Male friends are a myth part 2 ):

Equal-Ear2312 · 2021-12-02T08:23:02+00:00

"this is definitely normal" 😤 Also the other scrotes that encourage him. How seen they call those girls "friends"?

pepperfog · 2021-12-02T04:25:11+00:00

Why a single revealing photo of me has never been posted on the internet.

Thereismorethanthis · 2021-12-02T05:51:25+00:00

Fucking disgusting 😐

PicoPicoMio · 2021-12-02T06:53:26+00:00

Another reason I don’t post revealing photos of myself on the internet. Disgusting

Ashamed-Reputation-2 · 2021-12-02T07:14:36+00:00

Ewwww 🤮🤮🤮 there's a whole industry of female performers that produce content for him to use and yet it's still not enough. This feels like a creepy control thing

xfelugirlx · 2021-12-02T06:33:36+00:00

They are sick and normalize this? Tf

vitryolic · 2021-12-02T02:29:53+00:00

This is so vile, and shows what inner creeps many men are. It’s completely naive to think that doing this kind of thing doesn’t influence their ‘real’ non-fantasy life, and doesn’t blur boundaries at all.

Men will do this to leverage some sort of predatory power over women in their minds, while they act like Mr Nice Guy in to women’s faces.

Sometimes you have to be more hyper aware with male friends than men you date, because they already have us in false senses of security.

Lost_Kale90 · 2021-12-02T01:59:24+00:00

🤮 Men are gross.

_xyoungbellax_ · 2021-12-02T02:45:40+00:00

What in the hell even is the first comment? Their opinion and feelings about us, lead to their disgusting fantasies. Another way of gaslighting, so that they can tell their naive girlfriends/wives "Babe, just because I thought about it, doesn't mean I actually like her or would do it with her".

Salt_Satisfaction · 2021-12-02T15:47:46+00:00

"This is definitely normal"

Or you have definitely watched too much porn, have too much free time and don't respect your friends.

machiavella_89 · 2021-12-02T22:25:47+00:00

I'm not a shrink, but I'm gonna go out on a limb and say that this is "common" normal, not "healthy" normal.

Fantasizing about celebrities or attractive strangers is one thing, but this person is deliberately seeking out photos of women he knows and socializes with. That seems extremely weird to me. Being attracted to a "friend" is awkward enough without going to enormous efforts to sexualize them.

I snorted when I got to the mention of putting the pictures side by side so he can imagine a threesome. I know the situation isn't funny, but good lord. You're so obsessed with these women that you're inventing these elaborate fantasies about them and stalking them online, but you can't picture a threesome with them without putting their photos next to each other? This man needs to have both of his tiny heads examined.

pinkgirly111 · 2021-12-02T04:51:46+00:00

men excusing men! what else is new!!! fuck.

supremelyparanoid · 2021-12-02T02:07:34+00:00

And now I need eye bleach. One of the many reasons I want to delete my already very private and friend selective social media accounts.

_tinyimp · 2021-12-02T02:01:23+00:00

I’m so confused at the guy in the last comment being 11 and finding his friends sexy who are also like 11, not to mention when I was 11 I didn’t even know what sex or being sexy was like what on earth ??!!! Shook

misscyansiren · 2021-12-02T04:18:27+00:00

To ladies with a social media presence, be aware that:

There's a 99% chance that men have masturbated to your pictures. Yes, even your "childhood male friends." ~~I saw a guy once confess that he masturbated to a store catalog that had a picture of middle age woman wearing a turtleneck.~~
Men see social media and dating websites as "window shopping," "looking at the menu," or "seeing what's for sale."
Women who post pictures of themselves on social media for other men to see are providing a (usually unpaid) service without even realizing it. Your photos don't even have to be sexually-suggestive. Posting a simple innocuous selfie provides these men with perpetual access to your face.

These were the reasons that I deactivated my "close friends only" IG with <50 followers. In the digital world, we are reduced to pixels on a screen. Take your power back and make yourself scarce. If he wants to see your face, he has to take you out on a proper date.

Biracial_tooth_fairy · 2021-12-02T04:01:03+00:00

Wtffff. This is why I don't fucking post pictures of myself anymore ugh society is fucked

Title	Male friends are a myth part 2 ):
Author	ilovu3000
Upvotes	389
Comments	26
Date	December 2, 2021 1:52 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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