I wanted to share a really disturbing story about a seemingly HV man I just dumped. He has a high power career, is a devoted singe dad and seemed to have empathy (seemed).

We were fooling around and I made a joke about him maybe being an exhibitionist (light hearted, nothing serious at all in the joke). Without missing a beat, he said “yea we should do it in front of my daughter - show her how it’s done”

My blood ran completely cold and I couldn’t ever see him the same way after that.

VET VET VET

This happened 3 months into dating and there were many green flags. But you just DO NOT know who a man is until he reveals himself.