Hi Friends,

For the past year I have been looking for additional "Sexperts" to add to our FDS Handbook.

My criteria was simple:

  1. Have a degree from an accredited institution in a field of research related to sex, relationships, and/or dating; could be anything from psychology, biology, social work, sociology, public health, etc.

  2. Be relatively aligned with core FDS principles.

I kid you not, after actively searching for months and months for people who fit this basic criteria I am STILL almost empty handed.

What I have found however, is scams. SCAM, after SCAM, after SCAM. Oh, how they scam.

The entire industry of "Sexperts" and "Sexology" is a sham designed to prey on women's insecurities, push porn, and sell you products that won't help you and you don't need.

A lot of Sexperts have fraudulent or misleading credentials, or absolutely none. Many are clearly not of sound mind or health.

Deadass, our mod team has more credentials individually on this topic than MOST of the people writing authoritatively on sex for a living, and we’re bunch of random pissed off women on the internet who happened to find each other.

Mainstream Sex advice for women is literally being written by con artists, drug addicts, and the mentally ill. This is NOT an exaggeration.

Some of which I have started documenting:

https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/lqaupj/sex_advice_scammers_nadia_bokody_borderline/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf

https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/lnmf0t/dr_emily_morse_advertises_herself_as_a_doctor_of/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf

I am planning to continue to make writeups on this topic, but after barely scratching below the surface, I found a giant iceberg of rot because the problem is VAST.

We would like to encourage users of the sub to also identify any people you find in the sex and relationship industry who are fraudulent, so we added the “Sex Advice Scammers” flair.

If you can identify anyone you think is legit, feel free to comment below.

We will be curating and updating some of our book recommendations based on your feedback.

Thank you!