'RACE PLAY' probably means he's lowkey a RACIST

creamtart_ · 2021-12-12T02:46:53+00:00

Sis, that ain’t low key.

asocialsocialite · 2021-12-12T04:47:31+00:00

There's nothing lowkey about race play. It's run-of-the-mill racism couched in the already abusive dynamic of BDSM.

wondertarget · 2021-12-12T02:13:37+00:00

Same goes for men who highlight your race for any reason (positive or negative).

I had an (white) ex call me his African queen. I'm very multi-racial (Irish (more than he claimed to be because I had living great-grandparents from Bray at the time), Welsh, Latina-Black-American) and proud of it. It was so strange, uncomfortable, and uncalled for.

lansburysoda · 2021-12-12T03:27:35+00:00

That’s straight up racist

BlueSkiesOverLondon · 2021-12-12T02:27:59+00:00

What is low-key about it? He’s just racist.

Jandi18 · 2021-12-12T05:50:08+00:00

If he says "I’m not racist BUT….." run! Don’t hear whatever he has to say next. Also If he says "I haven’t met a (insert race) like you or you are not like other ( insert race) girls" Run!

sleutherino · 2021-12-12T02:12:01+00:00

I cringe when I see pictures where the person handling the camera couldn't be bothered to literally just tap the screen and refocus EVERYONE into the picture.

Such a small thing that speaks volumes about who they are and how they prioritize you. Not even just in relationships, but with "friends" too. 🚩

Peak_Tree · 2021-12-12T03:34:14+00:00

And if he likes ANY kind of violent/degrading sh*t in bed ( towards you) he is a misogynist. Funny how those things are "banned" on conventional tv because they would count as hate speech ( there's "holocaust play " too btw) but we are EXPECTED to be fine and dandy with men yanking off to them.

fireforestfairy · 2021-12-12T08:26:45+00:00

Yes, so many of these guys into race play have a slave or colonist fetish.

Davina33 · 2021-12-12T08:45:32+00:00

The amount of times of been hit up on Facebook by white men with racist stuff on their page is astonishing. One had a girlfriend and I sent her the messages he sent me. I can't stand it. The white men I have dated have just treated me like a woman, my colour didn't come into it. At the same time it's important that they are sensitive to racism and will have your back.

I'm from the U.K. and there aren't many black or other men of colour around where I live.

xfelugirlx · 2021-12-13T04:56:42+00:00

He’s racist af. Also when they made comments degrading other races or never stand up for racism🤢🤢 men with no beliefs or convictions are a NO, they will never change

MorthaP · 2021-12-12T12:40:30+00:00

Yeah. If someone has a fetish like that, it's something they at least partially believe. IMO a fetish is kinda like being drunk. Sure, you might not have yelled at your friends or danced on the table if you hadn't drunk all that Vodka, but the fact that THIS is what you do when you're drunk still says something about you.

SamEsme · 2021-12-12T08:32:43+00:00

*Highkey. And not probably, definitely. And "rape play" doesn't exist, it's rape and he's a rapist.

msssst · 2021-12-12T11:33:54+00:00

If their opening line is “where are you from” 🚩🚩🚩 clearly only interested in you / fetishising you for your ethnicity.

Specific-Composer300 · 2021-12-12T12:17:52+00:00

Also remember a man of any race can pull this with a woman of any race. In Western Europe especially, middle eastern men fetishize and target white women cause they think they are "easy".

AphoticEnigma_ · 2021-12-12T18:09:25+00:00

This also goes for men who are the same race as you and then say to you “you don’t look like your race, you look mixed/other race, I don’t like women from my race usually but you’re different looking”, and they expect you take it as compliment when it’s not, it’s just a massive insult

Like f you and your fetish for Caucasian looking women

Skittleschild02 · 2021-12-13T02:07:10+00:00

That’s all I was running into on dating apps. And ran me off completely from them 🤦🏾‍♀️

moonartemis1989 · 2021-12-12T13:14:58+00:00

Low key????????? Not low-key. High key

europoor24 · 2021-12-12T13:10:09+00:00

Also this needs to be added; if you have an.. unpopular/not obvious ethnicity, so many of these guys who pretend to care about being educated" just want to gaslight you and pretend they know better then you what you're actually talking about.

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Title	'RACE PLAY' probably means he's lowkey a RACIST
Author	albahe12
Upvotes	746
Comments	35
Date	December 12, 2021 1:34 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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