FDS perk #358961 - Seeing through their BS and manipulation

StandPotential · 2021-06-07T15:01:41+00:00

Queen shit! Proud of you for not making it easier to lie to the next lady

millennialpink2000 · 2021-06-07T15:37:26+00:00

I can't wait for him to smugly pull out his phone to text you some BS only to realize he's blocked. LOLOLOL the surprise on his face will be delicious

FDS_elderGoth · 2021-06-07T16:11:00+00:00

YES.

When you explain things to a guy like this, you don't make him appreciate your point of view, you just give him ammo to manipulate you or the next girl. Also a lot of dudes take it as a Big Dick Energy challenge to get a girl into bed when she tells him she likes to take it slow. The block and delete is the only way he'll understand you mean it, though of course he's not going to get the actual message, he's going to tell all his bros that you're crazy, a tease, a golddigging dinner whore. But at least YOU don't have to hear him say that shit when you block and delete.

purasangria · 2021-06-07T17:32:32+00:00

These men think that they can blackmail us with "no relationship unless you sleep with me first" and that they have the upper hand. Nope.

Let's get to know each other, see whether we like spending time together, and then if we do, then we can try the sex stuff in a couple of months.

millrice · 2021-06-07T15:27:59+00:00

Bet he is still figuring out what you meant 😅😅😅

sewingmachinesavior · 2021-06-07T16:16:24+00:00

Yup! Had a date the other day, that was rather similar. My in person vibe was that he wants sex for as little investment as possible. We do have a lot on common. But bye boy. And don’t show up in gym shorts on a first date. That’s the least dressed up a man has ever been for me. Like what?! 😂😂😂

starfighter07 · 2021-06-07T15:27:34+00:00

Bravo girl 👏 you were so right to not waste your energy with an explanation he wouldn't have listened anyway !!

elementalvirago · 2021-06-07T17:16:15+00:00

I can hear him now. "She just wanted a free meal!" Yeah dude you wanted sex in exchange for a meal so...💁‍♀️

warinmymind94 · 2021-06-07T19:07:58+00:00

Sis, I am so proud of you! You handled this situation like a true queen. As I always say, at least you saw his true self on the first date rather than it being two or three years before the mask slipped!

For everyone else take note of how he tried to manipulate her into pushing for sex and how she responded (she didn't argue, she didn't explain, she didn't pretend to agree with him) and how after she heard him trying to get quick sex notice how she quickly ended the date and left. Its okay to thank them and accept a hug and then leave quick! I know fds talks about getting up and leaving that second but sometimes you're already walking in the parking lot or whatever so this was a great way to handle this.

FrenchHeel · 2021-06-07T18:16:38+00:00

Bringing up sex on the first date… wow.

Good on you for handling like a queen!

Professional-Pea-317 · 2021-06-07T17:31:29+00:00

Please tell me you also blocked. You have some incel messages coming your way.

Interesting_Day1188 · 2021-06-07T15:44:05+00:00

Good for you!

Hampered-Siren · 2021-06-07T16:47:28+00:00

I absolutely hate it when men try to pull this crap! There is nothing that turns me totally off a man quicker than being pressured for sex, especially on a first date. I wonder if there is any way to screen for this and not waste our time?

OP you did so great! I am so doing the exact same thing if this ever comes up again. Thanks for sharing.

PhilosopherOk6002 · 2021-06-07T16:50:48+00:00

He was trying to love-bomb you!

shockingupdate · 2021-06-07T19:49:34+00:00

Shining example ✨ If I ever end up dealing with this scrote tactic again I’m shutting him down the same way

GlitteringContact8 · 2021-06-07T22:44:04+00:00

He didnt deserve that hug....

Need_wine · 2021-06-07T17:45:02+00:00

So, these scrotes aren’t even subtle anymore about asking for sex immediately after dates?

Well I guess it’s better than them trying to touch you or asking you to go back to their place to “watch a movie”

melodicamagica · 2021-06-07T17:38:42+00:00

Badly dressed dude thinks he’s such a catch lmao 😂

Maingurl · 2021-06-07T23:34:27+00:00

He's a complete idiot. I love that he showed his true colors. It saved you so much time.

Platipus6 · 2021-06-08T02:03:51+00:00

Was he in tracksuit pants with velcro sides so he could rip them off fast? 😂

europoor24 · 2021-06-08T11:17:55+00:00

Queen shit! Nice job seeing through the BS.

pickadaisy · 2021-06-08T02:33:26+00:00

QUEEEEEEN SHIT!!!!

FDSfollower1 · 2021-06-08T14:46:02+00:00

I'm baffled by the scrodacity here. He thinks he is such a catch that if you want a relationship with him, you better put out? Like you would ever want a relationship with someone like that?! What a total loser.

Title	FDS perk #358961 - Seeing through their BS and manipulation
Author	airhostess_inthe60s
Upvotes	1
Comments	35
Date	June 6, 2021 6:17 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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