Period.

Lemon_bars_addiction · 2021-05-23T07:08:38+00:00

Original tweet must have fallen and bumped her head cuz wtf??

AlextheAnalyst · 2021-05-23T08:12:13+00:00

Acknowledging that 14-16 is a growing stage, this person is either a selfawarewolf or a self-aware wolf.

("Don't spoil her" makes me think it's the latter.)

Thesseli · 2021-05-23T13:03:37+00:00

"Ok, groomer."

infojustwannabefree · 2021-05-23T09:38:07+00:00

Literally...like how hard is it for men to stay away from minors?

the-lonely-spirit · 2021-05-23T12:34:37+00:00

“GIRL” is the key word here. GIRLS!!!

fireforestfairy · 2021-05-23T10:06:03+00:00

Why would a HV 18-year-old guy be interested in teen girls younger than himself? They are at different stages in life. A 18-year-old will be a uni student or working. A girl between the ages of 14 and 16 will still be in secondary school.

Connect_Chipmunk_691 · 2021-05-23T14:55:16+00:00

When I was 13 years old there was a time where my friends and I were at the mall and there were these 30 something year old guys just leering at us like salivating wolves! It was so vile and disgusting it could make your skin crawl. I don't know that we caught them actually following us but they sure seem to be popping up everywhere we were so we ended up calling one of our parents to come get us the hell out of there. I don't remember if we told our parents what was going on either because I don't know that it even occurred to us. This stuff becomes a part of your personal landscape at 12 or whenever you're hitting puberty and it's just the norm somehow. I remember having that thought when I was around 12 or 13. Like just a realization that this is part of being a woman and part of what it means to be a woman and what you're always going to have to be dealing with. When I was 12 I was walking my dog at night and saw a group of older teenage boys standing at the one corner so I crossed the road but when I got to the corner that was across from them my dog had to go to the bathroom so I was standing there long enough for them to notice. At some point they were looking at me pointing and laughing and talking amongst themselves and then they started following me. I have no idea what their intentions were but they scared the living s*** out of me! Thankfully there was a path that ran through a small wooded area between some of these neighborhoods and emptied out into my neighborhood. I had walked the path enough that I could walk it in the dark so I slipped through some houses with my dog and got away from them that way. I mentioned this in another comment but I had a 17 year old come on to me as a 13 year old and it freaked me the hell out.

When I was 14 I worked at a dress shop at our local mall and I was usually left alone with this 30 something year old dude. Whenever we were actually alone as in no customers he would be constantly grabbing my ass. Dealt with my mom's gross 40 something year old boyfriend gawking at me when I was 16. The first time he did it was in front of one of my friends. I was showing her my ring ceremony dress, and I'm an 80s kid so I was actually a teenager in the latter half of the '80s & early 90s and those men could not even try to blame it on the way we dressed because everything we were covered everything it was baggy. Not that it's ever an excuse I'm just saying that it literally doesn't matter how girls are dressed. Guys like this will still do this stuff no matter what. So anyhoo, we go out to the kitchen to show my mom my dress and this dude's there and it was like running into a brick wall of grossness. He did it a couple other times after that and I started hiding in my room when he was over. If they were out on the balcony I would zip out to the kitchen if I was hungry and zip back to my room or zip into the den which was right next to the kitchen and hole up in there with the door locked till he left.

Ah, and let us not forget all the guys who would scream things at us out the car windows!

aliceinlondon · 2021-05-23T14:02:54+00:00

What was the rest of Aisha's tweet out of interest?

Equal-Ear2312 · 2021-05-23T08:58:03+00:00

but yeah, stay the f away from them! they are children!

Aromatic-Owl8808 · 2021-05-23T09:01:21+00:00

Where is Chris Hansen???

relationship_reddit · 2021-05-23T14:14:54+00:00

"Adult male pedophiles, if you're going to prey on children, don't treat them too well so when the next piece of shit comes along to ruin her life, she won't expect to be treated decently by him either."

Connect_Chipmunk_691 · 2021-05-23T14:40:17+00:00

I had a 17 year old come on to me when I was 13 and it freaked me the hell out!

ShieldMaidenLagertha · 2021-05-23T18:15:27+00:00

“Growing stage” you know, also known as CHILDHOOD!

Human_Summer_1709 · 2021-05-23T18:30:36+00:00

That initial tweet is so evil.

"Grown men, date underage children, but for the love of God treat that underage girl like shit so she grows up thinking she's not entitled to anything other than hollow words and gaslighting!!"

Chicahua · 2021-05-23T16:55:14+00:00

It’s both pathetic and vile how this pickme is serving children to grown men on a platter and warning grown men not to “spoil” children. She is SICK. 14 year old girls are children! The child I was at 14 and the teen I was at 18 were so different in terms of maturity and intellect. There’s literally no reason to advocate for age gaps at that age.

And furthermore, to the creeps who read this page, children do not need guidance from you!!! People have been dating and having relations since the dawn of our species, it’s not rocket science and children do not need your aged crusty self to teach them how to have relationships. The only person a 14 year old needs to teach her about relationships is her mother or other older women!

Finally, I can really see why mothers and older women have been so vilified throughout history. Older women form the vanguard for protecting children, of course we’re hated (see Lolita or all those French philosophers who advocated for pedophilic relationships).

Interesting_Day1188 · 2021-05-23T18:48:52+00:00

I dated a guy who seemed ok, until he told me he met his ex wife when she was 16 and he was 25. He said she lied about her age, but he found out that she really wasn't 18 and kept the relationship going anyways.

My obvious response was, why is a 25 year old guy dating an 18 year old? When you're that young, that's a big age gap. He tried to blame her, and I wasn't having it. I walked. It's not OK, even if she did lie, and he found out later, or was suspicious that she wasn't of age, he shouldn't have been dating an 18 year old.

So gross.

ChanelOberlin2015 · 2021-05-23T12:58:17+00:00

Wow. A true pickme(a)isha. Poor thing must be brainwashed by (redacted because I'm afraid reddit might censor me, but you all know which ideology I'm referring to...) I am surprised she said 14-16 year old girls and not 9 year old girls, tho... ☕😅

LilithWon · 2021-05-23T06:32:34+00:00

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lolihylo · 2021-09-06T03:02:16+00:00

She meant dont have sex with her https://twitter.com/i_m_hamza20/status/1061268986954952704?s=20

Title	Period.
Author	PBJellyNutella
Upvotes	4771
Comments	75
Date	May 23, 2021 6:30 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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