Ain’t this the truth...👎🙅‍♀️🖕

MonarchCrew · 2020-11-13T06:21:16+00:00

One of the main reasons I didn’t report 😞

Saltlake1 · 2020-11-13T17:11:43+00:00

I was sexually assaulted my sophomore year of college. When I finally got away from him and managed to get myself an uber I was crying in the backseat on the phone with my roommate telling her what happened and my uber driver whipped around and YELLED at me “maybe if you weren’t dressed like that this wouldn’t have happened. I’m so tired of bitches like you getting in my car who can’t take responsibility for what happens to them.” It made it so much worse.

Lingueen · 2020-11-13T13:03:09+00:00

they will always pin the blame on women. ALWAYS

Lavender_flow · 2020-11-13T14:04:03+00:00

fuck men.

Honestly it is why I didnt report an accident that happened at work. I was young. Couldnt be arsed to deal with the backlash.

Pudding5050 · 2020-11-13T19:25:46+00:00

Ah yes, the long sought-after fame and attention of being a rape victim...

Saitschik · 2020-11-13T10:45:17+00:00

When men go to the police and report sexual violence they are believed. No matter how many years later, nobody questions their integrity and accuses them of "lying out of jealousy". And they still have the nerve to whine about how much harder it would be for them.

moonchild2998 · 2020-11-13T21:22:00+00:00

I made the horrible mistake of telling my ex what happened to me. His already non existent trust in me was shattered because he claimed “if you can’t even tell your mom about something like this, how can I trust that you’d be honest about our relationship?”

Yes, because sexual abuse and cheating are very similar! But after that he used it as fuel to accuse me of cheating on him and lying about it.

Sometimes we just gotta get some of this stupid shit off our chests

Hmtnsw · 2020-11-13T13:39:20+00:00

Where is the lie?

Rasaya87 · 2020-11-14T05:48:13+00:00

I feel this. Police didn't do jack shit when I was in high school, I got called a psychotic bitch behind my back (that I learned years later), and since it was my first boyfriend, due to how most of my peers and family didn't give a fuck and thought I was making it up, set the precedent for me "accepting" sexual abuse and rape for years to come from my future partners.

Because of that experience, I had thought not being listened to when I said no, or was uncomfortable, or was being pressured/coerced to have sex even if I didn't want to, was normal, even though I logically knew it wasn't.

It fucked me up for years and now, at 33, I have woken up to the fact that, yes, I do have the right to say no and be listened to, that my feelings and thoughts do matter, and started standing up for myself, in all ways. Friends, family, potential partners.

I won't put up with the abuse anymore.

Substantial-Ad-1745 · 2020-11-13T17:24:36+00:00

Exactly

2020-11-14T15:01:01+00:00

So sad 😞

creamtart_ · 2020-11-13T07:25:27+00:00

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Title	Ain’t this the truth...👎🙅‍♀️🖕
Author	jjlew922
Upvotes	1994
Comments	42
Date	November 13, 2020 5:59 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/jtbti8/aint_this_the_truth/
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