

Yes. That's essentially correct. Society really does believe it's alright for females to attack men. That means feminists, and women in general, feel very little conflict about holding different standards for men and women. And, they really don't much talk about the sexism of women anyway. Only the sexism of males is considered worthy of attention. It's very good to have so much dominance in the arena of gender discussions.

kr4psnus · 2016-10-10T14:37:27+00:00

I googled "Teach women not to hit men" and got this - http://www.avoiceformen.com/mens-rights/teach-women-not-to-hit-men-yesallwomen-stephenasmith-stephenasmith/

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2016-10-10T17:53:16+00:00

70% one-way dv, most is reciprocal.

naza1985 · 2016-10-10T19:42:05+00:00

What is the source for the 70% of domestic violence getting started by women, pls?

ioncloud9 · 2016-10-11T20:19:05+00:00

First off, film it. Then try and stop it. Cops will see the video of you defending yourself and you will be most likely not in jail. Chances are she never will be in jail, but at least you won't be.

ThirdTurnip · 2016-10-10T04:34:10+00:00

How do they define initiate? Do they start arguments and the guys are just like "bitch shit up" followed by a punch or do females hit first? I have been hit twice in my life by girls, both unprovoked by me. So that's 100% likelihood for me.

hehexd_reformed · 2016-10-10T10:59:30+00:00

Thing is, Google is probably not micromanaging this. MRA is not as popular as feminism. Google bases their articles and site selection based on that, how popular things are. They're job is not to sell MRA or convince people. That's the job of the MRA community, to create quality content and a strong community. We can blame the "lamestream media" but if you are even an men's rights activist you probably believe that this activism could harbor change thus it's rarely fruitful to blame the messenger for not spreading your unpopular opinion.

ap117 · 2016-10-10T04:31:05+00:00

How many men are killed or hospitalized by their spouses?

Max2000Warlord · 2016-10-09T23:07:00+00:00

Maybe don't look it up on Google, I wouldn't put it past them to censor anything like that. You're better off using bing or DuckDuckGo.

dormetheus · 2016-10-10T08:27:55+00:00

It's about appropriate response to the level of threat. On average, women tend to be about 3-4 weight classes (50 lbs) lower than the average man. Submission tactics should be used

WowzaCannedSpam · 2016-10-10T14:07:59+00:00

Well, this is the stupidest thing I have ever read on this website. Even by your moronic standards this is pretty low.

Avambo · 2016-10-09T21:06:00+00:00

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Females initiate 70% of domestic violence and Google has no information on how to stop it. Society really does believe its alright for females to attack men.

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Rates of female-perpetrated violence higher than male-perpetrated (28.3% vs. 21.6%)