Are you f’ing kidding me?!

planethoneyy · 2020-09-29T15:33:38+00:00

This is why we don't do walk dates. It signals low effort from the jump.

Now I'm off to datingoverthirty to see the excuses the pickmes are giving him.

LadyGrimes · 2020-09-29T15:37:44+00:00

If you must go on these stupid walk/coffee dates then don't dress up. They're low effort dates and you shouldn't make any effort either.

electroloop · 2020-09-29T15:38:47+00:00

Yeah I also read she’s asking people advice on unmatching him immediately or waiting for him to contact her. Like sis you’re 40 years old??? You out here on Reddit asking for advice on how to handle someone who blatantly disrespected you??

That entire subreddit is a dumpster fire. I didn’t think people in their late 30s were that socially inept to actually ask for direction on how to handle LVM. Almost every single thread is laughable.

shellofthemshellf · 2020-09-29T15:29:15+00:00

A Certain Sub is a LVM cesspool. I just want all these women to read the handbook and embrace FDS!

Sage_Planter · 2020-09-29T15:31:35+00:00

How can any man actually think this is acceptable behavior? I can't even.

Years ago, a man answered the phone when we were out to dinner. It was "his ex," and he excused himself for a minute to give her some quick reassurance. After that, I was super turned off and wasn't interested in anything further. Also, yeah.... turns out it wasn't his ex. Surprise.

shellofthemshellf · 2020-09-29T15:33:02+00:00

A good example of why you don’t accept walk dates.

alichuchu · 2020-09-29T15:57:00+00:00

She’s 40 years old wondering if someone disrespecting her means there’s something wrong with her... I hope she finds fds because this is ridiculous

eveninghope · 2020-09-29T15:42:02+00:00

This is unacceptable behavior for just meeting up with a friend, much less a date...

Inspection-Critical · 2020-09-29T16:19:08+00:00

So many pickmes on that sub. I told her never go on walk dates bc they are always losers and two guys got so all pissed off and in their feels. Week how do I vet them??? Wah! You’re mean you’re blah blah blah. And then the pickmes came to their rescue. Fucking hell

Phoenix__Rising2018 · 2020-09-29T17:09:16+00:00

I cannot fucking believe that she drove 30 minutes and spent an hour getting ready for dude who wanted to go on a walk date. I also cannot believe that she didn't just leave when he said he only had 25 minutes! Then further she stands there while he talks on the phone throughout almost the entire 25 minutes.

If a guy tells you up front he only has 25 minutes to spend on you, you look him in the eye and you say that it doesn't sound like he has enough time and walk away. If you have to, lie to him and say let's reschedule while blocking him on your phone.

2020-09-29T15:33:40+00:00

BOY BYE.

Suz1998 · 2020-09-29T17:21:57+00:00

My response to this: this is why f that- no dates where they take me on a walk like I’m a dog!!

yanyanfan · 2020-09-29T17:23:02+00:00

Sorry but at her age to be acting like that, she is a giant clown

Maude2010 · 2020-09-29T16:56:43+00:00

Jeez. Even if you’re not opposed to low effort dates, that’s unacceptably rude. Back when I would have met someone for a walk, I would NEVER have tolerated this. And I sure as hell wouldn’t have considered seeing him again.

shellofthemshellf · 2020-09-29T17:05:27+00:00

I just got banned from participating in A Certain Sub so, careful gals. Your ban could be coming.

Unavailablerose · 2020-09-29T17:17:48+00:00

Yeah, there is something wrong with you fo sure! Accepting walk and coffee Dates!

pao664 · 2020-09-29T18:40:56+00:00

She drove 30 minutes for a walk date? That’s a hard pass.
Demanding men come to YOUR side of town is how you weed out fuckbois like this dude.

DoeEyedBrownSkin · 2020-09-29T17:11:05+00:00

Are you f’ing kidding me?!

Comments

Tehehe 😩😂🤣

Title	Are you f’ing kidding me?!
Author	shellofthemshellf
Upvotes	121
Comments	54
Date	September 29, 2020 3:27 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/j21ene/are_you_fing_kidding_me/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/are-you-fing-kidding-me.275632 https://theredarchive.com/post/275632