Accurate.

Hennyyenni · 2020-02-07T06:14:04+00:00

By keeping things casual I mean I have the right to verbally and emotional abuse you for dating or even talking to other men because how dare you I should be enough yet you can’t expect more from me than a WYD text and some wack dick. And also If i get rejected from being a male porn star or I’m expected to pay my evil baby mama 299 a month you better sympathize but whoa you got raped or whoa your parent died? Too much for me to handle and we are CAZUAL so your fault for expecting anything of me

Oh and I almost forgot, I can point out hot girls to you and talk about other women to your face because we are CAZUAL

I just remember when this guy on a dating app was like ideally you’ll only fuck me but I’ll be able to fuck other women and this dude was white and I’m a Latina and I’m just like these white guys get so gassed and it doesn’t help that a lot of WOC be gassing up basic ugly white dudes who don’t give two fucks about them cough choke mindy Kaling

--wellDAM-- · 2020-02-07T06:39:24+00:00

Clowns? In my vagina?

It’s more common than you think.

aryawhitesbane · 2020-02-07T06:04:38+00:00

Or even better...let's do everything people in a relationship for 6 months+ do but let's not commit so now instead of being your boyfriend you're forced to call me the guy you sleep with 5 times a week

supremelyparanoid · 2020-02-07T06:42:58+00:00

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siberiansummer · 2020-02-07T11:13:00+00:00

Or “if I wanna stay on Tinder to look for better options while I have sex with you, you have no right to be mad”

purasangria · 2020-02-07T12:38:35+00:00

The last guy who told me, "let's keep it casual" really meant this: "I want to fuck you while not emotionally committing to anything and also while continuing to date other women, who I'm also fucking."

Nope.

So the EMOTIONS are casual, but the sex is as if you're in a relationship. He gets all the sex-related relationship benefits, and otherwise behaves as if he's single.

If a man says, "Let's keep it casual," then friendzone him or dump him; he doesn't want a relationship. Sure, let's keep it casual, indeed.

saucypiece · 2020-02-07T17:40:19+00:00

This is why I like asking a guy to describe the type of casual relationship he wants and then follow it up with, “so a girlfriend without the title?”

Some of them have responded with an overly enthusiastic “yes!” It’s like dude, really? Really? Did that just whoosh right over your head?

prettyexcitingnews · 2020-02-07T15:14:01+00:00

Just do not give men any benefits that should come only after being in a decent relationship.

bitch_not_it · 2020-02-07T06:20:20+00:00

It also usually means "let's have sex whenever I want plus emotional intimacy but I can have this with 3 other girls. You can't do this with any other guy. Only me"

janeaustenfan99 · 2020-02-07T16:49:50+00:00

casual = i don't like you

2020-02-07T18:02:39+00:00

Or they take it a step further like my ex-husband. He decided after he discovered what polyamorous is, declares that that's what he is and if I don't want to join him we need to divorce and that my friend was open to trying it with him so they both ran off and are trying that. She's a MAJOR pickmeisha. She told me flat out that she knew it was wrong, but she was just so lonely with no friends or man but my ex was always there for him. It hurt like a mother, but if he was willing to destroy a marriage over pussy that he described as, it's just different, not better or worse, then she can have my sloppy seconds. He was a total introverted, elitist nerd who, once he got attention from another female his ego blew up and now he thinks he is going to live happily poly after. Lol. And the best part is he is already interested in another woman, so, if he gets lucky, we will see if my ex-friend turned snake really is truly ok with that little arrangement. Good riddance to them both. Thank God we didn't have any children!

si_vis_amari__ama · 2020-02-07T16:49:33+00:00

The reason why I don't have sex for at least 3 months of lavish generous kind treatment.

theghettogirl · 2020-02-07T17:09:37+00:00

Or they try to do this if you tell him you're not into casual dating they love bomb with the whole be my girlfriend please" (within the weeks of telling them) and if you say yes they use you and dump you in three months . Seen it happen to a couple of my girlfriends so y'all watch out.

HighLife0001 · 2020-02-07T23:18:21+00:00

There’s nothing casual about sex. Sex is intimate, it is personal, and it carries a lot of responsibility. Treating sex as a casual act brings more cons than pros for women, biologically, emotionally and physically. I don’t recommend any woman to practice casual sex. If you want to, you do you, I’m not going to judge, but it is not wise. And none of us should pretend it’s empowering or beneficial for us in any sense to participate

stillcantsee · 2020-02-07T14:43:58+00:00

Last guy who wanted to keep it casual texted me one day- he’d seen on my ig story I was out at a restaurant celebrating my new job. He said he was in the area...for a date...and he didn’t wanna make it weird in case we ran into each other. I told him (in a very NON casual way) to go fuck those girls and himself because I’m too good to be pussy on rotation.

NEXT, BITCH!

goldenhiccups · 2020-02-07T15:01:29+00:00

I FEEL THIS POST SO HARD! “Casual” means lemme use her to get my sex/emotional intimacy fix but still seem available for better options.

aTrueJuliette · 2020-02-07T15:34:30+00:00

My ex in a nutshell 😂

Lakersrock111 · 2020-02-07T11:36:21+00:00

I wait till he is exclusive with me. It could take 6 months. Many men can’t hold out that long.

Blackgirlwanders · 2020-02-07T19:37:34+00:00

Dayum! Felt this one in my soul.

Never again.

Title	Accurate.
Author	supremelyparanoid
Upvotes	1218
Comments	52
Date	February 7, 2020 5:35 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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