So, based on the recommendations from this sub, I purchased the book “No More Mr. Nice Guy”. I’m literally 30 seconds into the book and everything the author has said is me, to a tee. This is the part that made me write this post :

“Along the way I began to notice that a number of the men who came to me for therapy were saying many of the things I had thought or said: “Why is she angry all the time?” “It’s never enough.” “All I want is to be appreciated.” “Why doesn’t she want to have sex anymore?” “When is it going to be my turn?” “

I kinda thought I was alone and that my wife was an anomaly in being a total fucking bitch ALL THE TIME, regardless of what I do. I can be a nice guy or an absolute dick, it’s the same result with her.

I think I’m gonna like this book. Thanks for the recommendations!