Why?

bk2747 · 2024-11-28T21:16:05+00:00

Court of public opinion. Demonizing you to gain sympathy.

But here’s a question….. why do you still follow her on social media? Block her on everything.

stent00 · 2024-11-28T00:33:47+00:00

Attention....it's all about that period

masterof-xe · 2024-11-27T21:55:10+00:00

I'm not going to lie, I did post on social media that my ex and I were in the process of a divorce. I did it out of anger. I admit it was wrong of me to do it. Yet at that time I had to let it out. I could have done it in a better way, but I was too angry.

PenguinsBabaay · 2024-11-27T17:21:04+00:00

Thanks guys, this is super helpful

ColdHandGee · 2024-11-27T17:10:08+00:00

Penguin, all women do it. Mine done it, too. IDGAF if I am labelled the bad guy. If you are, then relish the role. Nobody cares. Just do you and have fun doing it.

metzgie1 · 2024-11-27T13:26:21+00:00

Anger is like a burning ember. You hold it in your hand to throw it towards the object of your derision, only guaranteeing your burnt hand.

I say this coming from a contentious post-divorce experience. They beat you can do is live your own authentic life and live as if you know the truth, and whether or not someone else knows it is up to them to ask you.

Stay strong. Delete her from socials. Ask the people that tell you about what she writes to no longer share that with you. If they are so concerned, they should call her out right on her post, or delete her as well.

SighRamp · 2024-11-27T11:28:27+00:00

Yeah women need validation and that’s why every story is the same: husband bad wife victim. Don’t sweat it nobody believes her or anyone you’d care who does.

crosseyedhopper · 2024-11-27T09:53:46+00:00

Yeah it’s a validation issue. Mine does the same.

Aggravating-Ad-5793 · 2024-11-27T08:18:00+00:00

They need attention and validation like plants need Brondo. It's what they crave.

Independent_Owlz · 2024-11-27T04:21:28+00:00

She’s bored grinding axes and explaining for herself.

Screenshot everything.

NewDay0110 · 2024-11-27T04:08:40+00:00

Yes, it's for attention.

Puzzleheaded_War922 · 2024-11-27T03:42:14+00:00

Yah. It's attention.

Really, you have three types of people. Her. The people who eat this stuff up. And everyone else who doesn't care. The first two are worthless.

Don't say a word. Don't acknowledge. Smile broadly. Be nice. Be genuine. It fucks with them big time. Once you get the hang of it, it actually becomes a lot fun.

Jenova66 · 2024-11-27T03:20:16+00:00

Yes. She wants attention and for anyone who listen to tell her she’s not wrong.

lostpassword100000 · 2024-11-27T03:11:50+00:00

my ex told everyone I had an affair and then told everyone in my neighborhood that my (now) wife and I had affairs that broke up our marriages. None of it was true. I didn’t even know her when we were married. My ex knew it was all lies.

The irony is she spent all her time telling people I was as a horrible human and parent. She finally had to go to rehab, got fired, lost custody, and my kids want nothing to do with her.

The truth will come out in time. It just sucks for now.

Slowloris81 · 2024-11-27T03:04:49+00:00

Just unplug. No reason to follow her.

redshoetom · 2024-11-27T02:58:12+00:00

Who cares. Light the grill. Throw on a well season, salt and pepper only, tomahawk. Cook 3 minutes. Turn steak 1/4 turn. Cook for 5 mins. Flip. Cook 4 mins. Turn steak 1/4 turn. Cook 5 mins. Throw on top rack for 6 mins. THEN DEVOUR! Do not use steak sauce. Do not use ketchup. Eat until youre miserable. Wipe away the meat sweats and go kick back in your recliner in your favorite pair of sweat pants, a big hoodie and trusty fleece beanie.

Short-Obligation-704 · 2024-11-27T02:05:06+00:00

The easiest way to not look like the villain is to make you the villain. It’s what they do.

0neMinute · 2024-11-27T01:59:33+00:00

She is posting about being a victim for attention. Idk whos fault the divorce is but being the victim means it def isnt her fault in her eyes. No one wants to be the villain in their story.

Title	Why?
Author	PenguinsBabaay
Upvotes	10
Comments	31
Date	November 27, 2024 1:55 AM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/Divorce_Men
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