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[–]Owl-rightFDS Newbie157 points158 points159 points 6 years ago (18 children) | Copy Link
Or "He's still being toxic and destructive, and not engaging in therapy and self growth, and if he needs a 'check up', it should be with a licenced psychologist. Not you."
[–]sweetpotatocupcakeFDS Newbie43 points44 points45 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
This resonates with me more lol
[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
🤣 He leveled up and improved his life. Sike you know that’s not what happens. They self destruct. Porn and depression.
[–]Incredible_AlligatorFDS Newbie26 points27 points28 points 6 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Haha, yeah this definitely sounds more like it. The dude who doesn't "believe in" psychology 🙄
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Imagine not believing in clinical depression
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[–]greenishpixieFDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
LOL on point
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HAHAHA mine too!
[–]thealamo369FDS Newbie17 points18 points19 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
I literally scrolled down to the comments to see if this didn’t feel quite right to anyone else lmao. I am fairly confident my ex jumped right back on tinder and started DMing women on insta the moment we broke up to avoid any type of feelings he had. This was also after his mom texted me saying I was such a positive in his life and that he has a lot he needs to work on. I am very happy to no longer have to be an amateur full time psychologist for free!!!
[–]whenthecagedbirdsingFDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I was thinking the same thing. My ex did exactly this. How embarrassing for me. He started talking to someone seriously 2 weeks after we broke up. Another victim to abuse..
[–]thealamo369FDS Newbie5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Not embarrassing for you at all, sis!! Why should you be embarrassed for having a good heart and taking relationships seriously?¿ He’s the embarrassment! I’m good vibes and energy your way because I know you’re a queen! Once the right man comes along you won’t think twice about that clown
[–]thealamo369FDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Sending good vibes and energy**
[–]whenthecagedbirdsingFDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Thank you sis! 🙌🏽
[–]helena939392FDS Newbie11 points12 points13 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is more accurate 😂😂
[–]atropabeIIadonnaThrowaway Account11 points12 points13 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is far more likely in my case, since my ex is incapable of self-reflection lol.
[–]Rebirthed_QueenFDS Apprentice2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
One day when a “friend” of mine came to me for another hours-long rant about how the world was judging him unfairly and he was depressed and alone, I finally realized the NVM was using me for free emotional labor under the guise of friendship. At that moment I decided to connect him with mental health resources and recommend the free campus therapy for his deep insecurity. He thought that would be a sign of weakness and told me he needed “solid friends, not a stupid therapist.” Nevermind that your friends are not responsible for your emotional labor. Sometimes I am extraordinarily tempted to see what’s become of him, but I need to remind myself he isn’t worth the time and energy. This helps, so thank you.
Isn’t that just peachy how we are always faulted for supposedly being emotional when literally every women on here has been recruited for therapy?
[–]thirdtoebeanFDS Newbie25 points26 points27 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
If you mean 'eating family packs of baked beans and watching porn'....
[–][deleted] 13 points14 points15 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Lol that sounds like my ex
Packets of spicy dollar store ramen, vaping, and watching “deep anime”
[–]SuccessfulShow5Pickmeisha™️49 points50 points51 points 6 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Or dating the girl he told you not to worry about , so fuck him and never look back 😂
[–]willowgrowingrootsFDS Disciple10 points11 points12 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Triggered 🤧🥺
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[–]willowgrowingrootsFDS Disciple5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That’s a beautiful sentence. Hugs back
[–]SuccessfulShow5Pickmeisha™️2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Sorry friend I know it hurts! I’m just starting to heal as well and getting better everyday . They’re loss for sure , not ours. I don’t envy the other woman for a minute
[–]willowgrowingrootsFDS Disciple1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You’re right ❣️
[–]hhgjj0Pickmeisha™️21 points22 points23 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Oh yeah, my ex really NEEDS TO HEAL from that unsuccessful attempt to trap and control me 😂😂
[–]thealamo369FDS Newbie9 points10 points11 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
And that’s the mother fucking tea
[–]BitchkittenzzFDS Newbie19 points20 points21 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Lol this just makes me envision those men’s warehouse commercials, but I replace the “you’re gonna like the way you look” bit with my own script-“He still hates the way he feels, I guarantee it”
[–]cece188FDS Newbie14 points15 points16 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
It’s hilarious how much I needed this right now
[–]whiterabbit818FDS Newbie8 points9 points10 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Omg me too!!!!! Was just removing his searches from my amazon prime account 🤢
[–]cece188FDS Newbie6 points7 points8 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Hahaha, my mom still follows my ex on Instagram, and since he’s private I can’t see his posts. Every now and then I get an itch to see what he’s up to, but my mom randomly changed the password on her phone, and she’s very protective over it anyways.
I’d like to think that this post was a message sent to me to stop trying and stop worrying, it doesn’t matter anymore. I think I’ll just move on now😂
[–]mouthyhousewifeFDS Newbie11 points12 points13 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Yeah, I mean, what are you hoping to see? If he misses you or regrets hurting you, he’s not gonna post about it publicly anyways. Chances are, he’s posting shit that makes him look like he’s better than ever and it’s just going to perpetuate your negativity towards yourself or make you want to be with him again. When you break up, cut ties and block everything. For your own damn good.
[–]mouthyhousewifeFDS Newbie5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
If you have time to think about him, your goals arent inspiration enough.
Absolutely! I know it’s easier said than done, but get him out of your head completely. If you have to, grieve the loss of your time and energy, and then move on.
If you lost your job, would you continuously check up on your former employer to see how they are managing without you?
[–]FDSxMuffinVSratFDS Newbie10 points11 points12 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I couldn't care any less about how my exes are doing.
[–]commanderquill8 points9 points10 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Nah man, I wanna see how much their lives suck. It's cathartic.
[–]EllifantsFDS Newbie6 points7 points8 points 6 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
Wild this appeared when I needed it to. Whew chile!!
[–]BabaAuRhumOhlalaFDS Newbie7 points8 points9 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Before the official breakup, my ex and I weren’t talking and his mom sent me a picture of him and her sitting at a restaurant. She had a smile on her face but he looked absolutely miserable. Half grimace half attempted smile. But then again, he would say I brought happiness into his life.
[–]NoThisIs-PatrickFDS Disciple4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I'm sure my ex is with the chick he was seeing on the side, stringing her along the same way he did me with false promises, all while letting his mommy clean up after him while he smokes weed and drinks and plays vidya in her basement every night. At 36. And wondering why he can't find a "good woman" to marry.
Fuck you, Daniel.
[–]SuccessfulShow5Pickmeisha™️4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Why do we all sound like we dated the same guys ?!! Dudes in their late 30’s who have done absolutely Nothing for themselves 😫
[–]whenthecagedbirdsingFDS Newbie0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This sounds like my ex to the T!
[–]testing1to3FDS Newbie5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Nah, pretty sure he’s out banging hoes but STILL no need to check up! 👊🏻
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