Period 👏🏻

mscristalconnors · 2021-04-22T05:49:03+00:00

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spicyspa · 2021-04-22T04:08:30+00:00

Problem is that there aren't a lot of men I'd like to date. I guess if I find one I'll just pretend I have others.

AnniaT · 2021-04-22T08:37:31+00:00

I live in a place where is extremely hard to know men (even if you try networking and OLD here is disgusting), so it's almost impossible to have a roster of men. However I try to keep myself busy with other stuff when I meet a man and we go on dates and never take it as exclusive until it's clearly stated.

Jaelismyhomegirl · 2021-04-22T06:38:41+00:00

Unrelated, but i like her shirt

GodILoveTheEnglish · 2021-04-22T03:27:10+00:00

HELL. YESS. Date as much as you want, at the same time. If you aren’t willing to be official and commit to eventually put a ring on it, then I’m gonna vet and see what other males will. They really think they’re special and want your exclusivity while they’re out there entertaining any woman they can get their hands on. Nah, boy. I’m out here testing my options.

Pasdepromesses · 2021-04-22T16:16:28+00:00

This is so true.

I always multiple date and men just know it. If anything, they want to make it official sooner rather than later if they like you.

If for some reason a guy isn’t able to date you properly, he will explain (for example: if he has to go out of the country for a couple of weeks for work, he will explain and set up a date for when he comes back before he leaves). He will also tell you that he’s seriously interested before he leaves. He will behave consistently from day 1 and never leaves you wondering.

Most of them already know after a couple of dates (sometimes it takes only one) if they see potential and want to date with serious intend. Never let them rush you though.

You really need to vet and pick the right one for you. Don’t let any man pressure you into exclusivity or a relationship. If he really likes you he’ll wait. It’s also a good way to filter out the chasers and love bombing narcs.

It’s so funny, I was just in the car listening to this song: https://youtu.be/eNJ5uhDvOCo It’s a bunch of guys singing about how they want their girlfriend to show the world and social media that they’re official. Men who like you and don’t want to lose you to another guy know how important labels are. Never let a guy tell you he ‘doesn’t believe in labels or marriage’.

vomitnugget · 2021-04-22T12:11:26+00:00

She’s absolutely correct about not letting them know you’re dating multiple men at the same time.

In 2019 I dated 3 men at the same time and told all 3 of them upfront that I am dating other men. They agreed and said that it was fine.

My now boyfriend, but then 1 of the men I was dating was also fine until we got into an exclusive, monogamous relationship. He couldn’t shake the feeling of being a “rebound” or “3rd choice.” We’ve been together nearly 2 years now and he still feels dreaded by it every few months. He said that he was grateful for the transparency and honesty, but would’ve been better off not knowing.

So all you Queens should learn from me. Don’t tell men NOTHING! Because best believe they won’t tell you shit either.

immortallogic · 2021-04-22T09:14:08+00:00

Down for all of this except the "mark his territory" portion. You aren't anyone's property ladies, remember that.

SnooPickles4103 · 2021-04-22T06:56:07+00:00

Why waste time dating multiple men when you could be using that time to level up? It just sounds so exhausting.

spicyspa · 2021-04-23T00:54:01+00:00

In theory she is correct. However, most of us don't have multiple options. I guess the best practice is always say "you have other plans" whether it be a date with someone else or sitting around sorting your sock drawer.

The entire dating game is completely like everything else lopsided men's favor.

Women get dressed up and try to impress whereas men feel they can show up wearing the t-shirt they wore while ~~mowing the lawn after work~~ fapping to internet porn.

Where all the other choices???

This is a situation that causes women to feel like a man is high value if he's wearing a clean shirt because it's a rare celebrated event.

In order to put an end to this, we have to demand more and be single longer. All of us. Right now the dating scene is saturated with leveled up desperate women and men who expect to be taken as is. Enough!

Psychological_Two591 · 2021-04-22T13:04:36+00:00

Two things - I love her advice and I love that damn top...it's so cute!

myeggsarebig · 2021-04-22T12:47:09+00:00

Her shirt is 🔥 🔥🔥

Coder-Cat · 2021-04-22T16:24:37+00:00

So, we can all agree that she is spot on. But also, that tank top❤️❤️❤️ its so cute!

_mooness · 2021-04-22T16:48:20+00:00

WHO IS THIS PERSON I LOVE HER!

lolmemberberries · 2021-04-22T23:29:05+00:00

Yep, makes it super easy to block and delete if it turns out you met a dud, allows you to have more time to vet each person and makes you more resistant to love bombing.

Phoenix__Rising2018 · 2021-04-23T23:20:57+00:00

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Title	Period 👏🏻
Author	iaintgonnacallyou
Upvotes	826
Comments	40
Date	April 22, 2021 3:06 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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